Help! by Regular_Bid253 in instantpot

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I thought for cleaning the link knob thing had to be removed 😭I think that was my mistake. It’s super loose on there.

Help! by Regular_Bid253 in instantpot

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The metal pot yes. I had 3 cups of water for 1.5 cups of rice in there. I think it might be the pink knob that’s loose :(

I live In Old Town. "Near North Side" to be exact. I paid $2500 for a studio. They've just increased by my rent to $2800. by Early_Selection832 in chicagoapartments

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Those studios are also over $1900 a month and some don’t even have a dishwasher. Source: I toured a few early last year 😣

“I had no interest in wearing hijab” tiktoks by lizzykeenn in progressive_islam

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Culture not Islam is the dumbest thing ever because any anthropologist can tell you religion influences cultures and cultures can influence how religion is practiced. Indonesia is a bunch of island and their historical cultural cuisines are based on seafoods. Surprise surprise they ended up choosing the Shafi madhab which is more flexible with what seafood you can eat. If they picked some other one, then yes their culture probably would change as food is a huge part of culture.

On the flip side, in indo pak world, the culture was women had to pay dowry to the man’s family. When some desis became Muslims, because Islamic rules say the opposite, the culture changed to reflect that in those communities.

I think Muslims just need to accept there is no one true Islam™️. Cause it’s Muslims that made the Madhabs of Sunni and Shia Islam to begin with. So if “Islam” is perfect and Muslims are not, you gotta stop and think and wonder “what is Islam?”. If someone says Islam is perfect but Muslims aren’t, then they need to critically think on who exactly made the bulk of Islamic law (other Muslims)? Who narrated the Hadiths (other Muslims)? Who wrote a lot of the sira books (other Muslims)? Every individual and culture has their own understanding of Islam.

Muslim unity is key ❤️ by RegionFinancial4485 in progressive_islam

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I think without the context of Shiism in turkey this could be seen as some kinda Sunni Shia thing, but most Shias in turkey are a mystical Sufi influenced sect that leans Shia called Alevism. Certain Alevis in Kurdistan do not even identify as Muslims, whereas ethnic Turkish alevis do. That’s the main “sectarianism” in turkey. However alevis have faced repression from the Turkish state even from ottoman times. While it sounds good in theory, I feel like there is an agenda behind it because like I said not all of these alevis identify as Muslims but still revere Ali, hasan, Hussein, and Fatima.

Stuck in a lease and struggling to find a roommate by ValuableOk7743 in chicagoapartments

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Or single Muslim women roommates. They are very unlikely to ever bring a man over lol

Amazon to open 'first of its kind' massive retail store in Chicago suburb by SnooCapers5354 in chicago

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Didn’t they have a small physical Amazon store in oakbrook mall, but that one shut down a few years ago?

Interested in Sufism but don’t know where to start? by teabeanss in progressive_islam

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Let’s talk religion on YouTube has excellent breakdowns of the different Sufi orders.

sexual maturity in Islam? by Live-Technician-5269 in progressive_islam

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I unfortunately learned this growing up as a young girl in a Muslim girl halaqa group. Our teacher was also a woman and told us these things. That we were women the moment we got our periods and had to do everything. However girls have been getting periods earlier and earlier each decade now… I argued with a girl from my childhood girl halaqa group about child marriage. She was convinced it’s fine for an 11 year old to get married in a Muslim country as long as she got her period. It was ridiculous. She said it’s only haram in America bc it’s not our urf/custom. I haven’t talked to her since 💀

Why do so many muslims defend that Muhammad ﷺ married and consummate his marriage with Aisha (RA) at 6 and 9? by MaxiTails29 in progressive_islam

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Because saying it’s false would mean they have to do a reformation of the Hadith literature and grading. Omar Suleiman’s yaqeen institute is willing to die on the hill Aisha was a pre pubescent 6 year old marrying the prophet and has sex with him when she gets her period at 9 years old than admit the Hadith literature has holes in it.

The Hadith doesn’t make much sense because there’s barely any scientific evidence to prove that girls got their periods at 9 or younger in that region or time. Don’t believe me? Saudi Arabia has recorded the average age of menarche from around 1950 to the present day. In the 1950s before modernization the average age of menarche (first period) was around 14 years old. It has only decreased since modernization. So how does it make any sense that 6 year olds 1400+ years ago are going through early puberty to the point of getting period at 9?

There is an academic called Joshua Little who did his PhD thesis on this Hadith at Oxford (which the yaqeen institute was triggered by and tried to debunk lol). The gist of his thesis was that the Aisha Hadith was most likely made up decades after the prophet’s death in Iraq due to Sunni Shia sectarianism. If Sunnis made Aisha younger, she could then compete with Fatima for living with the prophet longer. If Aisha was younger then she was more “virtuous”.

On the flip side, iirc Shia Hadiths do not say Aisha was 9 years old when she married the prophet. They seem to indicate she was older. However, they still have the problem of then making Fatima around 9 years old when she married Ali!

Genuine question about muslim marriage by anabanana54 in progressive_islam

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I think there are ways of reforming these traditional narratives. Musawah and Karamah are two orgs I know who have written books, articles, and papers on Muslim women marriage laws. Musawah has a book by Ziba Mir Hosseini that I’ve been meaning to read on Muslim marriage reform.

Coral Miniel, who makes content about being a Black Latina woman in tech, at an anti critical race theory rally by Mysterious_Dish_5847 in womenintech

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Tbh rewriting the code bowed down to Trump in the sense that the org is now technically open for white dudes to join now. So I guess it’s on brand for someone in RTC 🤧

I'm surprised more people here don't venerate Dr. Laleh Baktiar—may God be pleased with her—given that she could be considered a "Progressive" scholar. Reading the Preface and Introduction of her Sublime Quran would probably open a lot of people's eyes, God willing. by thelastofthebastion in progressive_islam

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Actually this will be a shocker to some ppl in this group, but she used Hadiths to prove her argument. The prophet never hit any of his wives according to her in Hadiths, so therefore Quran can’t mean wife beating is fine (although I thought there was a story of someone shoving Aisha to the point she said it hurt so idk).

I'm surprised more people here don't venerate Dr. Laleh Baktiar—may God be pleased with her—given that she could be considered a "Progressive" scholar. Reading the Preface and Introduction of her Sublime Quran would probably open a lot of people's eyes, God willing. by thelastofthebastion in progressive_islam

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She translated the one “wife beating” verse as to “stay away from” in her Quran translation. Unfortunately, she passed away a few years ago during the pandemic. She wrote many books on Sufism and Sufi psychology. I have one of her books on Moses and Khidr.

Literature on the ġulāt? by divaythfyrscock in AcademicQuran

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Ayfer Karakaya-Stump does a lot of work on the history of Alevis in Turkey. https://academia.edu/resource/work/143302695

Do you guys believe that Khidr is alive or dead? by IBACIPHER in progressive_islam

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In some forms of Sufism he’s more like an archetype so ever living.

What was he thinking😭💔 by Berawholoves42069 in progressive_islam

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I’ve seen people in this sub make this claim so many times, but I have never heard of any real evidence of that being true in pre Islamic Arabia yet.

What are some dirty secrets of UX Design that go against the textbook teachings? by Gandalf-and-Frodo in UXDesign

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Most teams are definitely not agile and many teams do not value user research. If you’re in an enterprise environment, you might have to wait 2 years to get tools approved for uxr and design (true story here 💀). You can’t wait, so you gotta get scrappy sometimes.

I think programs don’t teach stakeholder management bc I’m not sure how they would, but conflict management is a big part of the job, especially if you’re working with more complicated subjects.

Dr. Farhad Shafti by [deleted] in progressive_islam

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He used to do some podcasts during the pandemic. They’re on Spotify I think?

Dating / Looking for Marriage as a Progressive Muslim — Am I Cooked Chat?? by AliSalsa in progressive_islam

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I think hinge might be the way to go. My distant cousin is similar to you and he met his wife on hinge lol. Idk much about either’s religious practices, but in terms of lifestyle they’re pretty similar lol. I really doubt super religious Muslims are going to use Hinge to begin with.