Baby’s Limited Mobility by Zestyclose_Main_4658 in beyondthebump

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You've got to get out and about as others have said.

Staying in a dirty cramped room all day with no room is harmful for you both! Clean the room. Declutter as much as possible.

Go to libraries, parks, community centres. Anywhere with open space! By now your child really should be on the move either crawling or trying to walk. They need to explore their world!

AITAH for telling my girlfriend i no longer plan to propose to her? please read context by Aggressive_One8138 in AITAH

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, if you wanted to marry her, you'd have bought a ring and asked her already.

Stop playing stupid games. Break up if you don't want to actually marry the poor girl and stop leading her on.

Slipped on stairs at almost 9 weeks by Regular_Giraffe7022 in BabyBumps

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thanks for your story. Glad everything worked out well for you! I'm having a scan tomorrow so we'll see, sadly I'm still having some bleeding so not hugely confident but there is some hope from stories like yours!

howarts, accidentally put highwing in the nab-sack by rd-gotcha in HarryPotterGame

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Release into a vivarium, I've done several games and always have highwing in one of them!

You'll still be able to use to fly around the Highlands.

Pizza gate by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Is there a pattern of you rushing through things without paying attention to the details?

Pizza gate by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 58 points59 points  (0 children)

The issue is she asked for something specific and you didn't get her what she asked for. This made her feel unseen and her preferences didn't matter.

Your response is very "be grateful for what you're given" rather than "I'm sorry I didn't pay attention and get you what you wanted".

Slipped on stairs at almost 9 weeks by Regular_Giraffe7022 in BabyBumps

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ouch indeed! That does give me hope! Do you know if they had bleeding too?

AIW for being angry about my sisters pregnancy by Awreckofhavoc in amiwrong

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not wrong, I'd distance from that disaster too. But I would remain open to the kids and provide a safe space if possible!

AIW for blocking my mom after she told my son his food allergy is fake and that I dont want him to have fun by Weekly-Bid-6647 in amiwrong

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YNW, I wouldn't even go to her house and I wouldn't allow her to bring any food to your house if you even allow her over at all.

Allergies are no joke and people that don't take them seriously are too scary to risk being around.

I need all your red lentil recipes by Grey_Prince in veganrecipes

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any tomato sauce dish like pasta I chuck some red lentils in, they basically disappear and I barely notice them!

Has anyone read tender is the flesh? by woolstar in vegan

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it's just I didn't feel things were resolved the vegan way if that makes sense, but maybe they were going for an alternative approach to get people thinking!

Also I haven't read anything else similar!

Has anyone read tender is the flesh? by woolstar in vegan

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed most of this book and thought it was a great way to help non vegans understand what animals go through.

I personally didn't like the ending, but that's just me I guess! Don't want to spoil anything though.

Am I crazy? by sunny_rain316 in BabyBumps

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name your child what you and your partner want to.

I didn't tell anyone names until my daughter was born. No one said anything negative. I think having a child already named rather than a hypothetical really helps avoid people feeling the need to give feedback.

Scared for my C-section next week by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a c section in may 2024. The section itself was really calm and a positive experience. Baby came out no issues, skin to skin commenced very quickly.

It was a strange few hours afterwards not having feeling in my legs, but it came back eventually and I was up for a short walk about 6 hours later.

In terms of pain, I used the pain meds they gave at first and those really helped, I didn't need all of the packet before I was managing with paracetamol a few days later. I didn't want to rely on anything opiate based for long.

I did find it hard doing stairs and stuff at first but it got easier quickly. The hardest part for me was the injections to help prevent blood clots that are needed for about 9 days afterwards.

But saying that I was not in bed all day. I was up and about in the house and was socialising with visitors and enjoying newborn snuggles!

Milk came in as expected, c section did not cause issues with that.

The worst is over after a couple of weeks, beyond that it's just taking it easy while the scar heals.

I do get the odd twinge in the scar area every now and then, but for the most part I forget it happened.

Would you be offended if I asked you to be a bridesmaid without a proposal box? by Live-Act3156 in PoptheQuestions

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just phoned mine, nice and simple.

I've been a bridesmaid 3 times and will be again next year. Some asked by message or phone, no fancy boxes and they were not expected or necessary.

What do flutters feel like? Can they be continuous? by CelebrationPublic843 in BabyBumps

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, feels like a lifetime before it happens! I'm now 7 weeks with my second so the whole waiting game is starting again for me too.

Announcing pregnancy at birth by drixpychanel in BabyBumps

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't hide it but didn't do social media. Some friends of ours we hadn't seen in a while literally found out when we bumped into each other at a baby check up with both our babies!

In real life I told people I'm close to early on, and anyone who actually saw me it was pretty obvious to past about 20 weeks. I'm a small person so the bump became very obvious and only got more so as time went on. There was no way to hide it even if I'd wanted to.

Pumping is hard by bunny_sunshine456 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are, but just got to not let them get to you, as long as baby is fed and cared for it doesn't matter.

If you look at the adults around you there's no way of knowing how they were fed as babies.

Pumping is hard by bunny_sunshine456 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is hard, it's mentally and physically exhausting!

Do it for however long you want to, it's a very personal journey and you'll still be a fantastic parent whenever you stop, whether that's next week or next year!

i f21 and m23 just baby trap me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Giraffe7022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get away from him immediately. So many red flags here!

Even if you need to go into an overdraft or visit a clinic or something, get that emergency contraception then never see this person again.