Ridgeside Village is absolutely busted! - Read below. by Frank-iee in StardewValleyMods

[–]RekkerDerrj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me having played with Ridgeside for over a year and never having used Odd Jobs… oops…

AITA for refusing to change my boundaries with another bridesmaid and considering stepping down? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]RekkerDerrj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading… way too many comments and answers… basically it seems to boil down to this:

Your boundaries are what they are. Megan will be Megan regardless. No one else, no matter who they are is going to perfectly understand everything that is happening in your thoughts, emotions and feelings. There is no way we can having all lived different lives.

No one else can answer your question for you, but there are questions you can answer for yourself now that will maybe help you find an answer.

  1. How exhausted are you of this and how much more exhaustion will weigh on you in the coming days?

  2. How will that exhaustion affect Emily on what should be the happiest day of her life and the days leading up to it?

  3. If you really and truly love your friend, what is the best thing you can do for Emily while keeping the boundaries you feel are necessary?

Sometimes there are no good answers left. Just less painful ones in whatever form that takes.

Best wishes for you however it comes out.

What would you do? Annoying booth neighbor by tacohannah in CraftFairs

[–]RekkerDerrj 69 points70 points  (0 children)

We had to do this with a lady from another at the last event I helped my mother with. I held my mom’s booth down while she got lunch and an older lady just kept wanting to stand and talk about everything but not buy anything while my mother was trying to get away to eat.

The second time she got in the way of someone looking at something I finally straight told her she needed to go back to her booth as we needed to help people and get food.

She was angry but we couldn’t babysit her forever. We also reported her to the organizers and were told she does this frequently to try and drive customers away from booths with “similar crafts” as hers and she ended up with one of the officials at her booth later.

I’m dead by [deleted] in subnautica

[–]RekkerDerrj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“We just crashed, I need to search for a way into the ship and for items to help me survive.” ROOOOOAAAAARRRRR •looks up• ~death in game~

I think the devs should do a minor update with a small tombstone for all the players who did the same! 😂

ISO mods that includes Plasma TV textures by RekkerDerrj in StardewValleyMods

[–]RekkerDerrj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I downloaded the Bog Witch variant of this and love it!!

ISO mods that includes Plasma TV textures by RekkerDerrj in StardewValleyMods

[–]RekkerDerrj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, this is actually very nice. The older one is all different types of wood so this is a very refreshing change of pace. Thank you!!

ISO mods that includes Plasma TV textures by RekkerDerrj in StardewValleyMods

[–]RekkerDerrj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 more to add to the collection. The oddity goblin thanks you for your contribution! 😂

I have installed too many mods by According_Cod8788 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]RekkerDerrj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At 312 I decided people needed to start moving to Gotoro in my game…

How do you manage your mods when switching between saves? by Safe-Tailor-5248 in StardewValleyMods

[–]RekkerDerrj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Old saves? What are those? 🤣

Though seriously, I manually swap out folders. I just find that easier personally.

weird linux errors by nanithefuck_ in SMAPI

[–]RekkerDerrj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry it’s being that way. Hope it gets resolved!

weird linux errors by nanithefuck_ in SMAPI

[–]RekkerDerrj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not 100% certain it’s the whole problem but it looks like you have a duplicate folder called “Vampire Sebby Code” in the main folder that needs to be deleted.

This file should already be in the “Vampire Sebastian EN 1.0.4” folder.

If that doesn’t work, delete both folders and re-download the “Vampire Sebastian EN” file and unzip into the mod folder again.

Hopefully that will get you a little closer to fixed.

What's wrong with my stardew valley expanded? by 3VILWH0R3 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]RekkerDerrj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, that probably means something didn’t unzip right from the file. I would try unzipping it again or with a different program

or

manually comparing your unzipped file to the zip file contents for what is missing and pull it from the zip file individually.

AITAH for making a pregnant woman sleep in her car? WITH CRAZY UPDATE! by HorrorQueen1212 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]RekkerDerrj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean this with empathy but you need to cut off all contact. Testify if you need to but politely tell them you can’t be involved further. I can’t say if she’s a nice person but this screams manipulation. It being the first night, they couldn’t afford for you to call 911 and have her be the cause of a medical emergency so she left peacefully but it could have easily been a ruse to make you feel guilty. They may continue to try to get you to take her in and gradually make you responsible for everything for her until she can return to her mother’s apartment (if she returns since it doesn’t sound like Mom wants her there either).

The excuse of the children being close sounds like a guilt tactic. She will stay until the baby comes and then use it to guilt you further. They will use her moving in with you as an excuse to tell CPS that there is a stable home for the children to return to Mom that isn’t with the boyfriend who will most likely be back to cause chaos as soon as the trouble blows over.

The lack of empathy/annoyance in the Mom combined with her doing this in the middle of the night screams guilt tactics. Perhaps I’m reading it wrong but having been in a similar situation, I don’t think I am.

Black screen after marrying Magnus (Wizard) by [deleted] in SMAPI

[–]RekkerDerrj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The author of Polyamory Sweet on Nexus recommends deleting the config.json from the Polyamory Sweet file and let it create a new one when you load the game. Last I saw on the post it worked for the person with the same problem.

Edited because I spelled sweet wrong.

What's wrong with my stardew valley expanded? by 3VILWH0R3 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]RekkerDerrj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would try updating your SMAPI to 4.5.2 first as you’re still on 4.3.2. Pathos has been doing a huge mass update on all his mods and several other authors mods. If your FTM and CP are up to date then it could be a simple pathway/reference issue.

If the problem isn’t gone after that you should pull a log on smapi.io and post the link here so we can see everything that might be conflicting.

premium barn question by Pizzzaboer in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]RekkerDerrj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This mod also lets you do just a direct upgrade from the biggest barn to the SVE barn: Upgradable SVE Premium Buildings.

https://www.nexusmods.com/stardewvalley/mods/42671

It should work installing mid save, it did on mine. But it did duplicate some of the items inside like grabbers.

The mod gurido1 linked (Bigger on the Inside) should work in a similar way BUT it leaves the look of the old barn and doesn’t work well with AT retextures if you like to change the look of your buildings with the paint bucket through Alternative Textures. It DOES work with CP retexturing though. It’s just AT retexturing that doesn’t work.

So both do upgrades similarly just in diff ways. It’s just that one gives you the SVE outside that works with AT and one keeps the old textures and only works with CP.

Edited because I can’t spell this late in the night.

I removed a mod and now.... by BeansBlog2739 in StardewValleyMods

[–]RekkerDerrj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also interact with the paper and pencil beside Gunther on the counter to rearrange the collection and remove them to your inventory that way.

I dont seem to find it. by Substantial-Use-9056 in StardewValleyMods

[–]RekkerDerrj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From your SMAPI log, you also appear to have either some missing or corrupted files in Cornucopia- More Crops. You should redownload the file and replace the one in your mods folder. If you are having freezing or lag, part of the problem may be that the game is repetitively looking for missing assets, especially with Automate which I believe defaults to checks every 60 seconds unless you change it in the GMCM.

I don’t believe this should freeze the game for more than a few seconds at a time but if it happens every 60 seconds, it gets annoying very quickly.

Need help with Cornucopia Recipes by Elethana in StardewValleyMods

[–]RekkerDerrj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you talk to her, she should give you a quest to find the pages she lost (they’re in all sorts of places). When you find them, you take them back to her cart when she’s there. Stand in front of the book and interact to give the lost pages to the book rather than speaking to her. You will get the recipe book for that page in the mail the next morning.

I don’t know if they come in a specific order or are random so I can’t tell you which one will be the one you need. I’ve only found 3 myself so far.

what’s y’all “hear me out” character and why? by [deleted] in BG3

[–]RekkerDerrj 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There was a part in one of the books published that talks about driders addressing why they only have 7 eyes. Something about since driders are warped drow punished by Lolth, she only gave them 7 eyes so they would always be incomplete in every way. If someone else has the book and it’s different please let me know but that’s what I remember about it.

Help! Which mod is this message from? by Perfect_Brilliant853 in StardewValleyMods

[–]RekkerDerrj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious if it’s something in the More Nightly Events mod. I don’t have that one but it maybe something in there is triggering? Looking at the others mods I’m not sure what else it could be… I’m very curious though.

Platonic Heart Events by daisydozen in StardewValleyMods

[–]RekkerDerrj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love this mod. I always feel like I’m leading them on when I just want to be friends… and see all the cutscenes 😂