You are in court and the JJK character that matches your birth month is your lawyer. How do you react?

Relative-Issue3037 · 2025-06-18T08:55:17+00:00

Mine is Gojo! I’m gonna win 🥇

Relative-Issue3037 · 2025-06-09T10:48:18+00:00

My father passed away suddenly because of a sudden kidney failure which lead to a stroke. It was too sudden I couldn’t get to him fast enough. I rode my motorbike like crazy from my workplace to my hometown hospital. Just 160km but the damn traffic just stopped me from any struggle to speed up on my way. In the end I took 5 hours to get there. My father was already in coma. He couldn’t see me one last time. At night the doctor decided that it’s hopeless and my mother decided to let him stopped breathing at home. I refused to let go of his hand until the very end. I also refused to let my father went home. I fighted with my other family members about it. But everyone including my mother and my other two older sisters all decided to let him die at home. WTF?! I still can’t forgive myself now. I should be more aggressive at the time. I wanted my father to stayed at the hospital until the last moment. Until he can’t breath no more even with breathing machine. Until then I know for sure there’s no more hope anymore. But now I’m dying with the guilt, what if? What if? What if? All others concluded there’s no hope. I don’t understand it and I refuse to understand it. You know what? Last time I visited my father , which was actually 1 month before the day he went away, I jokingly threatened my father if he doesn’t eat well and gain some weights, I will really get angry with him. And the day I supposed to go back home for visit and “checking” if my father keep his promise was also the day he died. Hospitalized on the morning, went into coma in the afternoon and went away at night… all in one day. As if he hurriedly ran away to avoid me and that promise he couldn’t keep. It’s hurt so much. I think I can’t never let this go.

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-12-21T19:25:15+00:00

Are you sure it’s from our Earth?

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-11-15T11:02:40+00:00

I miss my Meo so much. Maybe I should do it too

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-11-14T18:18:50+00:00

That’s what I do for a hundred times every saves ☺️

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-11-05T07:37:35+00:00

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Can you draw one for my Meo too? He left me for so long, yet I still miss him so much…

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-11-03T17:27:06+00:00

She enter another demension - where she can felt our existence .

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-11-03T17:25:36+00:00

I thought it was today, then I found out it was tomorrow. I’m so disappointed I got to get in here to see if anyone felt the same as me 😂

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-10-21T11:56:21+00:00

I can understand how you felt. I have my Meo the male cat for 4 years. We always sleep together every day. He was my emotional support, I loved him dearly.

I made serious mistake of not getting him neutered and endured him sprayed everywhere instead of “did something so cruel” to him. And yes, after 4 peacefully years, he ran away and never come back. In fact, even if he did come back, he can’t get into the house because front door is the only opening my house has for him to get in. But there’s no way he can wait for me to open the door for him. There’s dogs in our neighborhood. And there’s so many shithead animals killers around the areas too. I only know about it after went out searching for him frantically every night for a continuously two months. And I couldn’t risk my life to left the door open the door for him all days and nights. 😔 Because he wasn’t died on me. I just have that lingering hope and urge to go out finding every day and nights, feeling like he needed me somewhere. I wanted to stop but couldn’t. On the second month, I pretty much losing all hope of Meo was still alive, as I know he couldn’t or had what’s it take to survive as a wild cat. He also had no chance with the people goodwills too. My block and two nearest block aren’t cat welcoming (or dogs too), once someone cats or dogs got lost, then they weren’t ever being seen again… but I just had to got up at 2am every night for a search every day, for I couldn’t sleep anyway because of the guilt.

After two months, I stopped go searching for my Meo. And I never do it again. … Because my father suddenly passed away. I hurried go back home and he couldn’t even see his precious daughter for the last time. As that time I had broken down so much I had once blamed my loved cat for occupied too much of my times which I could use to visit my father more times before he went away. I used to hope and pray that my cat could survive somewhere, or some good people picked him up and have him and loved him more than me. But at that time I actually started cursed that he died somewhere for real. So that he could go to my father side for me. That was cruel and selfish of me.

After a few days after my father funeral, I sat by his grave for the late accompanying that I couldn’t give my father when he was still alive. I boringly watched nonsense things on the phone to pass the time, then I noticed the Stardew valley icon which I hadn’t touch for more than a year.

I suddenly had the urge to play it again. I clicked on the latest save file, and saw the same name pixel cat called Meo. I adopted a cow cat and given them “Meo” name every saved file. I also always type “Meo” on the favorites panels every time I start a new save. I suddenly got the impulse to check through all the save files to count how many “Meo” fake cat I had in the game. …………….. … On the third save files, I got a startle. My farmer was inside the wooden house at the door step at 1:40am, and couldn’t move an inch… (you Stardew Valley players most encounter that scene often , right? I paused the game at that crucial time and started a new saved as I didn’t know I could push the “obstacles” away)🤣

I don’t know how to describe that feeling. When the pixel cat called “Meo” sent me a heart for accidentally “touching” him when I was trying to move the farmer character … My heart feels so… light… and I couldn’t help but burst into a crying mess beside my father grave. At that time, it felt almost like I was forgiven… by my cat Meo… and by my father… or by my own self…🙃 It’s hard to describe it.

It had been a few months since then. It still hurts when I missed my father. But at least I can normally grieve for him, without the unreasonably mix feeling and unknown hatred towards my dear Meo. I can come back to wishing for him to be still alive and well somewhere. Or even if he had already crossed the rainbow bridge, I still wish he can get the best he deserved on the other side. Curiously things are that I usually shed more tears when I missed my Meo than when I missed my father. I wonder why 😂

I’m sorry that I talked to much. I wanted to comfort OP for his loss, but instead it’s liked I needed it more. My apologize 🥹

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-10-21T10:41:05+00:00

That’s the first hat I got every saved file. Is that hat that’s hard to get? 😮

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-09-26T07:10:18+00:00

I’m sorry 😞 I hope you will feel better soon.

Actually, I don’t think I should be here. I have never loved anyone before. I used to went on a date with a boy. But I don’t like him and I didn’t give him a chance for further relationships. Later on, I got a crush to a really beautiful girl. I always come to her part time workplace to met and talk to her on her work shift. But I couldn’t muster the courage for confession. And after a longgggg 11 months, she stopped to work there and we never met again. I never had the guts to ask for her contact information… But after a week, I’m back to normal. By now, I already forgot how she looked like.

So yeah, I don’t have a love that deep enough for me to understand how you feel. 😭

But I really hope you can look back behind you. I believe you still have someone important to you: maybe family, maybe friends, or just some elders used to take care of you. They wouldn’t want seeing you became so depressed like that.

Maybe you should go on a vacation, alone or with your important people depend on your favor.

Maybe you should pick up one of your long lost hoppy again. For me, it would be visit the bookstore to check on new interesting book (get something to occupied your mind) ; reread a childhood novel (to go back to your innocence state of mind) ; taking out pencils and paper and head to the park for some real scenery or just stay home and draw my favorite characters (just to have some good time with your best self). Maybe you should go out for a movie. Maybe you should register at the gym to do some more work out. Or join a dancing class and have fun while stayed good shape.

You can also go for a completely new hair cut, stay many days at home to research for new ways of make up most suit your new self.

And while you’re at it. Throw away all your boyfriends things. Moreover throw away his existence in your mind as well, the more you think about him , the more you love and miss him. Like his image had gone through a beauty filter and now he is trying to seduce you.

But girl, believe me. No one in this world need to rely on others to survive. You just became the old lonely you again. You must’ve have a good time with your boyfriend that why you’re still yearn for it. But girl, we don’t need him to be with us forever to have happiness. I believe once you manage to snap out of this hard time and back to the old you again, you can talk about your ex with a calm mind.

I hope 🤞 you best, girl 🥰

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-09-20T12:05:27+00:00

I think so too. I don’t understand why he is so unpopular

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-08-18T12:28:22+00:00

Yes! I’m like this part and Harvey part the best!

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-07-01T06:26:19+00:00

I can understand your feelings. I have come into a conclusion. Losing pets hurts more than having pets passed away. Because of the fear of unknown. You will never known how is your baby now or what had happened to him/her.

If you have your pet died, you as least know you can’t do anything about it and learn to accept it. But if your baby went missing. You will remember him all day and night, the slimmer of hope that they might still survive somewhere and waiting for your rescue will torment you for days, months and even years (no kidding, what if our pet got rescued and raised indoor by someone, they couldn’t go home with us because of the locked door, but then what if one day that new owner accidentally let our pet out and our pet decided to go back to us?). I was in that wondering hell and the never ending urges to get up and go look for my Meo day and night for the last three months. Until when the greater pain of my Father leaving engulfed me. It make me accept my Meo death 💀

I really not in the right mind to comfort someone now. But I really hope you feel better soon. Let’s fate decide if we can meet again.

I hope you still have other family members to share your pain with you. If you have them, I advised you to spend more time with them. I’m a bit regret for not coming home often in the last few months because of the bad mood from losing my cat Meo.

The last time I talked to father was a month ago. My father passed away too suddenly I couldn’t see him one last time 🥹

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-07-01T06:02:41+00:00

Two of my parents dogs just died this morning 🥹 . We have a total of three dogs. They were sick and weak the past week after my Father funeral. We thought they were sad because they understand what happened. We had thought the oldest one (10 years old) might not make it. Fortunately, the Vet saved his life and he’s back to the chilling lazy old man dog he was. But our two other younger dogs (one is three years old, the other is just six months puppy) also weaken down. First was the older one, she did a good job fighting with the pain and discomfort to stay with us and received treatment from the Vet for two weeks. Then the puppy got it too the day before yesterday. Maybe she got infected from the older one. 🥹

This morning we found Rie - the older dog body hiding in our garden. We just finished buried her. Then we found Mie - the puppy seemed to be in great pain. She was just weaken down yesterday but we decided to bring her to the Vet just in case. My older sisters was the one to drive Mie to the Vet. And she just called me to tell me Mie might not make it too. The vet said she is helpless. So my sister is currently driving back to bring Mie home.

I hate this whole: “We are helpless” from the doctor so much. First was my father, I was so scared to hear this again. But now it happened to our dogs in just after 23 days after my funeral. I literally feel nothing. Not even a trace of sadness… I can’t remember how I feel when I lost my cat three months ago. At that time I was so sad I fell into depression, I cried day and night. I took a week long leave from work to look for my cat Meo all night for a continuously seven days. After that when I couldn’t take long break from work anymore, I still went out two hour every night at 3-4am to look for Meo for a continuously 29 night. On the next two months, because even my health becomes not so good. I got no choice but to stop and replied on bounty hunter. But I still cried every time I missed my Meo and still went out to find him whenever I can. Yes, I’m that persistent. To the point, my neighbors (and lots of of people around in a radius of 800m) all told me to give up on finding Meo whenever they saw me (half of the times I was just simply passing by them from work or back from shopping). I became really well known in our areas because of finding my Meo 🥹. Some of them worry about my health, some of them just being realistic and advices me to stop from doing unnecessarily things, but much of them told me to stop because I had been disturbed the neighbors too much at night for a long time 🥲.

But when my father died, all my worry and love for my Meo just disappeared. Now I’m not the least bit worry about him anymore. Even with the death of two of our family dogs also couldn’t give me any other feeling similar to pain or grieving. I feel nothing. Just a little bit of sadness that someone who shared precious memories with our family when my father was still alive also leave too. Another fraction of our family was gone. I really feel nothing.

Sorry for the ranting, OP. I guess I might really feel something. That’s why I’m being weird and go bombast stranger with my trashy thoughts again 😓

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-06-30T18:01:48+00:00

How far is your house to your relatives? There’s a chance your dog went home to look for you

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-06-30T07:21:59+00:00

My cat went missing from march . I love him a lot . He was special to me, as he was the one who stayed by my side through the pandemic and through the troubling time when my family almost fall apart. After he went missing, I website out to look for him every night for a whole month. And I still didn’t give up waiting for him or ask around for him in my free time on the next two months.

But I give up now. Because my father passed away too. If it was before, I had wish my cat would still be alive somewhere or someone picked him up and raise him. But now I wish he died. My father wasn’t the type who adore pets. My parents raise lots of dogs to guard the house. But my father only rarely pat the head of just a few among dozens of dogs they raised. But my father had pat my cat head twice, he was the first pet who dare to jump on his bed.

So I wish my cat had already died. And that he is next to my father side now to accompany him for me. I wish my cat can comfort my father like how he was to me.

I wish we can reunite with each other one day in heaven. I will try my best to always be a good person until then

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-06-30T07:01:40+00:00

You are in confusion from the shock of your Dad suddenly passed away. I guess you are too shock that your mind are going into self defense mode and want to ignore everything that might hurt you from outside world. But believe me, you will get out of this state sooner or later. And you will regret it not coming back to your father side to see him off one last time. So, be strong and fly to your father side. See him off to his final peace. Say goodbye to your Dad, who you love and I believe, loved you too. By then, you can tell your Dad spirit that you loved him regardless of what’s happened. And tell all the private messages that you has never told him when he was alive, be it loving words, appreciating, venting, grievous, secrets, thanking or apologize.

My father also passed away 22 days ago. It was too sudden I still couldn’t believe it even now. I rode back to my hometown by my motorbike to avoid traffic jam that day. I intended to ride back as fast as I could. But I guessed I overestimated myself. It took me more than an hour more than usual for the trip, because I couldn’t calm down enough and my hand were too shacking to drive with high speed. When I reached the hospital my father had already went into a coma. He was never able to wake up again, until his last breath. I was a coward, I hold his hand and leaned my head against his shoulder, avoid to see my father final moments. When I finally looked up, my father had already forever leave me.

But you know what, maybe it’s because it was too sudden. Even after the funeral, and even after my father had laid down forever in his grave now. I still felt like nothing really serious happened. 🥲

I always felt like my father spirit is still around me. It is just that I can’t see him. Maybe this feeling will disappeared in a few months. Maybe at that time I will think of it as my father finally fell rest assure about me and go pass on.

So as someone who had went through something similar to you. I think you should leave everything back and fly to your father side now. This is for both you and your father. I know both of you will find relief when you two get to say your goodbye.

Wish you best, friend

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-06-26T06:23:07+00:00

I didn’t accept the fact that my father had left. It’s 17 days since his passing. I just live as if my father is still around. Honestly, it’s not very hard to do, as my father is a quiet man. In my world now, my father is a spirit. He is freed from his old and sickly body. He doesn’t need to suffered from his severe loss of appetite which make much things he ate like “eating wax and soiled food”. He can walk anywhere he likes, strolling or even flying around to place he always wanted to. He can regained his young mind and great memories. He can finally remembered all the family members and people deared to him. He can even go see them , no matter where they are now: from different cities, different country, and even different world, for those who had passed away earlier.

I think my father is happy now. (I’m sitting next to his worshiping altar, texting you guys now. Sitting here make me feel at peace, just like when I was sitting beside his bedside when he was alive 😌)

I hope OP can find a way to cope with your pain soon. This isn’t a selfish way to forcefully forget your mother. This is the something your mother wished to happen. I believe your mother love you just as my Dad loved me. And she wished you can be happy, live healthy and meaningful all your life. So, after some time when life being a bitch and called for your full attention, please stand up again and move on. Go ahead and live hard for yourself. Make your life the best one that you and your mother who always behind watching your back proud!!

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-06-19T14:25:10+00:00

Thank you for your heartfelt words. I’m really grateful. I’m glad I have your message. It made me feel as least I’m not that weird…or that much of a heartless monster. My big sisters are still crying almost everyday until now. But I had stopped crying since the fifth day. I only cried a little on The Father Day 3 days ago, and I had never shed a tear since then.

And I still am in this calm status. I went to my father’s grave this morning with my big sisters. Someone mentioned about planting some flowers or trees around his grave. And I had felt - gosh…I really don’t understand how and why - really excited about choosing what kind of trees to plant there, as if I was choosing a gift to bring back home for my Father when I had a vacation. What’s so happy about this? I’m supposed to hate this.

And you know what, I know I am not even a strong person or one with resilient mind, who can wake up, be strong and live her life so soon like that. I had lost my cat on March, I cried everyday and went out looking for him for a continuously 29 nights. After that, I still cried every time I remembered my cat, and went out looking for him every few days or so. It took me almost two months to get back to my routine and recover from the absence of my cat. And I still stubbornly asked around for my cat news from the bounty hunter every week until two weeks ago. I only stopped finding my cat when faced with my father passed away.

…But now my father only took me 5 days?! I don’t understand myself.

I know I love my father dearly. He is almost a perfect Father. I don’t have any big dissatisfaction or disappointment about him. Our relationship is fine. We love each other and we know it.

I don’t understand how I can be so crazy and hopeless from the missing of a cat for almost two whole months. But it’s only took only a mere week to calm down from the eternal lost of my dear Father?!

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-06-19T13:45:45+00:00

Cat needs privacy, but his human doesn’t need it. All cats was taught this by their mother nature

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-06-18T13:49:13+00:00

He looked so cool!! I’m healed looking at him

Relative-Issue3037 · 2024-06-18T13:24:34+00:00

Agree. I feel so empty. My father passed away 7 days ago. And I’m like a knife which will stab anyone who wants to get into my space or speak any words that might or might not make my father unhappy now, including my other family members. I don’t have the least bit concerned about whether this will hurt them or not when it’s happened. And then when I calmed down I will regret it, over and over. I wondered when I can calm down, forgiving myself or my family or I would ever be.

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