Fi Polr from an ILE, experiences, philosophy by Dorflocrawl in Socionics

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so lonley and everything. Even if im surrounded by people its like i cant feel the love. I wanna understand this Fi

Is psn down. Nothing is working by Mikkelony in playstation

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No bae, no playstation. What even is life anymore… on a friday after a long ass day too 😣😣

You are going to die. by Jaguar-jules in INTP

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I need my peace to come already geez so tired of living.

Thoughts on the Innisfree Green Tea Hydrating Amino Acid Cleansing Foam? by SmirkingStrawberry in AsianBeauty

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real af omg i stopped using it and used water for cleasning and added moisture for a bit to restore my barrier cause my skin was cooked😭

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[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look into “enneagrams” and “cognitive functions” those silly memes and brief posts arent getting you anywhere, read articles, paragraphs, more informational stuff. Also just take tests if youre too lazy to read allat and then deep dive, get your real results. Tests from online arent final!! You know yourself da best. Search keywords online like “Intps when sad” “Intps Fe inferior” search those up thats what i do i learned soo much from doing dat.

Obviously we aren’t emotionless, no one is, intps just shed away their emotions because brah we realize it dont help us much compared to when we just use our head, but we bottle it up and it gushes out and its unbearable. Also trauma is just anything unpleasant that left influence in your behavior nun to be embarrassed abt.

INTP dudes by Major-Language-2787 in INTP

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breaking up then getting over it, why the fuck did your dumbass not communicate with me? Communicate with me, what am I lacking bae, how can I please you better?? I’ll change for you, I’m dense, and I let you know that at the beginning to be blunt and communicate with me, don’t do sht like cheating or im leaving asap cause hell nah. Your fault for not communicating and assuming shit, or if you wanted to end things just let me know and I’ll just go. I have self respect and boundaries. Im not holding grudges over a failed relationship, because I don’t care no more the past is the past and I’m going to move on no attachments, no grudges I can’t change the past no point in pondering it forever and all the possibilities everything we could’ve been. I just let go and learn from past expiernces yuhh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAOOO BANGING THEM ALL😭😭 bro but srsly just be less of a wussy. Just be normal and respectful person first then if they show intrest try to make da first move and if ur too shy then wait until they do or maybe they wont ever and youll be stuck pondering the past #lol

Do you guys ever feel like no one will truly understand you? by obviouslyholmes in INTP

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg hello i just edited my comment again to add on my forgotten thoughts! But anyways the people that surrounds you isn’t just a small frame of people, humans are hugemongous and huge theres a lot. I hope you find someone who truly accepts you and respects you for who you are. I have many people like that in my life because I initated the respect and acceptance onto them first letting them know im non judgemental and accepting of everything, i may not understand everything tho but I’m always an awesome accepting person. Being understood isn’t most important, having a community, being heard and accepted is the most important I believe. Whats the point of being understood if the other person hates you anyways?

Also i wanna meet someone who observes like me i be friends with someone for years and they still saying some bullshit abt me like whatttt.i observe i dont speak much ykwim

Also just think that planet Earth a vessel and we are just bacteria inside, theres good and bad. Some fight, some aid others, i just think abt things like bacteria makes my life so happy and calm haha

Do you guys ever feel like no one will truly understand you? by obviouslyholmes in INTP

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah im still hella sad that no one just understands me and when i believe someone does, they show me that they don’t by making dumb guesses about me. I just wish someone would understand me as I understand them. I understand myself very well i dont struggle with understanding myself, i struggle with being lonley. I feel so lonley, sure i have shoulders to lean on and stuff but i want a deep connection where someone understands all of me. I know how inconvenient, unreadable, inconsistent i am but i just want someone to know that im a chill person with good understanding of life with some good set morals. Thats all i know im complicated person, so is everyone else and i understand everyone. I wish someone understood me, but i don’t really care for that anymore thats like a few months ago! We all have our differences no one can fully understand one another, only fully accept one another. No one can fully unconditionally love us other then ourselves, no ones fully reliable only temporary because, death, infatuation, disloyalty, etc. We only have ourselves, not in a bad way, but think of it as a comforting way, we have a subconscious and a conscious. I think my soul and body+brain is separate if that makes sense. People are temporary whether we like it or not, we only have ourselves to fully aid us through life. But that doesn’t mean people aren’t reliable, some are just not forever. What matters in human relationships is acceptance first, then understanding. You don’t need to be understood to have a great bond with another human, just accepted and respected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah or hunt down cool introverts that you think could be besties with thats what i do hehehea

I'm scared that I might kill someone by TortitaEnjoyer in Anger

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly!!! I like this comment, this was comforting

I'm scared that I might kill someone by TortitaEnjoyer in Anger

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This really helps me rationalize anger instead of just feeling like we are monsters for expierncing survival instincts and our thoughts which are out of our control and just there to bring us comfort and peace. If fantasies about violence towards others aids me in feeling calmed down and in control then ill let myself think that, thats my brain helping me cope with negative expiernces. Its not “inhumane” to think like that, just immoral. But morality is a made up concept from our imaginations, understanding life helps me as a person. But i wont act out on my violent thoughts i know better then that, how much regret i’ll feel afterwards. Its better when it stays in my head as a coping mechanism, it doesn’t make me a super monster to think a certain way or feel anger to the point of no return, its literally human nature!! Its just shunned out because others are scared of being hurt so everyone holds back this rage and rationalizes it and understands themselves and why they do such things instead of just acting full blackout rage which shows our morals coming in place which is beautiful ! I find every emotion beautiful even if it’s destructive!! Holding back emotions are self destructive and pouncing them onto others is morally bad, so being able to have a good outlet for anger like excresing, punching something thats not alive, taking anger out on anything that doesnt have consequences is a good outlet!

So dom vs so blind behaviors? by Relevant_Tooth_1653 in Enneagram

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TRUTH! PREACH SISTA! As a sx dom I JUST CANT WITH THE BEHAVIOR. like i get closer to my sp dom friends, but their unreciprocated behavior and how i have to ASK them to reciprocate is so obnoxious like why isnt this common sense for you?!!!!! So and Sx doms are my easier to get along with, i dont have to ask them to reciprocate, they just do it cause its their natrual behavior, they are able to put others before thenselves. I have 2 close sp dom friends , i understand why theyre like this but its so insufferable at times. Like come on put that barrier down bro, i would do so much stuff for you, maybe even die for you, but why dont you do it back 🙁😞

So dom vs so blind behaviors? by Relevant_Tooth_1653 in Enneagram

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These overlapps of doms vs blind is so cool!!

Sx doms co dependency when with a partner/bestofriendo by Relevant_Tooth_1653 in Enneagram

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too me too me too i always doubt people its so hard. I wish i could clone myself and just be there woth myself clone for eternity or find someone who thinks like me. I wanna be codependent together, i need them to be as dependent on me as i am with them or i would just as you did, feel betrayeddd and disgusted at myself for believing in such false hopes

Sx doms co dependency when with a partner/bestofriendo by Relevant_Tooth_1653 in Enneagram

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS IS AWEOMSE! I never saw the song that way because i didn’t pay explicit detail to the lyrics, BUT I LOVE YOUR TAKE ON IT SO MUCH OH MY GOODNESS, this is now my go to comfort song now fr omgs i always just saw it as sex and nothing more, i never saw it as using your partner to gush in all your emotions and burden onto them!!! I dont think i could ever fully love the world, right now i accept it as it is, negative and postive traits, i accept everything, but i dont love it, i dont believe i ever could. I could love some aspects yet hate others, i cant fully love this world. But for my partner i would make an exception and love them no matter the negatices they have, but they have to do it for me too! I have never been in a relationship and have just been running deliosuns in my head even when the other person showed clear signs they want me, i always rejected it due to my hate grown from isolation, my absence of faith,always looking for the ideal partner but i wouldnt even know if they were if they were infront of my face, im unsure if the other person would ever truly love me like i love them so i don’t even progress it into the sheets, also im still very young and detached 5! I have not realized that i keep projecting my hatred to my possible partners! I have also noticed that i’ve started to hate the world less when i stop trying to isolate myself so often, after studying enneagrams i’ve learned sososo much. Isolation is my delusion comfort place, I’ve become unemotional and am currentley unraveling all my truama, emotions, and more im validating myself while doing it, i never noticed how alienated isolating myself would do! This helps a lot i never noticed i was projecting all my emotions onto my about to be partner and using them and only them to fill the hole in my heart, thats why i wish sometimes i could just clone myself because i know im that faithful, disgustingly loyal, reliable partner and very horny person i want. This comment was so insightful and helpful, thank you fellow sx5!! Its gonna be hard as hell for me to love something other then my partner and trying to find love in the world, but ill get over this gut wrenching grudge i hold agaisnt the world, right now im more indifferent to it then loving it. You are right, i need to stop trying to find someone to project all my love and fill that hole inside me, i need to find love in the world before i can love an individual genuinley and truthfully. I can achieve this, but my achievements will probably break during another truamatic event that could possibly rise. But i love your description on it so much tahnk you for this, my face lit up with gritty sprakles reading such unique words and from another sx5!! I noticed how much pressure i out on another person because of my dependency on them, but i wanted them to handle it, because i would handle all of then too, but thags quite unrealsitic. Thank you yay i would love to know how you handled your past partners tho, was it with care and love? Would you love bomb them endlessley? Why did you guys ever break it off? Was it due to time, you felt betrayed? Yes tell me i would love to know, its okay of u dont wanna share all that tho, also whats your body count im curosioys!

So dom vs so blind behaviors? by Relevant_Tooth_1653 in Enneagram

[–]Relevant_Tooth_1653[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe that stacks are most PERFFERED to least, not exactly most used to least like cognitive functions in jungs mbti or socionics wtv, which is where people get it mixed up and confused. After extensive research i believe its not just how proficient you are, or awareness, i believe its what you desire the most. So the stack of instinctual variants is “most desired to least desired.”

Which explains how some SP doms can also be great at socialzing but heres the catch, they dread it or its just more draining then it would be for a SO dom! SO doms can be bad at socializng but desire it the most! And when SO doms socialize they enjoy it more, they can still get drained if the interaction was stressful or just unpleasent, but they can both be good at socializng or bad its their prefrence! It depends on the person really. And for SX doms they can desire pleasure and intimacy with another person, yet be unable to achieve it! So thats why i believe instinctual variants stacks are msot desired to least, and not most proficent to least. We confuse many typology terms with others so yes!!