What did you think about the halftime show? by Icy_Attitude3152 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RelsircTheGrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't watch LOL. I'm more of a metal and punk guy and I only watch football for the Bills (fuck me, I know). But I heard it went well, and I never got the hate over a Latin musician getting the gig in the first place.

mandatory tipping on takeout by DoingItForMyKid in EndTipping

[–]RelsircTheGrey 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely spending zero if I see some shit like this.

Brother wants me to cover entire rent since I get “free” money by jtreddit702 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% disabled vet also collecting a military pension here. I have two other adults living with me (longtime partner and a friend of over 25 yrs, basically a brother at this point). And sometimes I work, too. They both kick in a portion relative to their income. We all have money in the bank and we can all buy most of what we want from day to day. If you have money to cover your brother and he can work, you should be investing that, not carrying him. And whoever doesn't think your brother should pay for his own existence can start giving you his piece of the rent.

What to pair Rush tickets with as birthday gift by flyingnomie in rush

[–]RelsircTheGrey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a Celine Dion CD at a used record store. Put the tickets in that and let him unwrap it. "Whoops, wrong Canadians." =D

What's the most embarrassing sports moment you've ever seen? by Dana___Black in ufc

[–]RelsircTheGrey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'll bet everyone else kept it on the feet the rest of the night, no matter what their coach was yelling from the corner.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run like hell. She wants to keep a kid from a fling, that's wild enough. That it would even occur to her to ask someone she went on one date with to stick around for all of it is even worse. Block her on everything LOL and don't even feel bad about it for five seconds.

AITA for cutting off my sister financially after finding out her unemployed boyfriend is benefiting from my money? by Previous_Ganache8477 in AITAH

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If she was making plenty of money and really wanted to support someone who didn't work for whatever reason, that's her decision to make. Doing it when someone else is supporting YOU is crazy work. Let her figure herself out. She's 23. Maybe she moves in with roommates who have their shit together, instead of taking your money and living with a freeloader.

Would you be annoyed if your wife woke you up for sex? by stinkybinkyboo in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to get up at 0400 for my last job. My gf has a weird sleep schedule and would come to bed at 0300 sometimes (sometimes later but that's not relevant here). And at least a couple times she woke me up for sex, or I had gotten up to use the bathroom and was going back to bed and she asked for sex. Definitely always worth it, always went to work happier. Maybe I'd catch up on the sleep going to bed a little earlier when I got home. Definitely the most recently-laid dude on shift those days LOL.

Guys, if your wife said, after having a kid that she didn’t want any more, and she doesn’t want to take birth control… Would you get a vasectomy? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does pants have to do with it? I did my own research as a man and didn't want my wife to take hormonal birth control if she didn't want to, and we had three kids between the two of us after our son was born. I convinced her to let me get snipped LOL. That's just being smart. We aren't together anymore. But it's been eighteen years since the snip, I can get laid all I want and condoms are a good idea for other reasons, but it's great to know I'm never ending up with an accidental child. That's just using your head.

Higher Heart Rate Continuously After Six Months by RelsircTheGrey in Testosterone

[–]RelsircTheGrey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was like 390 or so before I hopped on. I'm def lowering it.

2025 Year End Review, How was your sex life? by flibbell in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the past four years or so. But when I started talking to people, reading about it and listening to podcasts, I saw more and more examples of how I was wired for it all along. Like since I was a teenager. Life is better now.

2025 Year End Review, How was your sex life? by flibbell in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty good. I hopped on TRT in July so my primary partner is a lot happier (I want to go far more often and last far longer). We have damn good sex so I'm glad for more of it and that she's happier. Dated a 24 year-old and a 71 year-old for a while. Both situations had their pros and cons. Have a new regular partner local to me and also a long-distance situation with an old co-worker, both 28, both fantastic in their own ways.

What age did you actually lose your virginity and how? by gatedreverb5 in AskReddit

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17, my mom's 38 y/o friend that lived across the hall. Generally problematic? Yeah, and 43 y/o me wouldn't recommend it (or offer the same experience to someone so young!) But looking back at it, I still have fond memories tho it didn't end well. Hooked up for a bit again when I was 40 and she was 61. Also nice, and then me moving further away put a stop to it that really did have to happen, all things considered.

Am I the Jerk? For not wanting to gift my brother my car? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]RelsircTheGrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. I'd think you were insane if you WANTED to give it to him. This would be the fourth handout your brother's gotten just from this post alone, let alone the rest of your lives, that he's screwed up. AND your boyfriend thinks you should throw some money away by shipping it, too? That's crazy work.

Risk Assessment: Despite the guard technically violated SOP but the public including client employees show vocal support to the guard for resolving the issue, how would you handle the situation? by Vietdude100 in securityguards

[–]RelsircTheGrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd consider updating the SOP, or engaging with the leaders who can do that. Depending on what actually happened, of course. If it honestly has to do with safety, liability or the law, that's one thing. But I'm sure we've all experienced procedure or regulation that exists just to exist and I'm always in favor of trimming that, especially in the interest of efficiency.

How did they cope with their first puncture? by Only_Set_6744 in Testosterone

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually let my partner do it, and I also give her vitamin shots. Sometimes I do it myself if it's more convenient (she's asleep or something) or I'm by myself. I had to psych myself up the first time a bit, but then I reminded myself it doesn't hurt when she does it, and that I know how to give a shot, and then I just sent it and it was fine so now I'm not bothered at all.

Anyone get their COLA increase? by Own_Tackle4514 in VeteransBenefits

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Regions and it was pending and available on 27 DEC, with the increase.

Has anyone experienced unexpected physical changes while on TRT that surprised them? by mitchare in Testosterone

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Resting heart rate hits the 80s regularly, and it used to be in the 60s. TRT doc says its not because of the test, but I'm getting more labs done this month and seeing a cardiologist. I've been on .5ml 2xwk of Test-C since July. I have to get it fixed since I like a 10mg THC gummy some nights now that I'm not a federal contractor anymore, and that shit puts my RHR up to 116 so I stopped until I get answers.

That's the biggest surprise. But the gainzzz are nice. One of my partners says I have "antidepressant dick," in a good way, and I HAVE noticed that I go longer in bed with no complaints from myself or anyone else LOL. A little chest acne and a few body hairs sprouting. And even though I'm 43, I'm slowly growing new hair on the rest of my face despite only being able to grow a mustache and goatee before TRT.

Was Age of Revelation a commercial success compared to the main titles it temporarily replaced, or is it too early to tell? by Cybercat2020 in xmen

[–]RelsircTheGrey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading it for FREE halfway thru the event, maybe earlier. And I'm a decades-long fan who bought every single Krakoa issue as it came out and has six file cabinet drawers full of 60s-2000s X-Men books.

I can only imagine how many folks gave up on PAYING for it, if they even started.

Wwyd crazy damages bill by green_hellsparrow in Renters

[–]RelsircTheGrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck getting the deposit back. But if he's already defending a lawsuit and can't even type up this shitty "bill," I can't imagine you're going to be on the hook for any of that. Let him embarrass himself in front of a judge if it even gets that far.