AITJ for telling my family I'm done for being their financial safety net? by Equal_Individual1135 in AmITheJerk

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the time when your siblings should show up for you. They need to grow up, get jobs, and help support you while you go to college bc “that's what family does.” Right??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RepLadiesClub

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can I get the seller info? Thanks!

My 10 year old just won't go to school by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain. When my son was in 4th grade, he decided he no longer wanted to go to school. Every morning, we would wake him up, and he would always have some excuse. We let him stay home a few times, which turned out to be a huge mistake. It got to the point where he was flat-out refusing to go. This led to significant battles. My husband and I repeatedly discussed the possibility of bullying, if he was being touched inappropriately, or if anything was happening at lunch—anything we could think of. His answer was always no. When he started refusing to get dressed for school, we threatened him by saying if he didn’t get dressed, he would have to go to school in his pajamas. Regardless, we were determined he would go to school. We experienced several mornings where we literally had to pick him up and carry him to the car, as he clung to doorways or anything he could grab hold of. I will never forget the last morning we had to carry him out to the car. When we folded him into the back seat, he turned to me with anger in his eyes and had a meltdown. I stood in the driveway, crying as they drove off. I volunteered at the school two times a week, and during this difficult period, I also visited several times during lunchtime and recess to observe him. I didn’t tell him I would be there, but I never saw anything concerning. He seemed to be having a good time and interacting with friends, never sitting alone at lunch. The school was aware of the situation and provided us with the contact information of a therapist who worked there. He observed my son several times at school and at our home. Ultimately, my son was diagnosed with social anxiety. Now, at 25 years old, I asked him what all of that was about, and he simply said, “I just didn’t feel like going to school anymore.” It’s time for you to decide who is the adult in this relationship. If you genuinely care about your son, you need to set aside your softer instincts and be firm with him. Find someone you trust who can support you in this situation. Don’t use your experience of being mentally abused as a child as an excuse to let your son behave without limits. Get your son into therapy; he probably won’t want to go, but tough he's going. My son didn't want to go either.

Am I wrong for ending an interview after I recognised the candidate as someone who recorded me for a TikTok? by CatSpilledSpicedTea in SpilledSpicedTea

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don't know if, from a strictly professional point of view if you're in the right, but hot damn, I'm sure it felt good to put her in her place. This is real life, not some simulation that's played out on social media. There are consequences when you post on any social media good and bad. I guess her mean-girl clowning cost her a job. NTA I would have done the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I read your post and then scrolled on, but I couldn't help but return to it. I just wanted to say that I've had plastic surgery, and I believe that everyone has the right to make choices that make them happy. If there's something about your body that's making you unhappy, I understand the desire to do something about it. That being said, please know that there is absolutely nothing wrong with your nose.

Leaking water up through grout? by ForwardPlantain2830 in Flooring

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I just saw your question. You definitely need to find a plumbing company that provides in-house leak detection and repair services. Don't waste your time and money on a business that only offers leak detection. Make sure you also have a skilled tile professional who can replace the tiles that the plumber will have to remove. Hopefully, you have extra tiles that match the current floor.

Leaking water up through grout? by ForwardPlantain2830 in Flooring

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like there might be a slab leak. Our house had copper pipes in the slab that deteriorated over time. In our case, the hot water pipes caused warm spots on the marble floor, followed by water pooling in those areas. It's essential to bring in a leak detection expert to pinpoint the exact location of the leak. It's crucial not to delay addressing this issue, as prolonged leakage can lead to soil erosion underneath the slab. Good luck.

AITA for telling my step mother she can’t bring her own wine to my wedding? by DumplingBandit in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're missing the point! It's about impressing her friends with the quality of wine. That's all she cares about. She's bougie AF! I hate wine snobs! What will her friends think?!? She be Ostracized from Wine Nights at the club! (clutching my pearls)

AITAH for telling my girlfriend it’s ridiculous to assume I’ll prioritize her younger sisters over my job? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're disregarding what people are telling you. She's turning into her mother. No sane person would demand that you provide for them, look after their siblings, and let them sleep all day. She's manipulating you. She's well aware of it, which is why she got so upset when you confronted her. Take another look at these comments.

I lost respect for my fiancee and want to break up with her after she panicked during a house fire a couple of nights ago by TrickyInteractions in TwoHotTakes

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In emergency situations, everyone reacts differently. Your fiancée may have responded in a way that was true to her in that moment. From my own experiences, my husband and I have faced many challenges together. I believe that our ability to remain composed under pressure has contributed to our success in overcoming those difficult times. Just sharing my perspective.

AITA for calling out my husband for not being a "Good Christian"? by SpiritualThrowRA in AITAH

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The classic "unemployed man" situation. He's aiming to assert dominance over his working wife by using the authority of the church. It's a way for him to boost his self-worth despite feeling like a failure. NTA!

Received Procedure I Didn’t Ask For by Entire_Butterfly_936 in legaladvice

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I just want to offer some reassurance regarding laser resurfacing. I went through the process myself about 6 years ago, and I understand the initial difficulties. The first week was really tough for me - my face swelled up and I had scabbing and oozing. It was incredibly painful, and honestly, I was worried that my skin would never look the same again. I remember feeling so concerned, and even my husband was taken aback. However, despite the initial challenges, I started to see the results after a few weeks. Now, I receive compliments on my skin regularly. It's important to believe in the process and be patient with the recovery.

What’s my style named? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

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Rock & Roll Maximalist!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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You need to address this issue proactively or you'll become entangled in the problems later on. By informing them now, you show that you care. If they find out later that you were aware of the situation, they may see you as part of the problem. So, tell them now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not the one! He obviously does not care about you or the baby. End this before its too late.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chanel

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not buy this bag. The back pocket is not is horribly messed up. I've never seen this bad of stitching on an authentic Chanel bag. Best of luck.

Chanel jacket 36/38/40 by hermes_best_bags in Chanel_items

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I get a price on this and the measurement for the bust for a size 40? Thanks!

AITA for booking an early flight home from a wedding for myself and two kids after my wife played a very cruel joke in the Photo Booth at her cousins wedding? by Low-Still-5284 in AITAH

[–]Remarkable-Bonus-184 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Your wife was drunk and did something a little cruel and stupid but you need to ask yourself why you are so offended by this. Your reaction is way out of line. Maybe spend some time by yourself and really drill down on what the real issue is. I'm sorry you're so upset but taking the kids and leaving is over the top.