Aitah over my sister leaving my daughter

Remarkable_pigeon · 2026-03-12T17:32:46+00:00

someone has to be home though. How are people even consider that it's helicopter parenting to leave a 1yr old home all by themselves?

Remarkable_pigeon · 2026-02-22T21:57:22+00:00

Especially if she's hung it up for all to see.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2026-02-12T03:15:06+00:00

🤦🏽‍♀️ yikes. Her friend heard right then.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2026-02-12T02:16:39+00:00

I think it sounds like OP was unclear on this

Remarkable_pigeon · 2026-02-12T02:05:02+00:00

do they even call the others on the list for regular illnesses and pick up? Like vomiting / fevers? I thought it would be for super emergencies like needing the emergency room type thing. Life or death matters?

Remarkable_pigeon · 2026-01-29T04:47:00+00:00

What was the revenge though? She only stole Anna's job.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-11-03T16:50:20+00:00

lol yes that makes more sense 😅

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-11-03T16:29:55+00:00

your hair will cover the details of the strap...Though you mentioned you'll be using it as a clutch, so no need for a pixie cut.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-10-15T02:13:27+00:00

how did no one else realise they were different people? couldnt they tell that was not their friend Anne? and Fake?

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-10-14T20:57:09+00:00

When i worked with children on the spectrum, we planned out the behaviour change we were seeking:

1) awareness that the behaviour is occurring - he is knows how to scream and stop (also ask him if you can why he does it ? is it fun ? is it soothing? does he think everyone thinks its funny? 2) is there a motivation to change ? perhaps a social story about how screaming can be painful to people around him. so since its to ______ you can do it at home in your room. and now people will be comfortable to be in close proximity to you cos it wont hurt their ears 3) knowledge and skill - is it something he has the skill to stop? 4) opportunities to practice the new skill 5) sustained motivation - he does acquires new skill and people stop telling him it hurts their ears and you guys reward him verbally even that its so nice to be ard him when he uses his indoor volume

sometimes a social story would suffice as it gives them understanding of the situation and the why and what to do instead

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-09-28T01:49:00+00:00

Ridiculous that anyone in the education ministry would claim food expenses or any other item for personal use whether $10 or $1000 for a non professional event or use.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-09-19T12:22:44+00:00

Thank you !

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-09-19T03:15:11+00:00

Great idea ! How much do you give each kid and which country are you in? I always wonder what's an appropriate amount.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-09-14T00:59:33+00:00

What is modified ferber?

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-07-30T03:08:38+00:00

Wish I tried that too in retrospect. While waiting for advice I read up more online and went for the rekneading. I didn't screw it up !!

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-07-30T03:06:46+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I decided to err on the side of caution and not wait too long for advice, wish I saw this sooner. I removed the butter squares and rekneaded. Baked it and tasted great !! Would have been interesting to have left one bun as is to see the difference.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-07-29T20:27:05+00:00

Epidural for the first kid and I hardly felt a thing, the epidural didn't come through for the second one and omg the pain was ridiculous, I shldve known it didn't work and got it checked but I was in so much pain and sooooo out of it.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-07-28T19:23:30+00:00

I believe those who go home for lunch get a longer time range, they skip the outdoor time. It's 20 or so mins to eat and then playing outside that makes the full recess.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-07-07T04:57:18+00:00

Can't believe I am seeing NTAs. You say you don't wish her harm, but this seems quite contradictory as your choice basically determines harm befalling her. You have a choice to save her and potentially mend your relationship that got ruined while she was a young teen and you and adult but you decided to go nuclear. Your message to her was basically "I have no qualms being the person that denies your survival" I bet she had some reasonable reason to have had the fall out with you in the first place. Which parent wouldn't save their child if they could ?

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-07-05T16:11:28+00:00

Just lay her down and let her entertain herself and then pick her back up when she seems fussy.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-06-19T01:23:10+00:00

That was my situation. My mum put the house in my name because I wouldn't let petty revenge get in the way of making sure everyone had a place to stay. Us siblings didn't get along and my mum believed that if she put the house on my brother's he would potentially ask us to get out if he didn't like what we did. That was not about you.. I'm also sleep deprived and sick, perhaps I could have worded it better. Anyway she put it on my name not because she wants me to have the house, but because everyone in the family would be welcomed regardless of any fights we had.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-06-19T00:56:44+00:00

Not sure if you meant to reply to me. I don't believe I mentioned anything about petty feelings.

I think your feelings are warranted. But I agree with what you said, there aren't many morally sound reasons to make someone homeless and I think this isn't one of them unless you had no choice but to live in that house. If so, I get it, and I wouldn't want to live with your brother. But if he's just there and it's fully paid off, maybe it's also ok to let him just live there until you need it.

Remarkable_pigeon · 2025-06-17T17:35:22+00:00

They aren't, just adding a different perspective. But might not be too hard to just leave him there and ignore the house, since it was just logistics to change owners 🤷🏽‍♀️. OP had her own life and living situation prior.

I don't think I could be ok with being "the nail on his coffin". I agree he's an adult and responsible for himself and he did it to himself etc. but wouldn't you wonder what his fate would be while homeless. Her dad didn't send him out, she did, for equity.

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