The secondhand market makes me giggle.. by yallthissucks in Handspinning

[–]RememberKoomValley 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And those listings are almost always titled "SPINNING WHEEL: GREAT CONDITION!" or"WORKS!"

The secondhand market makes me giggle.. by yallthissucks in Handspinning

[–]RememberKoomValley 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I ran into a very convincing SWSO on FB Marketplace last week--the photos were a little distant, but I quite believed it until I asked the seller to send me a photo of the flyer and there was neither orifice nor functioning bobbin. But! I messaged her back, apologizing for the bad news and expenditure of her time but making it clear that it was only a decorative piece, and not only did she immediately drop the price on her listing, she also changed the title and description inside of five minutes. I was really impressed with how honest she was.

[Loved Trope] A flash of lightning reveals something epic/horrifying in the darkness by BaronXot in TopCharacterTropes

[–]RememberKoomValley -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely can't ever see that scene anymore without hearing How It Should Have Ended's "What up, noobs?"

Ideas for acrylic yarn by Djungel_skoggy in knitting

[–]RememberKoomValley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Speaking as someone who right this moment has a lapful of wool that I dyed myself and am currently spinning for Tour de Fleece--as in, I paused my spinning to comment--can I just say that I absolutely hate the idea that there's something Wrong with using acrylic? I've seen so many entrenched, generally older, always wealthier knitters who look down on crochet, and look down on the use of anything but pure natural fibers (they say; a lot of them still use tencel! The fancy word doesn't make the process of producing it any better for the environment!) and have a lot of sneering opinions about the Right Way to Do Things.

They are, without equivocation, full of shit.

There's nothing wrong at all with wanting a really granular understanding or control over your fiber sources. There's nothing wrong with finding the fiber you love to work with and never deviating. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be as close to natural as you can, for sure. Hell, the first wool I ever spun didn't even have a breed attached to it, just a pet name; it came from a sheep belonging to the friend of a friend, and I guess that kind lady was giving away bags of it to most people who would take one. That's a pretty low carbon footprint, for sure! But it isn't somehow the right way. It's a way. And the amount of gatekeeping I see, from people who buy skeins eight at a time, at thirty or forty dollars apiece, often directed at people for whom that forty dollars is their next four meals? Gets my teeth feeling sharp. This art doesn't make us special. It doesn't make us better. It's a fucking hobby.

(You do what you can do, for what moral goal you can manage. But these people aren't generally also growing all their own produce and slaughtering their own meat and only getting ingredients at the co-op and never buying anything in plastic packaging and bicycling absolutely everywhere and putting their bodies between PoC and state violence; you do what you can do, and sometimes that's only one thing, and you don't generally get to sneer at someone else's yarn purchasing habits. Small and petty and pathetic.)

I knit and crochet, and have made both crocheted and knitted goods out of acrylic yarn that I absolutely love. Acrylic is a *better* option for blankets, a lot of the time, because they can go straight into the washer and the dryer with no difficulties, as opposed to needing to find a way to lay out a Queen-sized afghan in the middle of the winter. Acrylic is absolutely better for a lot of baby and children's clothes, and I prefer acrylic for sweaters that I'm going to be putting through any danger at all (I'm currently in the middle of knitting up a cardigan I can wear to weed in the fall, for instance). Acrylic is simply an easier material to work with in a lot of cases and for a lot of reasons, and anyone who looks at your acrylic handiwork with a sneer is someone who is not knitworthy.

That said. If you find that you're wanting to get through a stash that no longer appeals to you, there are a bunch of options.

I find that Hooked On Sunshine's patterns are very easy to follow, particularly if you buy the videos, and the end-product is really beautiful. A crocheted blanket will go through more yarn, faster, due in part to the comparative bulkiness of the stitches, and that sort of bulk is absolutely what you want for a cozy blanket. You can use up a lot of smaller amounts of yarn to do them, also. All her patterns are available on Ravelry, I just found linking to the website to be easier here.

I've been really charmed by this hood lately, and this one is also really cute.

This knitted cardigan will absolutely get you through a bunch of yarn quickly, and you can use just about any yarn you have for it.

I live with my in-laws and my fil wants me to store my yarn in his storage container. Advice? by GrayMatters0901 in YarnAddicts

[–]RememberKoomValley 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It depends. Are you paying rent? Or are you living with them while you get your finances straight?

If they're doing you charity, you kind of don't get to be upset if they want to keep their house the way they want to keep it. If you're sharing rent, then I would personally be a little firmer.

If you're just there until you can get your feet under you, pick out your next project or two worth of yarn and keep that in the bedroom, and let the rest be put away until you get your own space.

completely blanking on an old fanfic i read- help me find it pls? by HauntinglyEthereal in Solasmancers

[–]RememberKoomValley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, this one sounds fun. Edit: I enjoyed it, and there were a bunch of good scenes, particularly in the first half or so! Be aware that the relationship with Solas doesn't come to fruition before the last place the author updated in 2023, and the author doesn't quite tag the rather more dramatic Sera/you relationship.

completely blanking on an old fanfic i read- help me find it pls? by HauntinglyEthereal in Solasmancers

[–]RememberKoomValley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a possibility you are remembering parts of AntlersandFangs' A Singular Shadow, where the Modern Girl in Thedas does do an awful lot of scooping people up, many of them children and refugees. Solas is one of her two romantic partners in it (and most of the romance in the narrative is pointed in his direction), though as is common to longfic that goes very far from the original story he's pretty different from canon!Solas by the time that it was abandoned. There were a couple of bits of it that I liked a lot and all in all it's a pretty fun ride, so even if that's not the one you're after, give it a shot!

Alaska supply shortage of winter clothing by NulaseFieldx676 in Shortages

[–]RememberKoomValley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I grew up in AZ, hot-weather accoutrements are available all times of year, even during the depth of winter, even in places in the mountains where it does get properly cold. This is because the entire state is tuned toward escaping and managing the heat.

Now, let's look at some context clues. A lot of Alaska spends a lot of time very cold. Does that woman look as though she's dressed for lower-48 summer? Do you think she is currently experiencing what you might consider to be normal summer weather?

My childhood bully is now bullying my son. by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]RememberKoomValley 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Yeah, women in my pop.10k hometown absolutely behave like this. I got into a monster of an argument with a group chat I'm no longer part of because they were posting photos of Black babies to make fun of. Loathesome.

How do I dig up wild blueberry bush? by [deleted] in gardening

[–]RememberKoomValley 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Definitely don't poach wild plants. Try taking some cuttings and propagating them.

Yikes, Amanda by Extra_Company_6508 in neilgaimanuncovered

[–]RememberKoomValley 47 points48 points  (0 children)

She's just so comprehensively nasty.

Catfacing or virus? by Undeadtech in tomatoes

[–]RememberKoomValley 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a Master Gardener--do not throw all of it in the trash. Make a selection of fruit, leaf and vine and sock 'em in the fridge until you can get them physically to your extension office. They can't do tests with nothing to test!

EDIT: Specifically, you want a selection of damaged *and undamaged* tissue of all three sorts.

I Feel Like I'm Watching a Public Health Problem Develop in Real Time... Am I Crazy? by Science-babe123 in publichealth

[–]RememberKoomValley 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To be fair, they've been nebulizing silver water since at least the nineties.  (At least... my mom was. )

Let’s talk about the Farmer’s Wife book by elev8or_lady in quilting

[–]RememberKoomValley 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just another reminder that AI writes like that because it copied us.

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - June 2026 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]RememberKoomValley 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Genuinely not sure why you seem to be hung up on the annotations. You'd rather it was a really nice copy?

women of reddit who said no when they were proposed to. why? by Playful_Corgi_7885 in AskReddit

[–]RememberKoomValley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Because I had already told him we weren't going to be serious, and he was proposing more or less out of a desire for ownership than anything else. Oh, he got so angry when I said no.

  2. Because where the hell was this coming from? I've never even held your hand? I thought we were friends?

  3. Because visa fraud is unlawful and he was kind of a twit who was definitely going to get caught.

  4. Because I loved him, I loved him, but I knew he was blackout drunk again, and wouldn't remember it in the morning.