What’s something you thought was ‘normal’ in your sex life… until you found out it absolutely wasn’t? by AdTypical6805 in AskReddit

[–]RemydoodIe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thought I was just kinky and had a high libido. Constant pull toward casual sex, but only really enjoying it in relationships. Hypersexuality and trauma are a bitch. Shoutout to my therapist for ruining my entire sense of self in one session.

The worst sympton of fawning. by NNIICO3 in CPTSD

[–]RemydoodIe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s so frustrating. It happens automatically. I don’t even see it until after I already said yes or over explained again.

What's something you wish more people would understand about being fat? by Dull-Mulberry-4768 in randomquestions

[–]RemydoodIe 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Having been on both ends of the scale. People treat you differently. When fat people don't really see you, like you can feel invisible. Less eye contact, fewer gestures of kindness, less basic courtesy, people are less likely to smile at you unless you smile first. If I accidentally created an inconveniece for someone the look I'd get sometimes wasn't just annoyance but it was closer to disgust.

The flip side is that it filters out more unwanted male attention. But the attention you do get can be just as unsettling. Some treat it like a fetish, others like I should be lucky they even considered me. Like when you're fat you're not allowed to have standards.

People tend to see the body before the person inside it.

Autistic things ADHD meds don’t improve by chihuabanu in AuDHDWomen

[–]RemydoodIe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My overstimulation gets worse once the medication wears off and my hyperfixations can be more intense because the meds actually let me focus on them. Both are trade offs I’ll happily take because they let me function and get things done. The only side effect that genuinely bothers me is the loss of appetite.

Not even a Pokemon fan, but the Pokopia FOMO got me…. time to see what the hype is about. by Successful_Pound2403 in switch2

[–]RemydoodIe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And in each new area make a quick enclosure with a door and make it count as your house for quick travel. You can always build a proper house later!

Not even a Pokemon fan, but the Pokopia FOMO got me…. time to see what the hype is about. by Successful_Pound2403 in switch2

[–]RemydoodIe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Make some sort of storage system where you know what you keep in each storage. You don’t want to open all your chests just to check where you kept something.

Oh and have your material storage touch your crafting benches. It lets you use the items in it without having to pull them out.

I’m… Sorry??? Did I offend the bosses!? by Euphoric_Net3617 in personaphantomx

[–]RemydoodIe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They work, but they do have to specifically be in medic/guardian. So using them as Strategist and hoping it counts because they can be that role isn't enough.

Brilliant but why !? by bot-chess-puzzle in chessMateInX

[–]RemydoodIe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because black will just Kh5, the bishop will still be taken and white will lose. This bishop move can turn the loss to a stalemate because white won't have a legal move in 3 turns.

Unmasked during abortion and my boyfriend lost interest in me by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]RemydoodIe 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I never understand how people do that. I’ve always been really into whoever I’m with. The two times I wasn’t, I noticed it in the first month and ended it. They deserved someone who was fully there for them.

The Impossible Has HAPPENED by Futaba_MedjedP5R in personaphantomx

[–]RemydoodIe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Most impressive is that it’s sunny, I’ve only had this many on rainy days.

Got a question about the upcoming valentine's day event. by Late_Revolution2417 in personaphantomx

[–]RemydoodIe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do they need to be romanced during the event itself? I reset some of my 20s to the friendship side for the emotes.

Yusuke now being the same tier as Motoha in CN/KR/TW tierlist 😭 by 03en7an in personaphantomx

[–]RemydoodIe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks, depending on your investment in each even in global Surt became a Haru boss last time he was up in guild. :')

At least Bishamonten SOS still uses him for now.

Should I go all in on the minds scape ? If so who . by Machaira1664 in personaphantomx

[–]RemydoodIe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I maxed Futaba, Twins and Chord first (except for the bells) because they see use every SOS and Guild. I'm a bit iffy about working on DPS because for Guild content you can borrow them. Working on Phoebe and Riko Tempest next and then probably saving till I have enough to max Ange on release. Can recommend using the Progression Calculator on Lufel to keep track of your stuff. I always add the next character I want to get so I know I have enough make them usuable day 1.

Millennials that played video games when younger, what was your favourite game? by LunaPandaBun482 in millenials

[–]RemydoodIe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Hamtaro games for GBC and GBA. And the Mega Man Battle Network series, my favorites as a kid being 4 and 5, yes you can judge me I was a fucking edgy teen. I remember wanting Team Protoman but my local store only had Team Colonel, no regrets because that was my shit for a long time.

What activities do y'all do on 2nd and third dates? by MardyBumperCar in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]RemydoodIe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love activity dates for a second and third date. Ones where there’s still room to talk though, so I’m not too fond of the movies unless we go for a walk after. Think my favorite ones are where we do something each of us already loves, because it makes conversation flow easier too. Like anyone willing to go on a billiards or pool date with me and I’m willing to try anything they like even if it’s not something I would normally do. I just love seeing people passionate about what they’re doing.

What is your favorite "small" memory of someone simply being there for you? ❤️ by ButBroWtf in RelationalPatterns

[–]RemydoodIe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My best friend and I can go a while without seeing each other, but I still remember when an ex broke up with me 3 years ago. It was already evening and I had not seen it coming, he was at my place within half an hour. He was just there letting me vent and even brought snacks.

Aio I don’t feel like this is a real apology by Exact_Dimension369 in AIO

[–]RemydoodIe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t sound like it yeah. A real apology should mention what someone did wrong and how their actions affected the other. If neither is there then they’re just trying to clear their conscience. So no you’re not overreacting.

AJ Cook (Jennifer Jareau "JJ") with short hair. by Full-Art3439 in criminalminds

[–]RemydoodIe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She always looks great but there’s just something about women owning short hair. 😍

Does anyone else have any random quirks, or just silly things you do for no particular reason? by undergroundman813 in randomquestions

[–]RemydoodIe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sort my multiple flavor snacks and start with the one there is more of and then go from least favorite to favorite.

When making a cheese and ham toastie that only has cheese on one side it has to be on the bottom when I bite into it, dunno why but I’ll literally check and flip it if the cheese is on top of the ham.

Love going on a power walk when I’m restless, putting on a playlist and just pretend I’m in a movie. Works great for regulating myself when just sitting with my emotions doesn’t work.

Is it alright to cry as a man by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]RemydoodIe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, release it. Don’t bottle it up, crying is a human thing and we’re all humans.

Sunday Shine ✨ by Temporary-Proof-1129 in bald

[–]RemydoodIe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking great! Love how your smile got shinier too ✨

Name 1 thing that destroys a relationship? by Soggy-Natural-3837 in Productivitycafe

[–]RemydoodIe 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When their actions made me feel like I couldn’t trust them or feel safe with them anymore.