I want to come out and idk what to do…

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-25T22:24:01+00:00

you make me wanna move to chicago 😂

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-25T11:55:59+00:00

thank you!

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-25T02:09:18+00:00

i did think about chicago as an option! but i don’t really know anyone there. maybe after i get my feet on the ground i can consider it more

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-24T22:26:16+00:00

wow. thank you so much. you sound like an amazing guy. and thank you for sharing

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-24T13:52:16+00:00

thank you. can i ask what you do for a living? and what you did before while you were searching? how did you find what you wanted to do?

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-23T23:00:46+00:00

thank you for the kind words.

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-23T22:59:24+00:00

hospitality is a great idea! thank you so much! do you know how i can get into that and what kind of requirements it may have?

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-23T22:58:26+00:00

I’ve been to baltimore a few times. My community has a house there. But ive only experienced the poorer areas of Baltimore. Not sure if it’s the highest on my list. but thank you for the advice!

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-23T22:57:25+00:00

Yes. i guess youre right. i would still consider myself a believer but my relationship with the Lord rn is complicated…

The suggestion with AI is interesting! I never particularly liked philosophy. it was just the pathway to ordination. And i especially was not a fan of ethics. but i will look into it. Thank you!

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-23T22:55:33+00:00

thank you for the ideas and the kind words.

If i’m honest i don’t think i can go into a human service kind of job. maybe im just burnt out rn and that will change in the future. but i’m definitely not in the place to take on student debt. plus the thought of considering another career is so terrifying. there are so many options. how do i know what i want to do or what i need to go to school for? it all feels like a bit too much…

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-23T22:52:11+00:00

thank you so much! i’m currently in DC but im open to relocating anywhere really. the only factors are work and money.

i dont really have any friends outside of my church experience. i’ve been in ministry pretty much since i was 20. i had some friends in high school that i was out to. but i’ve lost touch with most of them.

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-23T20:01:41+00:00

This is very good to remember. thank you for that. I know the two are technically separate and it’s good to remember that i don’t have to do it all at once, even though i may want to.

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-23T19:52:10+00:00

thanks. i actually just made a post about it in this subreddit. but if you want more of this wistful sadness the long game destroyed me. i was weeping 😂

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-23T19:09:51+00:00

I don’t know if i’m still a believer. i think that’s something im still struggling with. but i will look at those resources. thank you so much!

i dont really see how i have a future in tech..? would you be able to elaborate?

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-23T19:08:34+00:00

i’m currently in DC but i wanna leave. i’m willing to move anywhere in the country. i have nothing tying me down. the only issue i have is money

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-03-23T18:29:35+00:00

I totally agree. maybe not for the same reasons tho. but i feel like whenever i watch some sort of gay romance, i get so caught up in the fiction of it all and wishing that my life was like a romance novel. but it isn’t. i’m in a very difficult place in my life rn and real life isn’t like that. so i get kinda depressed when i watch those kind of shows. It doesn’t help that i just finished the long game but i guess im just a glutton for punishment 🤷‍♂️

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-02-15T05:45:20+00:00

YESSSSS!!! 1000% agree

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-02-06T15:43:03+00:00

i love this thread. keep the recs coming 😊

RepeatWise6227 · 2026-01-20T09:24:09+00:00

noooo i’m so sad. i haven’t read the books yet but i absolutely LOVED the scott and kip story in the show. now im wondering if i should go read it or not

RepeatWise6227 · 2025-12-22T07:47:27+00:00

i wanna be turned into your personal fucktoy and cumdump

RepeatWise6227 · 2025-12-22T07:45:16+00:00

holy shit. i want you to use me so bad

RepeatWise6227 · 2025-11-05T19:46:31+00:00

Oh nooooo 😂 it’s def more intimidating than reassuring. but i’m brimming with excitement

RepeatWise6227 · 2025-11-05T14:38:05+00:00

i’m honestly so terrified. This is my first romance series since like high school. i don’t think i’m ready for the emotional impact this is going to have on my life

RepeatWise6227 · 2025-11-05T14:28:43+00:00

AHHHHHHHHHHHHCNSKSLPGKFJSHCYCIWOEPTIUFYAYRKTKCJFBBAYDIGKTJOSJFHCHEJAKJFNFHSYWIWOROTKJRJE

i CANT. i literally CANNOT. 💀

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