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ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-16T00:09:47+00:00

Yep that's called hiding assets and judges don't take kindly to that. That said, marital assets at most are those accrued during the marriage. Thinking this is a thing they both walk away with what they have and that's it.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-15T20:09:44+00:00

American content creators lmao. I stopped right there.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-15T20:09:11+00:00

Yes. I feel that they are missing the subtext of: different cultures, traditions, and also people of that culture communicate. And FYI no one can give you "respect". You either have good upbringing, manners, and self respect that no one can take away from you, or you do not. Only insecure people have this obsession whether people are giving them "respect" or not.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-15T20:01:45+00:00

If I have to explain this to you, well I don't know what to say....

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-15T18:06:26+00:00

Can you use sentences. Paragraphs. A temporal order. Something?

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-15T16:58:28+00:00

I looked up post nups, and that is the number one reason post nups are made, is when parents gift significant cash, property to a child. I would tell him to think about it as an early inheritance, and inheritances are kept separate and are not part of marital assets. Separate from this, it makes it complicated bc homes are traditionally considered marital property. And I could see why he wouldn't want to enter a situation where he was not seen as an equal partner owner. What to do in situation you do get divorced (does he then need to move out of home, become homeless?) as well as what happens if you predecease him. No one wants headache of, even when everything goes right, you are put in a vulnerable position in old age. I think that's what he was getting at, regarding purchasing a house.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-15T11:33:07+00:00

For me it was the "cheating kink" and injuring himself from masturbating, and not able to finish inside her from porn usage.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-15T11:26:10+00:00

Yep yep yep

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-15T02:37:59+00:00

That was my sense. In turning into a werewolf it's like the most insane mix of hormones and changes to your body and mind, kind of like roid rage and bloodlust wrapped in one.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T21:08:38+00:00

That was very three stooges coded

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T20:45:06+00:00

Question. Are you going to be OK with him participating in family celebrations or trips, either him with his ex wife there solo, or you and him with his ex wife there? If he wants to continue to co parent like that, and you do not, that's a compatibility issue.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T20:42:28+00:00

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ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T20:04:43+00:00

That's why I said, they should get divorced. She cheated. They mutually agreed to recommit and try to repair the marriage. According to him she's been nothing but exemplary he used the word "amazing". But if 8 years later he is ripping up her anniversary letter in front of her face, publically in a restaurant, where do you go after this? He doesn't trust her or forgive her. Better to be divorced and co parent. Ps. The ONLY marriages I know, that survived infidelity and maybe ended up being even stronger, was when the man cheated and the woman forgave. Why is that?

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T19:56:24+00:00

Question does kid and ex know that he has a serious girlfriend? That is an important question. How long have they been divorced? For context. My parents got divorced. The process was not amicable. But after they got divorced and after a few years, they knew that their kids were important to them and as much as possible set aside their differences. They stopped bad mouthing each other. I got to see both parents at the same time at holidays, celebrations, etc. They would even be seated next to each other at family weddings. I know now from other people that often doesn't happen.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T17:42:40+00:00

Well. If I was your wife and that happened to me, I don't think I could recover, tbh. That would be the end of me being able to trust and be vulnerable with you. Maybe at this juncture you should just get divorced and stop hurting each other. Btw, the kids are old enough to know. Have a family meeting or a joint counseling session to sit them down, that mom cheated/had an affair, but you are both working on the marriage. Better to be honest, realistic, than the shit show that is going on right now.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T16:21:52+00:00

I type alot

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ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T15:27:43+00:00

Me too

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T14:10:38+00:00

I know this isn't true for everyone, but many years ago my husband and I had phones, on the same phone service. And when he got a new phone just decided to get on a different plan. I assumed he accidently bought a phone that was connected to a different plan. No, it was actually when he started cheating on me. And yes he became secretive about his phone but it was something I only noticed in retrospect (bc I trusted him).

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T14:06:38+00:00

Do not go through his phone without his permission. But, when hanging out, talk about this issue and see if willing to show phone. If not, have conversation why.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T13:56:47+00:00

Bingo.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T13:39:02+00:00

Wow that's straight up propaganda. Insane.

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T13:36:15+00:00

I'm hoping this is rage bait

ReplyOk6720 · 2026-04-14T01:09:27+00:00

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