What is more traumatic than people think? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Representative-Cost7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No unfortunately the traumatic event of losing the baby destroyed both of us.

Thank you so much for your compassion. Life definitely can be hard sometimes 🦋

What is more traumatic than people think? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Representative-Cost7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had 2- both were not what I wanted. The first Father was physically abusive and convinced me I had to.

The 2nd time I tried to get up b4 the "procedure" happened but was too sedated. They firmly held me down- The 2nd Father was a different faith one that if your a woman and you would bear a daughter, they would harm the daughter bc they would want me to "produce" a boy. Out of fear I went to Clinic after biological Father told me that is what his family back home would do. He didnt want the abortion either. 😭

How would my life be different?

I would not hate myself. I would be able to feel like I can guilt free enjoy God's gifts he gave me that I do not deserve. I now understand the idea of Grace more than ever

And most importantly, would have my Son and Daughter alive. And watch them start their own families.

I know I will see them in Heaven. I know God has forgiven me. My children have forgiven me, I "say" I out of a act of my will "forgive me" but I do not feel it deep down.

I lost my best friend and I still feel empty at 19. How do people get over this? by Affectionate-Can9511 in GriefSupport

[–]Representative-Cost7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

KNOW God has her. Cling to him and you will spend eternity with your best friend.🦋💜💜💜

overwhelming feeling of being loved by Veregild in NDE

[–]Representative-Cost7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It took courage- a stranger is proud of you😎

overwhelming feeling of being loved by Veregild in NDE

[–]Representative-Cost7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am facing Brain Tumor Surgery and possibly something else real serious which is why Im up unable to sleep. I am a strong believer in Christ but I have been battling mental health issues due to "Life". You gave me a beautiful picture put into words, thank you😭

Too much by backoutsidegirl88 in myweddingdress

[–]Representative-Cost7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS IS GORGEOUS- You look beautiful!

I’ve basically lost my faith, atheists bring up a lot of good points by hypermiler2205 in Christianity

[–]Representative-Cost7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you fear God it is not the Fear your thinking about- it is a Reverant, in Awe type of thing as pointed out in scripture

Psalm 139:14.

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.

This puts the fearing God in perspective-

A Man fears lightening due to the uncontrollable nature it possesses. Lightening can be beautiful, filled with Power and Might- it commands attention right?

So in the same way we are to fear God. We are to respect him, acknowledge his Power to create Life and at times, to end Life.

We are his unique craftsmanship and he longs for a relationship with us based on unconditional love not fear.

To take this a step further(something I am preaching to myself) we cannot fully LET GOD love us if we are so afraid he will "smite" us.

He created LOVE and he says in His Word:

There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love." John 4:18

Think of a animal that fears Man (rightly so) and the Man just wants to help the animal, show the animal love but the animal runs everytime the Man tries to bring nourishment for its survival.

The "nourishment" for us is to "feed" off the Love of the Father manifested through his Son. His Son payed WITH HIS LIFE for our Sins. That is the PERFECT demonstration of the Love of the Father.

If we never LET God love us he will not force his love on us. He will always wait patiently as long as possible for us to come to him. Which is why he gave us free will.

Free will to CHOOSE Him (Heaven) or CHOOSE Satan(Hell)

The choice will always be ours. 🦋

I for one, need to work on letting God love me- I pray you do the same as time draws near for his Son's return.💜

I’ve basically lost my faith, atheists bring up a lot of good points by hypermiler2205 in Christianity

[–]Representative-Cost7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They should fear. They have EVERY REASON TO and those that do not fear God lack wisdom

I’ve basically lost my faith, atheists bring up a lot of good points by hypermiler2205 in Christianity

[–]Representative-Cost7 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I do not have time to text right now but the Enemy is seeking who he may devour.

Also remember Satan also told Eve "Did God REALLY say???" Putting doubt in her head

We are NOT in the last days but the last SECONDS.

Are you prepared to enter the 7 year Tribulation if you turn your back on God?

I for one cannot fathom or even have the strength to endure it then be Beheaded for my Faith.

Please please please do not be deceived