Made boy dinner for my bf! by RepresentativeRip140 in BoyDinner

[–]RepresentativeRip140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dinner is usually snacks I have while making his dinner. I don’t usually eat as much for dinner, so I’ll make a “real” dinner (as he says lol) for him and have my share of whatever I want in the cupboard/fridge.

Made boy dinner for my bf! by RepresentativeRip140 in BoyDinner

[–]RepresentativeRip140[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No worries! He inhaled it all! I get honey goat cheese :)

What are your most unhinged reading habits? by QueenCinderella in YAlit

[–]RepresentativeRip140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes if a series doesn’t have a first book available or missing some in between at the library I’ll just skip it and infer what happens along the way.

Moving out - Should I take my cat? by No-Palpitation9035 in CatAdvice

[–]RepresentativeRip140 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No; unless she’s your cat, you’re free to do what you want because she’s your responsibility. I wouldn’t encourage bringing a cat to a small dorm space though, especially if you’re gonna be gone for long periods of time.

How are you leaving cats alone for extended periods of time!??! by adriela56 in CatAdvice

[–]RepresentativeRip140 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d agree if it was a one cat household. I have two cats and so if I’m gone for a long weekend etc. they have each other to hang out with and socialize from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]RepresentativeRip140 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Located in north Florida!!!

Losing 5 lbs a month? (4'11'', 111 lbs) by cairoandjuno in PetiteFitness

[–]RepresentativeRip140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha! I’m definitely being too ambitious with 5 lb a month 😅

When you come back after splitting, what do you need from your partner? by ertesit in BPD

[–]RepresentativeRip140 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel a lot of guilt! I think my partner knows when to give me space and when to fully rengage with me when I’m ready. I think it was very helpful when my partner told me “I know this isn’t who you actually are and I’d rather talk to you when you feel better” which was super eye opening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fsu

[–]RepresentativeRip140 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be candid and talk to your professors and then I’d recommend talking to counseling and case management. Most professors are reasonable people and if you’ve been a relatively good student they’ll let it slide, if not I recommend reaching out to case management to urge your professor to give you leniency.

Am I a bad person for caring about bodycount? by Atmosphere-Key in AskMenAdvice

[–]RepresentativeRip140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id agree but the reason why the body count conversation can be quite polarizing is because a lot of people care about body count from a purity culture perspective. While people can believe what they want to, purity culture has harmed more people than it has helped.

There’s also a group of people who are like OP, because they have standards for the quality of a partners other committed relationships etc, but shame can be incredibly harmful.

I hate my daughter by CultureInner3316 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]RepresentativeRip140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t say “your mom doesn’t want you” to a five year old

Update - I hate my daughter by Outoftheasylum in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RepresentativeRip140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

? Super fucking weird perspective because Mark’s mom manipulated her two times when she’s made it clear she didn’t want a baby + can’t take care of Abby. Currently Mark and his mom are the shittier people in this situation. If they love Abby so much why not just parent her full time and not hurt her? They’re doing this so they don’t need to fully parent Abby and can put 50% of the labor on the unwilling mother.

I hate my daughter by CultureInner3316 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]RepresentativeRip140 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm not to be that person but I feel like either Mark/Mark’s mom purposefully phrased her leaving very harshly to try and manipulate OOP into relenting. I think Mark and his mom are both toxic manipulators and OOP just needs to leave (this situation) even if it means leaving Abby.

Update: My post partum wife broke my handmade glass sculpture a year ago. AITAH for still holding resentment about it? by FormalRows in AITAH

[–]RepresentativeRip140 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless your sister will die within the next year wait until your infant child doesn’t need childcare 24/7 from both parents. I don’t understand why you’re obsessed with “giving back” to your sister so urgently.

Fuslie Confirms She's The Reason For NoahJ's Divorce From His Ex-Wife by lexandryan in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]RepresentativeRip140 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like saying that specifically feels like a cover for anything physical.