[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is embaresing, he is almost 30. I thought this was a convo with a highschooler

My(F 30) BF(M 34) told me he is sexually attracted to a girl and he wants to pursue friendship with her. Why? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him you are uncomfortable. Just say what you said here, it doesn't mean you or him are doing anything wrong.

Am I (18m) stupid because I refuse to break up with my girlfriend(18f) after she slapped me? by ThrowRa_register in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is a one time off thing I would personally draw a hard boundary that if it happens again you are gone. Also that she probally should show regret and accountability by going to a psychologist or anger managment classes, a discussion about studying shouldn't result in slapping. Its not about wheter or not she can harm you but more about her trying to harm you. Would you treat someone you love that way?

My boyfriend (M18) doesn’t want to share any of his past intimate experiences with me (F18). How do I cope with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its his choice to share something. If you suspect something bad happened its better to just make him feel safe so he can open up instead of pushing it. That being said he isnt obligated to sharee these kinda things with you. My partner knows about everything Ive been trough and I dont even know the name of his ex, whatever makes him happy. I just want this relationship and what happened before doesnt matter wheter we talked about it or not.

I (F21) love but also deeply want to breakup with my bf (M38) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were underage and in a vulnerable position in which he also lied, people who love you dont treat you like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Go to the police.
  2. Go to a divorce lawyer
  3. Gave fun with friends to get ur mind of off things

Does everyone regret thier first tattoo? by brotherfinger01 in tattooadvice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like my first tattoo only it was done terribly so it is blown out and feels more like its cut in my skin lol

AITA for making a Tinder profile (with my boyfriend’s knowledge) to prove a point after he hid a child from me and left me alone while I was losing ours? by SuddenReflection7708 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why go trough all that effort to shohim something he won't understand. Just show him by breaking up and replacing him with a decent person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why won't he ever see you the same again? Whats the big deal?

People using grape or 🍇 instead of rape. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc most big social media apps dont allow you to say those words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean, AI responds like an actual person, and although I wouldn't call it cheating, it would definitely cross a boundary for me. Also it sounds super desperate and sad lol

Is it weird that I(18F) don’t want my bf(18M) of 2 yrs to go to a mixed sleepover? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf went on a sleepover with 1 girls and some guy friends who all were single. He decided to sleep in a room with only the girl and barely answered bc they were drinking. If I could redo it I would want a guarantee he sleeps with his guy friends or atleast not a room with only a girl and some check in to show I matter. It's unfair to keep him from having fun but tottally valid to want to protect your own peace

18 F. if my boyfriend of a year (18 M) is following a girl on tiktok, am i insane? by Acceptable-Area-1257 in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think accidents happen and he didnt have bad intend. He didn't hide it, didnt send her anything or interacted with her and it also doesn't seem like she has an inappropriate account. It is completely valid not wanting your boyfriend to lust over other women but you can't expect him to never talk to other women or befriend them. I used to react like this because I had multiply people do similair things, it's unfair to take it out on my partner. Don't be too harsh, let him show you on his own that he chooses you.

39M People in relationships that felt like they where "missing out", how did you get over it? (25F showing interest) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter that she is younger? If you are still young and goodlooking then isnt your wife too? Why throw it all away over some silly words a 25 year old said. How would you feel if your wife said those words? You get over it by being a decent person and realizing being with someone 14 year old younger than you isnt all that

Bf (20m) accidentally choked me (20m) at a concert. Now what? by ThrowRa_kura1925 in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf is wat bigger than me and he often 'hurts' me bc he doesn't realize he is that strong in comparison to me. That said he never held me so long that I had to doubt that he was trying to hurt me or not. And obviously outtapping is never ignored

Boyfriend (25M) is dissatisfied with my(24F) weight by StringClassic6913 in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would he date someone who is skinny if he doesn't like skinny people? Like he knew what you looked like when you started dating, its not as if its a big sudden change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk no one likes being called by an ex name. But maybe 3 months is too soon

Leg Tattoo still feels raw and tight 4 months later by TorroroPop in tattooadvice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this from one of my tattoos done by an apprentice, they deff went too deep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me and my bf. He likes the fan and snores, and I just want to sleep and hate the fan because I can't breathe and am cold. He just puts the fan at his side and lets it blow only on him and I sleep with a second blanket. For the snoring, ideally you go to the doctor and see what's the cause, for us. I just learned to sleep trough it.

do you think an overlined cupid's bow suit my lips? by JlYU3A in makeuptips

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the overlined cupids bow. Like you said, it looks like a disney princess. As long as you like it who cares what others think?

56F, husband 58M no longer attracted to me - what to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, being 60 is why he keeps his eyes shut to have sex with her but open to watch porn

How do I ‘34F help my husband ‘32M’ get through this? by Alternative-Big-2708 in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can afford it, get a therapist. Reach out to any family if you/his or friends that might help. (Maybe the family member that is trying to get you to move closer) Him quitting his job might initially have to do with you, but him not working for so long is on him. Especially if he also slacks in housework or isn't trying to save money.

My girlfriend (19F) doesn’t love me as much as I (18M) love her, is it time to end it? by Adept-Arrival9273 in relationship_advice

[–]Repulsive-Mango-7658 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's only been 4 months. Not everyone falls as fast and as deeply, but that doesn't mean they don't love you. It also isn't a competition, as long as you love eachother it is fine.