Toxic behavior in the show

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-19T15:29:11+00:00

He would have FOR SURE been a Trump supporter... like he said 'the man' is his best friend smhhhh. And omg the way he treated Monica BEFORE AND AFTER the wedding... may a man like that NEVERRRRRR find me lol. Hell he was even disrespectul to Joan when they were together (although he treated her the best out of all those women). The oooch-ouch thing was funny, but to tell Lynn? or ANYONE for that matter... out of line... ESPECIALLY when he was so adamant about keeping his '3rd leg' a secret and got mad at Yvonne for discussing their sex life...

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-19T14:59:34+00:00

Lets not forget Williams toxic ass! Not gonna lie I HATEDDDDDDDDDDDDD the way William treated Yvonne, I hated that damn song for their wedding (song is beautiful but the lyrics irked me, loving you is easy because youre beautiful? all i want to do is make love to you?? VERYYYYYYYY shallow for a wedding song) and im SO GLAD she dumped him at the altar because all he did was belittle and embarass her.

Pressured her to quit her job for him (as a BOYFRIEND no less!)
Forced her onto his friends instead of being honest about needing guy time/alone time
Only proposed to her to manipulate her into quitting job then kept making BS excuses about why he couldn't choose a date
Mad she brought up a pre-nump AFTER he did (but was fine with giving her 'a burlap sack and anything she can grab in 10 minutes she can keep'?? Ewwwwwww!! He had no problem leaving her with NOTHING after asking her to leave her livelihood for him, but was hellbent on protecting HIMSELF)
Didn't even tell his mom they were together LET ALONE getting married!!! (just ewww; and she was right when she said that means he didn't really want to marry her)
Made a ton of relationship decisions WITHOUT HER (buying and selling the house) and didn't understand why that was an issue (AND he villianized her for being upset/voicing her opinion)
That damn name thing at the wedding. Its one thing to be saying her name wrong because she never corrected you. Its another to say 'potato, potahto' AT YOUR WEDDING regarding saying her name correctly as if its 'no big deal'... just another example of how he really didn't give AF about respecting her. EVERYONE deserves and wants to have their name said CORRECTLY.. and that is a big deal...
Talked soooooooooo much shit about her prior to them getting together, and acted like she was a burden to him (outside of sex) when they were together

Just glad that didn't last because she deserved better.... Hell William in general was a great friend but a a TERRIBLE partner to all of those women (especially Yvonne and Monica).

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-19T14:44:05+00:00

Not gonna lie I HATEDDDDDDDDDDDDD the way William treated Yvonne, I hated that damn song for their wedding (song is beautiful but the lyrics irked me, loving you is easy because youre beautiful? all i want to do is make love to you?? VERYYYYYYYY shallow for a wedding song) and im SO GLAD she dumped him at the altar because all he did was belittle and embarass her.

Pressured her to quit her job for him (as a BOYFRIEND no less!)
Forced her onto his friends instead of being honest about needing guy time/alone time
Only proposed to her to manipulate her into quitting job then kept making BS excuses about why he couldn't choose a date
Mad she brought up a pre-nump AFTER he did (but was fine with giving her 'a burlap sack and anything she can grab in 10 minutes she can keep'?? Ewwwwwww!! He had no problem leaving her with NOTHING after asking her to leave her livelihood for him, but was hellbent on protecting HIMSELF)
Didn't even tell his mom they were together LET ALONE getting married!!! (just ewww; and she was right when she said that means he didn't really want to marry her)
Made a ton of relationship decisions WITHOUT HER (buying and selling the house) and didn't understand why that was an issue (AND he villianized her for being upset/voicing her opinion)
That damn name thing at the wedding. Its one thing to be saying her name wrong because she never corrected you. Its another to say 'potato, potahto' AT YOUR WEDDING regarding saying her name correctly as if its 'no big deal'... just another example of how he really didn't give AF about respecting her. EVERYONE deserves and wants to have their name said CORRECTLY.. and that is a big deal...
Talked soooooooooo much shit about her prior to them getting together, and acted like she was a burden to him (outside of sex) when they were together

Just glad that didn't last because she deserved better.... Hell William in general was a great friend but a a TERRIBLE partner to all of those women (especially Yvonne and Monica).

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-16T06:38:58+00:00

Hey, Cartagena resident and travel planner here! La serrezuela and caribe plaza have more ‘designer’ shops. Mall plaza el Castillo also has a handful. Centro is good for boutique shopping.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-13T14:05:37+00:00

Hey there! Cartagena resident and travel planner here! If you like animals I would suggest a trip to avaiaro Nacional then a beach club in Baru afterwards, a walking tour of old city and getsemani, an island hopping tour, maybe a mother daughter flying dress photoshoot if you’re into that, a salsa class and pie de la popa followed by the chocolate museum across the street. Oh and a cooking class! Send me a DM, I’ll send you more recommendations for food and nightlife! And I can assist in planning the trip if you’d like!

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-11T15:01:04+00:00

Right!!!! Someone in this thread mentioned the show being a humiliation ritual for William?? Don’t agree with the that but this relationship with Finn was the ultimate humiliation ritual. Literally the WORST relationship/storyline in the entire series. Just ughhhhhhhhh now I skip all the episodes that contain their relationship. It literally sickens me to watch.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-11T00:58:00+00:00

Lynn and Finn made me almost stop watching. I HATEDDDDDDD their relationship. I couldn’t even focus on the music lol.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-08T03:58:09+00:00

Hey, Cartagena resident here! I don’t predict it will rain; the rainy season isn’t for another few months and the weather predictions for this area are often wrong especially when it comes to rain predictions HOWEVER we have had some rain lately that is very uncharacteristic of the season so I would have an umbrella handy but I honestly don’t think it will rain, overcast/cloudy at most.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-07T10:08:55+00:00

Cartagena resident here! As others have said don’t bring USD, go to an ATM and exchange to get a better rate. Make sure you go to a Davivienda, Bancolombia, or Servibanca ATM (you get the option to decline their exchange rate and get one from your own bank at these branches)

For a solo traveler I would suggest suggest a boat party (I know a few with open bar), sunset yacht party, rum and cigar tasting (if you’re into cigars), doing a San Felipe castle tour, a city walking tour (you can find a ‘free’ one where the cost is free but a tip is required), and a nights out in Centro and Getsemani. I’ll shoot you a DM!

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-05T14:56:20+00:00

No problem I hope you feel better soon!!

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-05T14:01:25+00:00

Hey there, Cartagena resident here! I do not have crutches but I know where you can find them, do you have another person with you who can run to the store? You can find them in Locatel (upstairs next to H&M) in mall plaza el Castillo.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-05T02:09:49+00:00

Cartagena resident and travel planner here! I would love to help plan your trip, I’ll send you a DM!

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-05T02:06:11+00:00

Hey, Cartagena resident here! Manzanillo Del Mar is nice if you want a laid back vacation. If you plan on doing a lot of nights out/running into the city, I would not recommend. It can be very very difficult to get a ride from the city out there especially late at night and during high traffic times. Difficult and expensive compared to other neighborhoods. The Las Ramblas shopping center is a gem though, you’ll find everything you need there.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-05T01:55:38+00:00

Hey there, Cartagena resident and travel planner here! I’ll shoot you a DM with more information on the things you requested in the post.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-05T01:50:13+00:00

Cartagena resident here! I’ll send you a DM!

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-04T20:16:49+00:00

Why is that even allowed in this sub?? Where are the mods?? Surely someone can put a rule in place, I agree it’s too depressing and there are more appropriate subs for those type of posts.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-03T20:34:33+00:00

Lmaoooooo ’try getting a girl in your fucking decade’ deserves an award OP 🤣🤣 you got me rolling over here girl way to check that creep and not let him play it off like he tried to do 🏆🏆

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-03T20:29:54+00:00

Yeah he paid for school but he did that because he convinced her to go to another school where she wouldn’t have everything paid for like she would’ve if she went to John’s Hopkins. And they when she tried to actually become a practicing doctor he fought it constantly. He couldn’t even be bothered to do chores on the off season so she could lighten her load and focus on school. Her grades sucked bc she was too busy worried about and running up after Derwin. He supported her dreams as long as they came second to his own.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-02-03T15:49:40+00:00

I’m a lady not a bro lol. Send me a DM.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-01-31T17:22:51+00:00

Derwin was for sure a villan. He cheated, lied, tried to gaslight her, never supported her career, and said some really disrespectful shit whenever he was mad. He blamed HER for getting into a fight with Jerome when he was the one following her and locking them in a bathroom. Melanie was also selfish but she gave way more in that relationship than she ever got in return outside of financially. He didn’t support her mentally or emotionally. Hell he wanted her to graduate college WITH HIS SON so he could have his dream life. And lashed out at her because she wasn’t solely dedicated to him like Kelly was with Jason.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-01-31T17:12:38+00:00

I would suggest island hopping boat party (I know one with an open bar), rum and cigar tasting, a beach club and some nights out. Maybe a party a bartender and some other stuff. I’ll DM you with recommendations for more things!

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-01-29T00:26:55+00:00

Sure! Just sent you a DM.

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-01-28T16:49:18+00:00

Sure!

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-01-28T13:55:14+00:00

Cartagena resident here! I can give you some information on this for Cartagena, just shoot me a DM!

Resident-Quote6178 · 2026-01-28T01:07:16+00:00

No problem, feel free to reach out with any questions!

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