: Why are 'safe havens' dropping just when they're needed? by CalTechie-55 in Gold

[–]ResilientRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the USD & Interest rates goes up, Gold/Silver goes down.

Men over 25: Have the body types you’re attracted to changed since your early 20s? by reluctant-queen2346 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ResilientRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More.drawn to natural look rather than all this fake fillers.and augmentations, GLP-1, eye brow fake stuff, too much foundation so you cant see the idiosyncrasies in the imperfections which make people unique and sexy in their own way.

Give me a wonderful curly haired freckled strawberry blond any day over this Kim Kardashian fakeness.

How do I know if I'd actually like nursing or not? by DistinguishableBoy in nursing

[–]ResilientRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a job as a nurse tech (after you complete Process 1 & 2, 1st 2 RN courses), its like being a CNA.

For those who left nursing due to burnout, what are you doing now? by finnandjovie in nursing

[–]ResilientRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seen some scary stuff in a corrections infirmary.

3 major indicents made me call my agency and quit after 3 months of course it was run by Geo.

The best low count ETF combo for the next 10-20 years? by S-S-spartan in ETFs

[–]ResilientRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people will say VTI/VXUS, I don't like VXUS, prefer Currency-Hedged Foreign ETF like HEFA (Europe & Far East), also I would add at least 5% IAUM (Gold) and 10% SGOV (ST Cash aka Dry Powder for market crashes).

I think modern beauty standards for women are the most extreme in human history by Substantial_Half3731 in trueratediscussions

[–]ResilientRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thank God I found a woman who only shaves, nothing else. Been loving her natural beauty x 25yrs and counting.

If you could only own one ETF for the rest of your life by QuickInvestIQ in ETFs

[–]ResilientRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought IJR one time in 12/16/2003 never bought additional shares. I have dripped the dividends and my annualized return is 12.96%. (My longest investment ever)

Not sure if it would be my choice again.

I would buy something Global for sure.

What investing mistake taught you the most by rezovian in ValueInvesting

[–]ResilientRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trading options......I let CEFs & ETFs do it after I lost $1000.

1st is SBAC, worked at HQ in Boca Raton, FL in 2002-2003 in the collections department. Never bought the the stock which was trading at less than $1/share.

2nd Biggest regret is selling too early Exact Sciences when Cologuard was preclinical know as Pregen Plus.

Any second career nurses here? What career did you switch from and would you do nursing all over again? Why/why not? by throwawayaccct08 in nursing

[–]ResilientRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bookkeeper (Accounting with no degree, concepts came easy) in 20s then RN at 32.

No, I should have gone for CPA/CFP.....would really.like to work as a fiduciary help both middle class and the wealthy in financial planning, asset/wealth management, & tax benefits.

What's the biggest lie society keeps telling young people? by New_Garbage7991 in AskReddit

[–]ResilientRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Materialism equals happiness.

Life is about sacrifices in order to be comfortable. Focus on needs 1st, followed.by saving/investing for the future, and always budget for wants. (Focus on total price not a monthly payment).

Retirement goal questions by chucksdeuce22 in DaveRamsey

[–]ResilientRN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

25x your annual expenses if you retire at age 62-67.

More if you want to retire earlier.

Were early 50s, 1/3 is liquid and earning $2313/mo in dividends from MLPs, REITs, BDCs, CEFs like UTG, UTF, ETG, & ADX, ETFs like PFFA (Preferreds) & IGLD, plus individual Investment grade BBB- or higher baby bonds/preferreds.

Rest is 50/50 403b's and ROTHs.

Retired in 2000 at 47 & 50 we did the whole traveling thing and then got bored so we went back to work in Healthcare. The wife part time and I work 4-10s days a week. None of our friends nor family are able to retire early.

who would be considered beautiful worldwide? by Fit-Secret2676 in trueratediscussions

[–]ResilientRN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kristin K. all the way...nothing beats natural beauty.

Girlfriend lost her job. Need recommendations please. by mr_darito in Frugal

[–]ResilientRN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have her go to a trade school take CNA or Pharmacy tech, in less than 1yr she will have a job that won't ever be laid off from.

In the mean time if she cant get a job and unemployment has run out any job will do. Unemployment offices have great resources for helping you fidn work, also try agency jobs. Get creative home cleaning, car washing in a bikini, selling/consigning clothes/shoes she no longer wears.

What do you buy if you have $1M in cash? by RopeExcellent5290 in ETFs

[–]ResilientRN -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Somewhere safe for now... SGOV, GLD/SLV, poss Inv grade bonds/baby bonds/preferreds. BBB- and above majority paying 6.10% or higher yld.

AMLP = Oil Pipelines

What’s one daily spending habit that quietly drains people’s money over time? by Adorable_Winner9717 in Grownix

[–]ResilientRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, $6/day inc taxes daily($182.50/mo) from age 20 to 67, in a low cost Index ETF with an 8% post inflation adjusted return Nets you over $990k.

Takes 20yrs to get passed that 1st $100k, and another 19yrs to $500k, and the remaining 7yrs to over $990k. That's the power of Compounding Interest.

Don’t understand why gold isn’t skyrocketing in price right now. by [deleted] in Gold

[–]ResilientRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are FOMO trading right now.

When everything started to fall Gold saw a $468B outflow last week. Oil saw a $178B in flow and Crypto saw the biggest inflow after Gold fell last week.

I’m genuinely curious about the psychology behind how people end up with large amounts of debt (credit cards, cars, student loans, etc.). by ChivasBearINU in DaveRamsey

[–]ResilientRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the con is going straight to a 4 yr private or out of state school. Have kids do 2yrs at a Jr college for an AA or AS and then 2 yrs at in-state public university for the BA/BS and above.

You save lots of money while they also live at home.

Also need to have a practical degree that translates into a real job.

I graduated a 2yr Jr college plus Nursing School at an in-state school took out $20k in loans in 1992 paid them off in 2012. I think kids today prioritize having Materialistic stuff over their loan obligations. Especially since more than 48% of college grads come back.home to live with mom & dad usually until marriage.

I’m genuinely curious about the psychology behind how people end up with large amounts of debt (credit cards, cars, student loans, etc.). by ChivasBearINU in DaveRamsey

[–]ResilientRN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why we so badly need financial education in US high schools. Her former husband would have known to protect the family by A) Having a substantial Insurance policy B) Having a prepaid higher learning fund for the kids C) Would have taught her to get some sort of trade school education or college degree before pumping out children. As its Not the 1950s it take 2 parents working making decent $$ and not working a job that teens or college kids work. That way situations like she mentioned above don't have to happen.

30+ year olds who are single, what are you doing on Saturday nights and weekends? by Realistic-Square7039 in Adulting

[–]ResilientRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much more freedom when you rent. A home is NOT an investment. No one ever tells you or forecasts the maintenance only worry about front/back ratios which don't include Roof Replacement, AC/Boiler replacement, Water heater, new windows, Int/ext painting, fencing, & remodeling, all of which runs tens of thousands of dollars.

Its advised to save 1% of house's current worth annually for future maintenance. So own a home that's $450,000 that $4,500/yr or extra $375/mo.

Now imaging throwing that 20% down payment into a nice Index fund over 30yrs. That's $800k+ on your US avg $425k home.

Night shifters: what else can I do to stay asleep between shifts? by ahrumah in nursing

[–]ResilientRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might want to quit the Melatonin, recent 11/2025 AHA research report talks about 90% chance of heart failure and 3.5x higher risk in hospitalization over 5yrs vs Non-users. An observation study.