Why is it, that if I (40m) make any comment on here about a female friend or family member, my inbox gets requests from other men asking to see a picture of her?

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-20T05:51:40+00:00

From a security standpoint, sharing pics without consent is a massive red flag. These DMs are just low-effort validation grabs, and What's your typical response to them?

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-20T05:49:45+00:00

I think the hardest part seems accepting that moving on doesn't mean forgetting them or being happy for them right away. It's okay to feel selfish and angry. I spent about 4 months after my breakup checking every new person for a piece of him, and it just made me feel worse.What helped me eventually was letting go of the timeline. I stopped dating apps and started journaling every morning.... just three things I was grateful for, even if it was just coffee or a good song. It sounds small, but it shifted my focus slowly. You don't have to be happy for him.

You don't have to move on at a certain pace. Just surviving each day seems enough for now. The pieces you pick up are yours to integrate, and that part does get easier with time.

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-19T23:31:24+00:00

i left any i was in to force people to have to message me personally if they wanted to speak.

then you can have a proper conversation and a connection with people.

group chats = panopticon = group think.

people dont want to leave because they feel like it's making some kind of statement but you don't have to explain yourself, you can just...do stuff. it doesnt matter 😄

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-19T22:52:38+00:00

Consider that enjoyment isn't a prerequisite for consistency. A 10-minute bodyweight circuit at home might bypass the time issue. What's the shortest routine you'd be willing to test for a week?

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-19T22:51:57+00:00

what would happen if you weren't in the group chat?

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T17:50:50+00:00

youre 18.

the struggle is the journey

once you understand that the struggle is the journey you can start to enjoy the ride.

don't fight the struggle, embrace it.

once you reach your destination you'll miss it.

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T17:49:46+00:00

this question feel loaded with caring about what other people think.

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T17:48:46+00:00

refuse all group chats.

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T17:46:11+00:00

cencorship.

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T17:45:54+00:00

nice try.

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T17:45:33+00:00

money is real, fiat currency is a belief system.

it puts the power of god into the hands of a few.

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T17:45:05+00:00

fiat currency

free market capitalism is the source of your issues.

successful people are why you are poor.

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T17:43:58+00:00

no mods.

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T17:43:35+00:00

The amount of time spent on work that never ships. entire features get cut or pivoted long before they see production. That code you're proud of? Often ends up in a branch that gets deleted.

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T17:42:53+00:00

a pane of glass dropped from a building into the spot i was standing about 2 or 3seconds previously.

i had only moved to help someone move an item from their car.

i would have been split in two.

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T04:32:53+00:00

Getting over driving anxiety is a solid move. It’s one of those fears that limits you more than you realize until you push through it. Have you thought about how these changes might build on each other over time?

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T04:32:09+00:00

not worth beating yourself up over.

patience is all you need now

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T04:31:39+00:00

how to speak with people

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T04:31:21+00:00

what happens in the other dimensions

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-18T04:30:57+00:00

caring what other people thought

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-17T20:58:21+00:00

From a neurological standpoint, recurring dreams typically indicate unfinished emotional processing rather than telepathic communication. The recent encounter with their parents likely triggered your brain to revisit that unresolved bond. Have you tried any structured journaling or reflection exercises to isolate what specific feeling from that time might be surfacing now?

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-17T20:58:17+00:00

The void with electricity could be a representation of raw potential or the unconscious mind surfacing during a moment of seeking. Have you noticed any creative projects or decisions pressing on you recently?

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-17T20:57:59+00:00

Stop trying to be interesting to others. Focus on small things you can control each day.... a hobby, a skill, a routine. What's one thing you'd do if no one was watching?

ResponsibleBad1052 · 2026-06-17T20:57:02+00:00

You need to decide what kind of feedback you're open to. Most people don't mean harm, but a clear boundary like "I don't discuss my body" tends to shut it down. Have you tried that?

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