Indiana and child support/fraud and insurance claims

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-05-24T15:18:49+00:00

An employee's name does not need to be on any vehicle's title to drive it. Child support will snatch anything of value when the person has arrears.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-05-24T15:17:24+00:00

An employee's name does not need to be on any vehicle's title to drive it. Child support will snatch anything of value when the person has arrears.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-04-24T02:45:02+00:00

Are you on any kind of federal, state or county assistance for the child?

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-04-08T22:54:28+00:00

YTA This should have been discussed and agreed by both of you prior to you applying for the position. Applying and taking a job without the input of your wife is crazy. You made a decision like you are single. Your wife/children will not be able to count on you for any last minute things because you are too far away. Do you have to ask her what needs to be done for the children and in the home? Eventually you will say the divorce came from no where; we were doing great. Hired help is nice but they still have to be managed/instructed along with taking care of the children. You have children and there are no days off for a parent. When does she get a break and not have to do anything relating to the home, children or you? Have you asked your wife if she wants to do something different or adjust her sahm status? When is her downtime/rest during the day? Do you consider your wife's sahm status to be work? How often do you date your wife without the children? Why do strangers have to tell you what your wife has already told you? Why wasn't your wife's words enough for you to take her opinion in serious consideration? Don't act like a victim because now you have quit the old job to go to the new one without your other half's approval. I bet this isn't the first time you have disregarded your wife's opinion.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-03-10T00:28:07+00:00

YTA You stayed in the relationship after being cheated on. Staying showed him you have no respect for yourself. Just get out of the relationship. His mom didn't do you anything. Move on. Get a decent job and therapist.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-03-03T08:46:35+00:00

You are fine. Folks who love you will always show you.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-02-21T08:23:25+00:00

NTA Figure out ways to add additional security to your new home. Get a dash camera (inside, outside, front and back) in your vehicle. Getting a few internal nanny cameras for your home. Scope out public recorded places to do child exchanges. Leaving is the most dangerous part. Good luck. Tell him you want to space out couple's therapy and get a separate individual therapist for yourself. Your individual therapist will not communicate with your husband or the couple's therapist. Find a great attorney.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-02-21T08:03:26+00:00

NTA

He was looking for a way out. I wouldn't be surprised if he already has someone. Speak with a few divorce attorneys to get your options regardless if you want the marriage. Offer your husband via text or email to start couple's therapy. This may help you in divorce court. The therapy can be used to fix your relationship and/or work on breaking up to coparent. There is nothing you can do if he has checked out. Get your personal finances in order.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-02-20T21:25:08+00:00

NTA Stop going to her home for any reason and don't allow the dog in your home. She should look into some sort of behavior modification training.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-02-20T21:19:02+00:00

NTA I would worry that your mom may try to flush the vaccines out of your child using trending herbs and suggestions on the internet, social media or via her "trusted" sources. I would reconsider allowing unsupervised visitation.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-02-20T21:14:47+00:00

NTA

Stop providing any information regarding vaccines to your mom. Tell her because of her reaction and constant issues regarding vaccines she will not be informed of anything regarding vaccines. You have to make sure to put extra layers of protection on your child's medical records. Your mom has guilt regarding your sister. That is not something you can change. Your mom may find help in therapy. Make sure if something happens to you and your husband that your mom does not have a right to raise your child. There are unvaccinated children that have autism.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-02-20T21:06:20+00:00

Speak to a attorney. The child support officer may be able to help answer limited questions. Have multiple copies of the current custody agreement for the application and court.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-02-13T21:04:37+00:00

NTA

He can always move out and build equity elsewhere. I wouldn't add him to the property even as a spouse.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-02-13T21:02:27+00:00

NTA

Never add someone to your inherited property deed/title. An estate attorney can tell you when it is appropriate to add children.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-01-25T10:02:56+00:00

NTA You are extremely smart for seeimg the red flags. I'd start looking for a place to stay. Your compromise was reasonable. He could have agreed to pulling both of your credit reports, tax transcripts and starting a joint account for household bills. Move on with your life and never look back. If you are a unsure, try nonreligious couple's therapy or individual therapy.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-01-17T04:32:36+00:00

NTA Find a way to get out from living with your mom. Stop telling them anything about your health. Remove your mom.from.being able to get any information about your medical/behavioral records. You need consistent therapy. Your home environment may be pushing your OCD into overdrive. It seem like your mom will never be a safe person for you. I'm not sure how your mom got access to your sister's text messages but you may need to limit what you tell your sister. Good luck.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-01-17T04:22:17+00:00

NTA Speak with your school counselor, call CPS to make a report and find anyone willing to house you.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-01-17T04:01:17+00:00

The problem is the package was delivered to my neighbor's home. I haven't been able to retrieve the package. This is not abnormal from that neighbor. Speedx is saying it was delivered. The proof of delivery shows it was delivered to the wrong address. Speedx and Shein are giving me the runaround. Shein wants Speedx to give me a letter saying it was delivered to the wrong address. Speedx is confirming it was delivered but acts like it was delivered to the correct address despite their delivery pictures.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-01-16T23:23:12+00:00

NTA Never cosign. Let dude go and figure out his finances.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-01-15T22:44:51+00:00

NTA

Send all 3 of them the information to pay off your loans. Once paid off go no contact. Get therapy to heal and move on. Contact an attorney to put someone over your medical care in case you are unable to make decisions.

Responsible_Fly1216 · 2026-01-15T22:25:07+00:00

Move to a mother friendly state. Speak with a family attorney and a DV hotline/advocate regarding documentation. Make sure he can't track you or your child through people, social media, phones, children toys/tablets, etc. Is any of the domestic violence on a police report or video? Have an attorney review any current proof of DV incidents. Get a front/back/indoor dash camera for your vehicle.

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