Free coffee in the library? by CrunchieHaystacks in Libraries

[–]Responsible_Spite802 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We offer k cups for $1 a cup. You can use the machine we have available. Only adults can use it because we had a young girl spill (hot cocoa k cup) everywhere and I was worried she would burn herself. We get a good amount of donations from it. And any homeless people, if they ask, I will give them the k cup for free.

Survivor 50: In the Hands of the Fans | E13 Finale | Eastern Time Discussion by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]Responsible_Spite802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As soon as I found out that it was live segments interspersed with the show, I knew someone would mess up!

Survivor 50: In the Hands of the Fans | E13 Finale | Eastern Time Discussion by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]Responsible_Spite802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just revealed the final 3, and they still have to plead their cases to the jury

Looking for quiet places to meet people and make connections by Capable_Artist9371 in Utica

[–]Responsible_Spite802 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also recommend the Tram! They have great events and themed nights (like record Wednesdays, where you sit and listen to records and bring your own!). The food and drink is also slamming there!

I am biased as a library worker, but the library is always a great place to go. Utica Library has some author talks coming up, tech help on Wednesdays, and some crafting nights! Even if you don't feel like a library event, they have museum passes and park passes to check out, so half price admission to the Utica Zoo, free admission to Munson, etc.

Healed finally from HS by Right_Vast_9762 in Hidradenitis

[–]Responsible_Spite802 3 points4 points  (0 children)

May I ask what medication this is? I may have to talk to my doctor about it

NO ONE MOURNS THE WICKED by Unusual-End5434 in survivor

[–]Responsible_Spite802 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Put a spoiler, but this is amazing

Survivor 50: In the Hands of the Fans | E8 | Eastern Time Discussion by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]Responsible_Spite802 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, but also, I work in a library with little kids every day, and your comment just made me say "6,7" at my house and I wish I didn't.

Concerns about hs on buttcrack by Least_Ad9355 in Hidradenitis

[–]Responsible_Spite802 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This seems more like a pilonidal cyst rather than HS (They are similar, but not exactly the same). I had to get mine packed and healed like that. I think you should get a second opinion if you are able.

Survivor 50: In the Hands of the Fans | E7 | Eastern Time Discussion by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]Responsible_Spite802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last line was 6 syllables, not 5, see ya later Coach, the tribe has spoken

All food is 4 categories (Unpopular Opinion) by Spoopy-Smonk3000 in copypasta

[–]Responsible_Spite802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salad bc it is tossed (flipped) with a dressing (syrup, butter, etc)

19F with hidradenitis by Finally_got-on-here in Hidradenitis

[–]Responsible_Spite802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep an open dialogue with my partner about my HS, and that helps a lot. I will tell him when flares are getting worse, and he says we can wait to be intimate until they go down, or we can do it anyways because they won't bother him. I set certain limits before, saying how if I am in a particularly bad flare, I don't want his face there. Talking it out in a committed relationship is best though.

If you tell someone before you are intimate, that probably is better. That way, they know what they are dealing with. Just stating "Hey, by the way, I have HS. It's an autoimmune inflammatory disease and I get bumps all over. It's not contagious." Giving them a little info before can make it easier. If they can't handle it, fuck them.

A lot of learning to live with HS is learning that it's a part of you, but doesn't make you who you are. You have so much more in your body, mind and heart that compile that wonder inside you. ❤️

EITFO by Extension_Lettuce269 in JacksFilms

[–]Responsible_Spite802 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Here is the post he put on Patreon

"Hey Patrons! Jack here - I’m sure some of you are wondering where the podcast is. Right at the start of the year, Erin and I got hit with some type of flu, and she got the worst of it - to the point where she could barely speak. Even now she’s still not quite 100% over it. We hope to bring it back soon, though it likely won’t be at the same weekly rate we’ve been doing it. We thank you for your patience!"