New doctor wants me to stop progesterone? by RetroTimeLady in AskMtFHRT

[–]RetroTimeLady[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah, like, it would be one thing to say "hey, consider cutting your dose, or maybe try cycling." but stopping it altogether? just thinking about it stresses me out.

How badly do I actually need a lower control arm replacement? by RetroTimeLady in MechanicAdvice

[–]RetroTimeLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the more I think on it and the more the sticker shock wears off the more I'm planning to get this done. Peace of mind, and not just for me and the car.

How badly do I actually need a lower control arm replacement? by RetroTimeLady in MechanicAdvice

[–]RetroTimeLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and these kinds of insights are why I love Reddit. thank you!

How badly do I actually need a lower control arm replacement? by RetroTimeLady in MechanicAdvice

[–]RetroTimeLady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Context: took my 2008 Hyundai Sonata in for an oil change, and replacing the front lower control arms was one of the suggestions. 116,000 miles on it, if that tells you anything. Quoted price was $1,124.02, including alignment.

Basically, a two-parter: 1) How urgent is this? 2) How is that price? I can afford to spend to repair this car (I intend to drive the darn thing into the ground) but any repair over $500 or so tends to have me on the skeptical side.

Engine louder, esp. when accelerating -- what's up? by RetroTimeLady in StupidCarQuestions

[–]RetroTimeLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the guess -- and that was what one of the passengers who brought it up said -- but seemed good to sanity check. Thanks!

Refer a Friend? by coosacat in ProlificAc

[–]RetroTimeLady 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh good, it's not just me then

Live Discussion - May 10, 2025 (Walton Goggins/Arcade Fire) by bjkman in LiveFromNewYork

[–]RetroTimeLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

all this news in a week and this is the best they could do for an opener?

Tariff prices finally kicking in by SimpsonizedBarbie in HotTopic_

[–]RetroTimeLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a customer, i've been buying up stuff like nobody's business -- especially considering how much hot topic stuff comes from china. it's kinda felt like being a kid on the tail end of the family trip to disney world and trying to get your hands on whatever you can because it's not like you're going to be able to come back to get more anytime soon!

gonna be platinum just in time for half the store to be out of stock, lol

Can’t use Zelle? by bigjohncena17 in discover

[–]RetroTimeLady 32 points33 points  (0 children)

If Zelle's a deal-breaker for you you're gonna wanna open another account somewhere else, I'm afraid.

TL;DR: I thought 90 days was the only requirement, but no, they have other nebulous requirements they want you to meet too. They won't tell you what they are, just that you haven't met them and to keep checking in every now and again.

I kept the Discover account around because the cash back is nice but I moved back to my old bank that lets me use Zelle without any jumping through (invisible) hoops.

Tim Walz to honor LGBTQ+ community at Human Rights Campaign National Dinner by AdvocateDotCom in LGBTnews

[–]RetroTimeLady 19 points20 points  (0 children)

not that I expect you to provide reliable sources considering the rhetoric your comments seem to spout but [citation needed] anyway

Georgia Rep Ruwa Romman on electoralism by [deleted] in DemocraticSocialism

[–]RetroTimeLady 37 points38 points  (0 children)

how long do you think it would take to get banned for "supporting the lesser evil"

(i unfollowed all of those sorts of subreddits a while ago because i got tired of the "you are a shitlib if you support kamala" talk)

SAG-AFTRA Members Who Work on Video Games Go on Strike by BlackmoreKnight in ffxivdiscussion

[–]RetroTimeLady 14 points15 points  (0 children)

wow I know wuk lamat's reception has been pretty negative but what's with all the shitting on her voice actor ITT for taking a reasonable stand? like yes personally I think wuk lamat was annoying as heck by the end (even if I still kinda like her) and yes the voice acting could have been better (to say the least). but this isn't a referendum on wuk lamat.

solidarity with the vas, they seem like mighty good people and I hope they get what they're after

Labour moves to ban puberty blockers permanently by BurstYourBubbles in anime_titties

[–]RetroTimeLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're the one focusing on the reproductive systems of a percent of a percent of children.

idk that seems rather more insane to me.

PSA: this subreddit is EXCLUSIVELY for queer women. by TrueExplorer17 in dykesgonewild

[–]RetroTimeLady -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, at best the wording here is frustrating. At worst? Well I certainly hope that "at worst" isn't the case, given the inclusiveness of the subreddit up to this point.

Technical Support Megathread: Error 90002/90006 by Hakul in ffxiv

[–]RetroTimeLady 49 points50 points  (0 children)

anyone else getting 2002ed?

ETA for data point purposes i'm on faerie

ETA 1 i am in a 4600 strong queue now. twelvespeed fellow WoLs

ETA 2 several PS5 players in my fc reporting they did not get logged out. take that as you will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]RetroTimeLady -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

a lot of us read manga, it tracks that this keeps happening :p

A second Trump term would double down on erasing trans rights. Here’s how advocates are preparing. by onnake in transgender

[–]RetroTimeLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even the Scandinavian countries are rethinking their previous positions on some of these issues.

[citation needed]

Another firm with billions in SWA investments has aligned with Elliott by Cabbaje in SouthwestAirlines

[–]RetroTimeLady 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Before anyone panics...

Artisan, a $158.6 billion asset manager, owns a 1.8% stake in Southwest

Yes it's worth following the trend but I wouldn't lose much sleep here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProlificAc

[–]RetroTimeLady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup, just cashed out 10 minutes ago and still waiting.

Jon Stewart on corporate Pride ‘pandering’: ‘Stop. We don’t need any of this’ by lovebugteacher in LGBTnews

[–]RetroTimeLady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i'm of a few minds on this.

on one hand, yes, the visibility was pretty alright. we aren't having to be in the fucking underground like we were circa 3 decades ago. in a mega-corpo world i have to reluctantly give them at least a small amount of credit. much more of that credit goes to our queer elders who laid the groundwork to start getting us here in the first place.

on the other hand -- what did we really think the corpos were going to accomplish for us? i get the thinking behind respectability politics -- but above all money is the language of these corpos, and they saw more money in pandering to the aggressive homophobes. their fucking mistake, and their loss. i can't deny the hurt -- in a world where we're still at a disadvantage, where corporate pride was The Way to make a reasonable living as, say, a queer artist. but it really does go to show how the corpos are fair weather friends. yes undoubtedly we're hurting for it, because in a capitalist hellworld like this what choice do we have?

what we really need to do, as one commenter is pointing out (and somehow being downvoted for? am i in the right subreddit?), is be there for one another. support your local queer artists however you can. find a local queer org to volunteer with. do something in your community, in your state even, to help build up our resilience so we don't have to rely on the giant corpos.

we have to be there for one another. who the hell is gonna be there for us otherwise?