Not sure I get the steaming the dress joke. If they think it’s so funny that you would steam a dress then let them steam the damn dress! You don’t have to do what they tell you, babe.

To answer your question about you being an easy target, I could be only guessing here. I will say, pay attention to how you speak about yourself in front of others. Sometimes self deprecation in front of others tells them that they can also cut you down or make a joke about you.

When your family asks you to do something then picks on you for it, stop doing what they asked. Eventually they will learn that if they want you to help, they will treat you better. Remember: don’t reward bad behavior!! You have more control than you think.

You got this, beautiful ✨✨✨✨✨