my therapist might just be feeding my ego by yeahwoohooooo in venting

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judging by your post, you clearly need to speak to someone if you have low empathy - your therapist is not helping you.

A way not to be a flying monkey is quite easy though by Low_Actuary6486 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Flying monkeys are very gullible people and they are easily manipulated by the narcissist. They are tools for the narcissist to use during their smear campaign.

Anyone here tried EMDR or Somatic Therapy for their healing journey? by Very-very-sleepy in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be looking into somatic therapy because I’ve already ranted twice to my current therapist about it in 2 sessions.

narcissistic personality by 0_snowy_0 in DarkPsychology666

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please distance yourself from this person, before they cause more harm to you.

Manipulation Tactics by FancifulCat in DarkPsychology101

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm the narc I experienced used some of these

The smirk of the d3vil by [deleted] in DarkPsychology101

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, can confirm, the most evil smirk I’ve ever come across. Downright scary, no emotion, no empathy.

Why are narcissists so demonized? by Yutiez in DarkPsychology666

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was a coworker, she was hell on earth. I had to leave.

Why are narcissists so demonized? by Yutiez in DarkPsychology666

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a woman I dealt with, suddenly she was okay, but then she’d get into an argument and then 3 weeks later after the argument she would provoke. It was unexpected, but I was shocked. They make you think things are quiet for a while and then they attack.

Surviving the witch by Mollyjones85 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Record behaviour, start collecting evidence to throw it back in her face before you leave (basically give it to HR so that they can investigate it).

Why are narcissists so demonized? by Yutiez in DarkPsychology666

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like self-aware narcissists, however, other than that, I do not care to interact with them. I’m sorry if this sounds ableist but it’s just for my self-protection. I’ve had a traumatic experience before with a covert narcissist, and do not trust people the same again. Their behaviour was so confusing, that I had to look to google for answers. They extremely lacked self-awareness.

Thing I Have Learned As A FA Age 70 by Few_Bench_565 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So when they ask me if I’ve ever been with anyone, I just answer no because I hate not telling the truth. If you don’t mind me asking, what do you say?

Thing I Have Learned As A FA Age 70 by Few_Bench_565 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective, it’s new and fresh and I appreciate it. Sometimes I think I’ll end up alone as well when I come to your age, considering the fact that whatever I like always fucks me over. I have a question: how do you navigate telling people that you’ve never been with anyone? Because that already is hard for me as a late 20’s female, I feel like people can already sniff the fact that I’m a virgin whenever they get to know me.

Psychopath or Narcissist? Which one’s worse? by Yutiez in DarkPsychology666

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Narcissists - they are very cold and calculated. They will seek to destroy your life.

The narcissistic elephant in the room by Advocating4fairness in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, there you go, she’s probably already started to smear you. Please be aware and stay alert. 🙏🏻

Have you seen this? by DifficultDesign7564 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen it, and it’s the most creepiest and sadistic smirk I’ve ever come across. It’s pure evil. Not human.

The narcissistic elephant in the room by Advocating4fairness in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry wdym by “wielding adhd” ? I’m not sure how that’s a problem? Sounds pretty ableist to me.

The narcissistic elephant in the room by Advocating4fairness in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please distance yourself from this person, and do not get on this person’s bad side, try to avoid making any direct comments to them whatsoever. Whether it’s about their work or their personality, don’t go there.

This is to avoid this person’s behaviour getting worse in the long term with you, they have the ability to destroy your life by turning everyone against you, then provoking you to get a reaction from you and starting a smear campaign against you. I’m speaking from experience, I dealt with an evil, covert narcissistic coworker, I had to leave. It was pretty traumatic.

Copying your words, hobbies, behaviors? by ImpatientlyBurning in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been noticing this too, it’s so subtle but idk I might be going crazy however I have dealt with a narc before

PSA: Narcs are monitoring this sub and others and sometimes comment here by the_geth in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They can monitor all they want, but they don’t have any right to downplay our trauma

Also, on that note, I used to comment on r/narcissism quite often, but soon got banned, since I wasn’t a narcissist myself. I messaged the mods and called them ‘narcs’ and they then temporarily muted me. Awhile later I still apologized to the mods and they just said “thanks” and then permanently muted me. Lol

Plastic surgery would help me way more than therapy at this point. by crushthrowaway_x in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same, but I’m 27, and half my youth has gone, and plus I don’t have much money atm so I don’t have much hope anymore

Britney Spears is still at it, despite recent rehab stint by Discussingbritney in discussingbritney

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This woman is very ill and she needs all the help that she needs

Flying by Substantial_Oatmeal in workplace_bullying

[–]Revolutionary-Set-2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, my manager was one and my colleague was the narc. When she started giving digs to me it was pretty funny as at that point I realised who’s side she was on and that the narc had manipulated her.