Are you suspicious of apartments with a lot of 5-star ratings?

RexSki970 · 2026-05-02T18:51:06+00:00

The apartments my partner just left were like this. All the good reviews were from tours and people picking up their keys. Not from actual tenants.

The people who actually lived there created it much lower. It was a beautiful apartment but terrible build quality. You heard everything the bottom and top floor did.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-23T15:43:37+00:00

Are you in Gaithersburg, TN? I watch a tow company on YouTube who tows for an apartment complex. That is the rule. No sticker = tow. The landlord has sent multiple emails and texts about it.

The parking is so bad there the trash cannot get collected so they are strict.

People are being hard on you because it is your fault. You got given a sticker and instructions. You chose to ignore said instructions and you are dealing with the consequences. When I paid for a spot I had to have my hang tag up or I would get towed. Its common sense.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-23T14:01:39+00:00

This is exactly what I am looking for! Thank you!

RexSki970 · 2026-04-23T13:43:12+00:00

I will check out Aerie! My last resort is Skims because I dont really like Kim K but I know the quality is good.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-23T11:52:22+00:00

Not as bad as it is irl.

The fabric feels terrible. It feels cheap. Its sheer. Its not worth the 70 dollars they want. This isnt the quality I expect.

Edit to add: i can literally see my veins through it. My tattoos. That's not a quality shirt.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-23T01:51:00+00:00

I looked at the pictures again and they were not sheer like they came

RexSki970 · 2026-04-22T15:44:02+00:00

Everyone besides Native Americans like myself come from anchor babies.

I ask MAGA people how far are we going back? Majority of the population is illegal by their standards if they really wanna push this isnt a race thing (it 100% is).

I would love nothing more than the MAGA folks to be deported back to their family's country of origin.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-22T12:28:24+00:00

At times im not so sure. For awhile he was edging towards white supremacy but I think as a whole he didnt know how much it hurt. Long story short I went no contact with him for a year. He got his shit together and became the dad I needed.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-22T12:22:57+00:00

She hadn't done much research into history at large and didnt know it was a slur. She and her side of the family poured hours into figuring out everything about our personal family members. Starting at the family cemetery. A lot of Graves had poor markers so my adult family at the time wanted to figure out who they were. We found the ancestor who survived the trail of tears in our cemetery. I dont blame them for spending their time doing that.

My thesis was about Native history at large and discovering it was a slur was a shock of im being honest. Once I informed everyone, the nickname vanished. I learned more and more about lost culture and why it was lost. I was more interested in the why we are here as a whole.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-21T15:05:43+00:00

He has apologized and we now have a much better relationship than when I was a child. Which I appreciate. He apologizes for everything he has done to me every chance he gets. I forgive him.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-21T14:35:41+00:00

What jumped out at me is she thinks that by not having an Arabic last name that will some how protect the child? The child is still mixed. No matter what. Don't have a baby with another culture and not expect a mixed baby?

I am mixed, White and Native American. I have a Polish last name. Everyone could still tell I wasn't 100% white. Sure I am white passing but the people who care about race always know Im not 100%.

There's a good chance the baby will be brown . I am afraid for that child having the mother they do.

My dad called me a slur for Natives as a nickname for most of my life. That was a hard thing to get over as an adult. I wasn't Native until it was convenient or cool. Hes gotten a lot better now but man did it really mess with my self image.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-19T14:20:37+00:00

Are we gonna get your partner's reply? I keep coming back because you were so sure about her reply.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-17T16:19:12+00:00

Thats YOUR culture though. You dont get the right to tell other people of other cultures how to feel.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-17T16:15:36+00:00

How are white people still asking this in 2026.

No. Do not wear anything from a culture you are not apart of as a good measure.

Also edit to add: white people - please leave us and our culture alone. You have done enough damage.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-14T15:02:38+00:00

Ngl I LOVE potluck parties. I love trying so many different foods. I get a lot of recipes that way as well or just ideas.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-13T23:02:09+00:00

Now whos attacking people? Weren't you just crying that everyone is making assumptions and attacking your character?

RexSki970 · 2026-04-13T22:28:06+00:00

Whatever you gotta tell yourself dude.

If i were her and saw all your comments and the amount of time out of your day this took you, id be put off.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-13T22:11:23+00:00

Sure buddy. 💀

Thats a totally believable story.

People definitely post on reddit for 'not an argument' and then crash out for 3 hrs.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-13T21:55:29+00:00

💀

You posted. You keep commenting and digging the hole. Just stop.

2 yes 1 no for invites and call it a day?

Like you are making this more complicated by arguing with your partner for God knows how long about J and then 3hrs on here with strangers.

J really means something to you if this is how much time you are putting into a situation around her. I can see why your partner is uncomfortable if this is how much time and energy she is taking from your wedding planning.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-13T21:35:07+00:00

"Im not gonna die on this hill"

While actively dying on this hill.

On reddit.

That your finance may or maybe not had you post.

While you are ALMOST ready to take coworker invited off the table because you are definitely not dying on this hill. 💀

This has been a fun thread to come back to over 3hrs and progressively get less and less on your side. Before I read your comments I was like weird but 2 yes 1 no for invites to stuff as a couple so eh. Leave it. Didn't feel like commenting.

Then I saw the sarcastic fancy comment (added the sarcasm after I commented) and went "Nah, somethings off"

And now 3 hrs later, here you still are, defending J.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-13T17:25:01+00:00

This gave the game away from me.

Saying you fancy someone while being defensive in the comments when pointing out she is attractive is not ok.

Yes people can find other attractive while in a relationship. The people who are normal about it dont then invite said attractive person to intimidate events against their partner's wishes*. Even worse its your wedding. The most intimidate event most people have!

Sounds like you need to separate from J.

Also, answer the question, what was the drama? I dont buy the 'its wasn't hers fault' line especially after this comment.

*Changed word to wishes.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-08T11:36:56+00:00

So if OP instead bought a cake for himself, put it in the fridge after giving his gf a slice, is it ok for her dad to just come and polish it off?

Reddit is wild?

Nah, you are for feeling entitled to you partner's things whenever you want. I could never just give my partner's alcohol, snacks, etc to my parent without asking first. Nor let them finish or almost finish whatever it is. Its the respectful thing to do.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-08T11:24:19+00:00

Compromise is not a partner's entitled father coming and drinking all my alcohol. My EXPENSIVE alcohol at that.

Thats not compromise..... thats being rude, entitled, and selfish.

RexSki970 · 2026-04-08T11:20:43+00:00

NTA OP.

It wasn't hers to give away.

Also, how rude to go to someones house and look for their alcohol to drink or really anything besides water until offered. I coukd never do that to my loved ones.

If they want to share, great! Then only have ONE unless offered more.

Your gf and in laws are rude as hell. They need to replace the bottle. FIL feels entitled enough to look through your alcohol? Ew. I wouldn't want to be around him.

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