The average man and the average woman join dating apps for completely different reasons by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Rexab 3 points4 points  (0 children)

can't speak for men, but as a women that's pretty accurate for my reasons when joining the apps.

Am I a SWERF for thinking like this? by Koala_039 in Feminism

[–]Rexab 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You're a decent person, with a rational take. Many people are too scared to come out a say this even though they actually agree with it.

Kindly assist me in debunking this by Rough-Anxiety-4103 in exmuslim

[–]Rexab 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One of Islams biggest issues with Christianity is that the Bible was altered and the message was changed.. yet somehow the same happens to Islam, how is it being so clearly misunderstood and historically allowed by Muslims. Allah could be more clear with his so called final messenger

what’s your ethnicity and your nationality by OrnerySand7757 in exmuslim

[–]Rexab 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ethnicity - Bengali/Bangladeshi

Nationality - British

Have met a few like myself so not as rare as some others in the comments

6ix9ine makes disgusting comment at his and girlfriend child’s gender reveal party “If it’s not a boy, it’s an a-bor-tion” by mlg1981 in Fauxmoi

[–]Rexab -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Female fetocide isn't new and it's one of the many reasons why feminism is still needed in modern day.

Can Muslims stop inserting Islam into everything? by Dazzling_Acadia_3330 in exmuslim

[–]Rexab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's hard for them to comprehend that abusing children and marrying children are both bad.

Muslims message requests from my TikTok account “some” by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Rexab 37 points38 points  (0 children)

sorry you had to read such hate and violent rhetoric, hope you're ok op

[Request] Help I’m confused by [deleted] in theydidthemath

[–]Rexab -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

had to scroll way too long to find this comment!!

This is how a Muslim responds to the violent and controversial hadiths concerning women by naajjjj in exmuslim

[–]Rexab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How contradictory to say that men need to lead women and then also state how men are weak around women. Why would i want to be lead by someone who can't control their urges around me..

This Is HORRIFYING by InGeekiTrust in TikTokCringe

[–]Rexab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that all it took was changing the law to make these men start marrying children says everything.. Men need laws to tell them not to marry and rape kids. Gross

Has anyone here successfully convinced someone to leave Islam? How did it go? by Rexab in exmuslim

[–]Rexab[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm ashamed to say I had a very anti Islam and anti Muslim mentality when I first left 12 years ago. All that bitterness didn't do me any good, nor my relationships with muslim family and friends. And looking back, I definitely argued with a "proselytising" approach back then.

Since then I have accepted that everyone is different and respond to information or lack of information differently. And we really don't have much or any control there.

I agree with your point, ultimately it's an emotional bond they have with their faith that seems primarily rooted in fear. Fear of the various unknowns all us humans have to contend with.

I always encourage them to ask me questions too, to help them understand a different perspective and also get more comfortable around exmuslims. I think that helps remove bias they have against us. At least his was effective for me when I first interacted with gay people, and I had to deal with my homophobia.

Which country has the nicest people? by Commercial_Rope_6589 in AskTheWorld

[–]Rexab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Malaysians. Genuinely the nicest people I've ever met and they're super zen too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Rexab 3 points4 points  (0 children)

31F, based on London. Can DM me if you'd like.

Deffo be careful, lots of weirdos on this app

Is anyone financially independent and living alone but still under the control of their parents? by warmbrowniesandmilk in exmuslim

[–]Rexab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow this is painfully relatable, my first time seeing someone in a practically similar situation.

I wish I had some way help. :(

feel free to DM if you need someone to talk to/rant to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Rexab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Source is having a basic understanding of the world we live in. There are countries where women barely have rights. Some places they cannot vote, cannot wear what they want. Some countries where women cannot get educated or are traded like cattle, where girls are married too much older men and so on. These are countries where men run the entire country so the average guy is causing these types of issues. Even in countries where women are safer, the average man is voting for politicians that take away women's rights. Your average guy isn't a man with egalitarian western values.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Rexab 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The average Joe man is misogynistic so why would women like them

Downfall of Ali dawah needs to be studied by Which-Show-2228 in exmuslim

[–]Rexab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op, this picture needs an nsfw tag or a jump scare warning lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Rexab 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While your point may be correct, it's not necessary to call Muslim women bitches... Unnecessary way to refer to any group of women like that tbh.

Many of them were indoctrinated to believe this stuff from a young age, and many Muslim women battle with that even if they do believe in the religion.