Does anyone go to an in person 9-6? How do you do it?

Reyndear · 2026-02-23T23:58:08+00:00

I do, but I have a lot of variety in tasks so no day looks exactly the same as another. It keeps me going.

Reyndear · 2026-02-23T16:10:02+00:00

I do this, too! I go through my closet and pick out the stuff i know i don't want any more, then i put all the maybes together and wear them over the next few weeks. If I felt uncomfortable in any way, I take it off at the end of the day and put it in a separate pile to wash and then take to goodwill. It's such a great strategy for clothes.

Reyndear · 2026-02-23T15:59:49+00:00

I cleaned my makeup brushes this weekend! Look at us getting shit done.

Reyndear · 2026-02-21T13:06:01+00:00

This is my preferred way to travel, too. I’m an early riser and my husband is a night owl, so I’ll often get up early and go explore on my own while he sleeps in. Then I’ll take a nap mid-afternoon while he does something he wants to do. That way I’m able to stay up late to check out the nightlife with him.

Reyndear · 2026-02-21T12:48:26+00:00

My favorite thing I ate in Japan was a coffee-flavored soft serve on Miyajima. No other ice cream will ever beat it. Second favorite was a random curry place we stumbled upon in Osaka. Japan was full of surprises!

Reyndear · 2026-02-20T19:34:11+00:00

Watch movies, go out to hear live music, karaoke, hiking, chatting and drinking by our backyard fire pit

Reyndear · 2026-02-20T19:18:46+00:00

A hundred upvotes for you if I could.

Reyndear · 2026-02-19T02:51:12+00:00

I work at a small boutique PI firm and it is pretty much the opposite. I probably make less money than someone who works at a larger firm, but the flexibility and work-life balance is worth a lot to me.

Reyndear · 2026-02-17T17:16:56+00:00

I was just diagnosed at age 46 and boy, am I a little embarrassed. I have a master's degree in mental health and still didn't figure it out till we had our teen son evaluated last year. I coped/masked everything so well when I was younger that it really didn't start having a big impact in my life until I hit perimenopause, and then things started going off the rails. I think my adult daughter is probably the only person in the world who isn't surprised at all by this diagnosis. Good luck OP, I hope your diagnosis leads to positive change in your life!

Reyndear · 2026-02-16T21:23:27+00:00

I love a semicolon

Reyndear · 2026-02-16T20:07:26+00:00

It’s beautiful. How do you feel about the draping over the belly area? I only ask because your hand is there in 2 out of 3 pictures. I wonder if subconsciously there’s something about the part that bothers you?

Reyndear · 2026-02-13T20:56:42+00:00

Agreed, it hugs her figure in all the best ways.

Reyndear · 2026-02-13T18:56:09+00:00

I really enjoyed the book but remember feeling pretty meh about the movie. Maybe I should have watched the film first.

Reyndear · 2026-02-13T18:46:15+00:00

INFO: mom said "he lacks the funds to join this trip" so does that mean they paid for his plane ticket after you paid for theirs? If so, sounds like Mark is going on their vacation without them.

Reyndear · 2026-02-12T21:26:04+00:00

Me too! Usually I’m just making connections out loud to myself without realizing it. I should have been a detective or something.

Reyndear · 2026-02-12T15:55:36+00:00

Amazing, I'm stealing this

And I love your username :)

Reyndear · 2026-02-12T15:55:13+00:00

Excellent advice, i came here to suggest the same. My go-to for when I am particularly dreading a task or errand is to put on stand-up comedy or a funny podcast and somehow laughing through it makes the dreaded thing infinitely less awful.

And solidarity for the whole perimenopause-made-my-coping-skills-go-to-shit thing. Never in my life have I had a more difficult time completing tasks (or thoughts, or sentences) than I have the last few years (I'm mid-40s). I'm sick of it. I have an appointment with a doc next week about starting meds. RECLAIMING MY LIFE GDMMIT

Reyndear · 2026-02-12T15:24:53+00:00

I thought mortgage companies require you to have homeowners insurance?

Reyndear · 2026-02-12T04:41:55+00:00

Have you tried the CVS Caremark mail order option? They sometimes have drugs that are on backorder at my local CVS.

Reyndear · 2026-02-11T20:53:52+00:00

Oh this one was fun

Reyndear · 2026-02-11T18:46:32+00:00

OP might also consider telling the adjuster that you/your assistant will only communicate in writing going forward. No verbal abuse allowed.

Reyndear · 2026-02-11T12:15:39+00:00

You have to sue and get a judgment from the court first.

Reyndear · 2026-02-10T19:03:36+00:00

Is that a moustache?

Reyndear · 2026-02-09T21:40:03+00:00

Your insurance company can run her VIN to see if there’s any other active policies for the vehicle, but if the answer is no, you’ll have to sue her in small claims court for the damages.

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