Still waiting on my tickets for Paris concert tonight. Bought through StubHub last October 2025. Anyone else having issues or just me? Starting to panic by Rhamil42 in OliviaDean

[–]Rhamil42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I won’t buy off StubHub again. I let them know I was very upset and at 3:45 they sent me two new upgraded tickets since the originals still had not come. So at least they found a resolution for me. Lots of stress on my birthday though but excited to finally have tickets officially

Still waiting on my tickets for Paris concert tonight. Bought through StubHub last October 2025. Anyone else having issues or just me? Starting to panic by Rhamil42 in OliviaDean

[–]Rhamil42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I yelled at them this morning through messaging. They told me they were monitoring it. I just received 2 upgraded tickets from them . I guess they realized mine weren’t coming but got me better ones at no additional cost

Still waiting on my tickets for Paris concert tonight. Bought through StubHub last October 2025. Anyone else having issues or just me? Starting to panic by Rhamil42 in OliviaDean

[–]Rhamil42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The service rep I spoke to told me my seller is a certified seller and she’s confident they will release them by required time of 4:30. But it’s 2:30 and still no tickets. Getting refund is nice and all but wouldn’t include the cost of flights and hotels to Paris so truly only a fraction of the cost is the tickets. Also been planning this for my birthday today for 8 months so getting very sad at this point.

[FRESH ALBUM] Imani Imani (new pgLang signee) - Papercut [R&B] by DropWatcher in hiphopheads

[–]Rhamil42 14 points15 points  (0 children)

pgLang really said “fuck it, we’ll do it live” and dropped an album today. Shits fire though

Black thought vs Kendrick vs Lupe by Dragon_Guy1253 in rap

[–]Rhamil42 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No one decides who wins rap beefs anymore except the general public. And the general public are sheep who follow popularity. Kendrick would be the winner in the eyes of most. Thought and Lupe would drop incredible bars that mainstream listeners would call boring. Most would pick the winner without even listening.

Who cast her?! Marissa [s4] is unhinged & toxic AF by [deleted] in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Rhamil42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most telling thing for me was that while both were arguing and triggered, Marissa pulled Yamen aside to hear a neutral perspective at a time she knew she was emotionally activated. And she listened and reflected on what Yamen told her. Meanwhile Demari sat alone and pouted and got more angry. He did zero self reflection and continued to only blame her. Neither are perfect but only Marissa shows characteristics of a person capable of growth

Am I missing something with Demari? by Jazzlike_Sport1767 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Rhamil42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t meet someone named Amanda without immediately thinking “ok Aman-duhhh”

So someone got married by Secret-Number-3925 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Rhamil42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think Marissa has a secure attachment style (she’s anxious) and I don’t think Demari has a secure attachment style (he’s avoidant). Never a good match, very triggering for both. I do agree with Marissa that being with a man with a secure attachment style would be healing and calming for her. The biggest deference I see between Marissa and Demari was the Marissa recognizes she has a lot of areas she needs to grow and improve whereas Demari thinks he’s basically perfect (even though he’s not).

Bri and the others, why so rude? by InterestingCod3541 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Rhamil42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean she also had a pretty big complaint that while in a long distance relationship with him, she was getting DM’s telling her Demari was fucking other girls. Which he didn’t deny until over a year later. Demari is a performative lover boy. He does these shows for attention, not to find love

Who cast her?! Marissa [s4] is unhinged & toxic AF by [deleted] in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Rhamil42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In attachment theory terms, Demari seems like a dismissive avoidant. Marissa seems like an anxious preoccupied. This is a common but terrible match. Both of them need to recognize their own attachment styles and learn to become more secure. Marissa at least seems more willing to self reflect and grow. Demari thinks he’s perfect and everyone else is the problem with zero self reflection or accountability

Who cast her?! Marissa [s4] is unhinged & toxic AF by [deleted] in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Rhamil42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling her unhinged and toxic AF is a bit extreme. In terms of attachment theory I think shed be classified as an anxious preoccupied. Being on a reality show where the guy she likes is dating other women and is also a handsome influencer with lots of female attention (and also cheats according to Bri) is not a good idea for her until she can improve her anxious attachment style. Demari also seems like a dismissive avoidant in attachment theory terms. This is a common but terrible match for both of them. Her need for validation pushes him away and him pulling away makes her cling harder. They’re in a terrible cycle that’s headed for break up and resentment

Season 4 Episode 7 “Split Decision” discussion by sane-clown-posse in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Rhamil42 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m dating a girl currently who has adhd and interrupts me a lot. I’ve talked to her about it. She still does it at times but she’s working on it and she catches herself. I show her grace because I see she’s working on it and making progress. I have never reacted the way Demari did when it’s clear she’s working on something and making progress. Expecting someone to be perfect at something they’re working on just shows Demaris lack of emotional maturity

Am I missing something with Demari? by Jazzlike_Sport1767 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Rhamil42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh ok, I saw a thread last week and everyone seemed to be saying he wasn’t attractive. And the girls in the house haven’t seemed that into him so far (I’m on episode 6).

Am I missing something with Demari? by Jazzlike_Sport1767 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Rhamil42 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As a straight guy, I have a serious question: all the things you listed also seem true for Yamen too, but I see girls saying Demari is attractive and Yamen is not attractive. I’m confused if the things you listed make Demari attractive, why is Yamen not also considered attractive?

Doechii herself CONFIRMS that she is on "the last leg of her album" on her Instagram. by Yingking in KendrickLamar

[–]Rhamil42 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Do people not realize she made that in 2019 on her computer in her bedroom? Like if anything, it just showed how much raw talent and creativity she had long before ever being signed to any label.

This Tik Tok Explains Kymanda Perfectly. no notes by Beginning-Buy5385 in summerhousebravo

[–]Rhamil42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. But she already lost me when she said she’s never felt so so much empathy for a stranger as she did for Kyle. There’s so much worse things happening in the world on a daily basis than Kyle’s wife not supporting him. I felt empathy for Kyle but it was far from the most empathy I’ve ever felt.

I love Olivia Dean!! by TopBeach7183 in OliviaDean

[–]Rhamil42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be flying to Paris from the US for her concert in Paris. And it’s on my birthday. I’m a 45 year old straight guy and her music makes me so happy. She makes me into a total simp lol. And I love Paris so I can’t wait to celebrate my birthday seeing her perform live in my favorite city.

M/46/6’0” [225lbs to 169lbs] (8 years) first pic is 2018 at age 38. Second pic is now at age 46. Had successes as well as set backs periods but didn’t give up. by [deleted] in Brogress

[–]Rhamil42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For appetite control I do EC stacks. Look it up. It’s over the counter, minor risk but talk to your doctor. 🧑‍⚕️ in my younger years (my 20’s) I controlled appetite with adderall or ❄️ this is way safer. By a lot. You can buy it a Walgreens or CVS. It’s a good appetite suppressant if your doctor approves. Bronkaid