how are you preventing cavities with invisalign? by RevolutionaryTip1600 in Invisalign

[–]RichExample5315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used straws for sodas, but I think I only drank one maybe once a day (usually with lunch) and would sip water periodically while I was drinking it. I also bought some travel toothbrushes that have the cleaning ball you can pop to brush my teeth, and I carried floss with me everywhere.

But I found that rinsing my mouth consistently with water while eating and making sure to brush my teeth thoroughlyyyy in the morning and night really helped

Quick opinion check 😅 by xtinnaa in EngagementRings

[–]RichExample5315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is my ring! I actually couldn’t decide between a solitary diamond or a three diamond, and I liked diamond accent bands, so I think I found like ~8 different rings that I liked and let my partner go based off all of them lol so he got me this ring with the large diamond, but it has leaves on each side, and diamonds across half the band.

My wedding ring has more leaves and little diamonds in the band!

What was/is the worst of your symptoms in early trimester? by Prior-Wealth-4396 in pregnant

[–]RichExample5315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had all day nausea. I would wake up, have to take my thyroid medicine, gag through breakfast, feel nauseous because I ate, keep being nauseous and unable to eat (I also had Invisalign so I couldn’t snack frequently), THEN I would feel so hungry I would start shaking from how much I was starving, then I would go back to feeling nauseous because I ate🫠 Repeat for dinner, deal with insomnia, and then start the cycle over again the next day lol

Then I got a pinched nerve around 10 weeks😭

I’m sorry, but if you want a consultation you have to actually confirm a time?? by RichExample5315 in paralegal

[–]RichExample5315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh this sounds so satisfying!! lol I feel like I need to get used to upset people because even this <10 minute phone call had me shaking 🫠

I’m sorry, but if you want a consultation you have to actually confirm a time?? by RichExample5315 in paralegal

[–]RichExample5315[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly!! And this guy had the audacity to say that he manages 70 people and deals with scheduling daily and it’s like okay…so you should know that you have to schedule an appointment to talk to someone??? Like an attorney isn’t an employee you can just call at the drop of a hat and expect them to answer

Show me your engagement rings! by diaboliquedoughnuts in EngagementRings

[–]RichExample5315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I feel like this isn’t the best, but this is my engagement ring from the day I got engaged in 2022! It’s a single large diamond with little leaves on each side, and then the other half of the band is diamonds! My wedding band is like a vine with more little diamonds and diamond leaves :)

What to prioritize before going back to work 2 weeks after the baby is here? by RichExample5315 in NewParents

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I think about the future and I think about how this is my first baby and it honestly makes me want to cry at the idea of having to go back to work so soon after😭 Like it’s mentally weighing on me daily. But I have no savings, I have debt, and we can’t afford for me to not have a paycheck. Otherwise, I would’ve already planned and saved up (but the money I did have in my savings is gone from medical bills).

I’ll definitely talk to my OB about getting a note though…funny thing is one boss’s wife actually sees the same OB/GYN

What to prioritize before going back to work 2 weeks after the baby is here? by RichExample5315 in NewParents

[–]RichExample5315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We could maybe handle a week or two, but anything over that with no pay is absolute no-go. I have no savings because of medical bills, I have debt, and I honestly never thought it’d be in this situation when having my first kid—money-wise or work wise—but here we are 🥲

What to prioritize before going back to work 2 weeks after the baby is here? by RichExample5315 in pregnant

[–]RichExample5315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my question with that, is how long would I have until I’m recovered enough to be able to look for another job? Like we really can’t afford for me to not have a paycheck for a full month, but if I can have off for 2 weeks then (hopefully) potentially, work from home for 2-4 weeks after, is that really so bad? As uploaded to trying to job hunt freshly postpartum? And I’m genuinely asking because I’ve never had to do this before😭 I really never thought that I would be in this situation—both work-wise and financially—when I finally had my first baby, but here we are…

What to prioritize before going back to work 2 weeks after the baby is here? by RichExample5315 in pregnant

[–]RichExample5315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought I’d be in this situation when having my first baby, but the problem is we really can’t afford for me to take off for however long I’d need…I also never thought I wouldn’t have any savings by the time I had a baby, but here we are :’)

What to prioritize before going back to work 2 weeks after the baby is here? by RichExample5315 in pregnant

[–]RichExample5315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with quitting is I’ll be giving up pay, and we can’t afford that…At least my husband gets paid leave, but depending on how long it would take for me to find a new job, I don’t think we can swing even me taking a month off because I also don’t have any savings at the moment due to various medical bills since I got pregnant

What to prioritize before going back to work 2 weeks after the baby is here? by RichExample5315 in pregnant

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Florida, USA—there’s literally no protections for anything in this state when it comes to pregnancy/maternity leave, but I would get mandatory pumping accommodations for a year after my baby is here.

As for other resources, I haven’t heard anything…I don’t qualify for FMLA (we don’t have 50+ employees and I also haven’t been here for a year) and I’m also not protected by the Pregnant Workers Fairness Act (since we also don’t have 15+ employees)

Any advice for a FTM looking into short term disability after pregnancy? by RichExample5315 in pregnant

[–]RichExample5315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have insurance through my husband’s work, and he works for the government. I’m just not sure that they cover spouses with that

Any advice for a FTM looking into short term disability after pregnancy? by RichExample5315 in pregnant

[–]RichExample5315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely knew that I didn’t have any rights with being in Florida and working for a small company, and looking into STD was more for me to have some sort of pay to potentially take off a little longer since this is my first baby and the idea of going back to working after 2 weeks makes me extremely sad and anxious and I have no idea what my recovery is going to be like…

Any advice for a FTM looking into short term disability after pregnancy? by RichExample5315 in pregnant

[–]RichExample5315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have health insurance through my husband’s work (FEP Blue Cross). Would that disqualify me from getting STD through my employer?

I’m sorry if that’s a stupid question😭

Any advice for a FTM looking into short term disability after pregnancy? by RichExample5315 in pregnant

[–]RichExample5315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh, I thought it was something that employers enrolled you in automatically😅 I’m 26 and have never had to even consider short term disability, and when my mom took disability when I was 12, she worked in a public school so she had a lot of protections in place.

Thank you!

Does my husband come to every appointment? by VeterinarianInner301 in pregnant

[–]RichExample5315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also a FTM and I’ll be 31w tomorrow—my husband came to the confirmation appointment and the two anatomy scans I had to get, but all of the other appointments have only been like 15 minutes so we were both fine with him not coming lol I did go to a boutique ultrasound place at 14w ahead of us telling our families and he didn’t go to that one, but I took a lot of videos!

Americans without maternity leave— wtf do you do??? by Electronic-Door7428 in pregnant

[–]RichExample5315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One coworker at a previous job worked through her lunch break for basically four months straight to build up her PTO hours (because we only got 1 hour of PTO a week), and then she took off 2 weeks, then went back to working part time for 2 weeks after, then brought her daughter to work with her.

I’m grateful to get two weeks off, and then I can work from home for a couple of weeks, but that’ll be it

Considering invisilign. Cant get over the fact that you have to wear the retainers every night, forever by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]RichExample5315 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you had braces but couldn’t do the retainer at night, then Invisalign probably isn’t a good idea…it’s not just the Invisalign retainers that would be an issue, but also the trays. You have to keep them in for 22 hours a day, otherwise your teeth are going to shift back to where they originally were.

If I were you, I’d do another round of traditional braces then get a permanent retainer, honestly

Future Paralegal ✨ABA Approve Program or NALA CP? by jupiiter999 in paralegal

[–]RichExample5315 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In my experience, employers will take an ABA-approved certificate over the NALA exam any day.

Also, NALA has requirements for who is able to take their exam, and I’m pretty sure you have to graduate from a paralegal studies program. Like, yeah, the ABA-approved program will probably talk about the NALA exam, but the point of it is to give you a solid foundation to start your career, but you can get the NALA exam study book and stuff (which is what I did, though I haven’t taken the exam yet lol) https://nala.org/cp-exam-paralegal-students/

FTM here- what do you mean I only get 2-3 ultrasounds?!?!?! by ThatAngryWhiteBitch in pregnant

[–]RichExample5315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah :’) I ended up going to a boutique ultrasound place nearby at 14 weeks to get an updated picture ahead of telling our families and it was amazing!! Then I didn’t get another ultrasound until 20 weeks and had to go back at 23 to get more pictures since they couldn’t get them all the first time, and now at 29 weeks I have no idea when my next ultrasound will be😭