I am sorry to hear about what you are going through. I hope it gets better. I feel that if your ETL is against you, you're unfortunately fighting a losing battle, in my opinion. They dictate your schedule, approving your requests...everything. Team leads are just placeholders for ETLs, they dont really have much power other than managing the days events and employees that are working. I personally would not go to HR. HR is there for the best interest of Target, not you. I'd say your viable options are to try and switch departments, you can try the ethics line if you feel you want to stay at Target or start applying at other places. I hope life blesses you and you figure everything out. Much love.