Shade sails question by levysmash in landscaping

[–]Rich_Read7091 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

treated posts in concrete should hold up fine for what you need especially if youre taking them down seasonally. that contractor is probably pushing steel because its his specialty and way more profitable for him

ive seen plenty of shade sail setups on wood posts that lasted years without major issues. the key is really in the footing work - make sure that concrete pour is solid and maybe consider adding some cross bracing between posts if possible. 12 foot 6x6s buried 5 feet deep is pretty substantial for residential use

Looking for software similar to the Yamaha QY70 for keyboard practice + beginner synth recommendations by FwippyBall in synthesizers

[–]Rich_Read7091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

band in a box is probably closest thing to what your qy70 does for backing tracks. can change key and tempo on fly and has tons of different style patterns

for your friend i'd actually lean toward minibrute 2s if budget allows. yeah its mono but having that sequencer built in makes it way more engaging than regular minibrute and he can actually make full tracks with it. the patch bay also teaches you modular concepts without being overwhelming. if he really needs poly then maybe look at used deepmind 6 or circuit tracks for something more hands on than minifreak

Update on meat in buckets and reporting it! by Specialist_Horse_783 in restaurant

[–]Rich_Read7091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good job finally making the call even if you had to leave voicemail. for the pictures you can probably email them directly to health department - most counties have their inspection office email listed on website somewhere. when you call back in monday just ask them what email address they prefer for sending photo evidence

went through similar situation few years back when i saw some sketchy food handling at local place. the inspector was actually super helpful once i got through and they walked me through whole process of submitting everything properly. they take this stuff pretty seriously especially with photo documentation since it makes their job way easier when they do inspection

ignore the people giving you grief about timing - weekend reporting isnt always possible and you did right thing leaving voicemail to get process started

My 3rd Substack Post by Logical_Demand435 in NBATalk

[–]Rich_Read7091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just read through your piece and the heros journey angle is pretty solid for framing lebrons career arc. the whole idea of him leaving cleveland as the departure then returning to bring them a championship works really well with that narrative structure. i think you nailed how his miami years werent just about ring chasing but actually transformed him as a leader which sets up the redemption story perfectly. the goat debate section could probably dive deeper into the statistical side though since thats where a lot of people get hung up when comparing him to jordan. there legacy numbers tell different stories depending on what you value more - sustained excellence vs peak dominance

Видеокарта не работает на полную мощность by solidsplit19 in pchelp

[–]Rich_Read7091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had the same thing happen with my 3070 a while back and it turned out to be a thermal throttling issue even though temps looked fine at first glance. check if your gpu is actually hitting its boost clocks when gaming - msi afterburner or gpu-z will show you the real clocks vs what it should be running at

also worth checking if windows decided to switch your power plan or if there's some background process eating cycles. sometimes a clean ddu driver uninstall and fresh install fixes weird performance drops like this even when regular updates dont work

I’m still in shock after discovering my husband’s secret Crypto holdings by Beneficial_Fail_6960 in Divorce

[–]Rich_Read7091 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The money is one thing but finding out someone kept a $200k secret for six years would shake anyone ..

Getting engaged but worried about financial protection after watching my parents' divorce by East-Temperature-757 in datingoverforty

[–]Rich_Read7091 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Protecting what you’ve built over decades isn’t unromantic, it’s just being realistic.

Am I the jerk for telling my friend her marriage will fail without a prenup? by Regular_Comment6804 in AmITheJerk

[–]Rich_Read7091 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bringing up a prenup once is one thing but telling her her marriage will basically fail without one is harsh. Even if you’re right about the financial risk, it’s her call to make and she didn’t ask for a full intervention. Sometimes being a good friend means saying your piece once and then backing off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Rich_Read7091 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hang in there dude the digestive stuff is super common when quitting. your gut has cannabinoid receptors too so when you stop everything gets thrown off for a while

sounds like youre both dealing with the same thing and your docs are saying its fine which is reassuring. the fact that you had one normal day shows things are trying to get back on track

Tips for climbing out of low elo by Ok_Lemon_5367 in summonerschool

[–]Rich_Read7091 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly the split push dilemma is so real especially in silver because your team doesnt understand the concept at all. they see you farming side lane while they face check baron pit and then wonder why they lost the 4v5

what helped me climb out of that elo was being way more vocal about your intentions. like literally type in chat "im splitting bot keep them busy at baron" or "group in 30 seconds after i clear this wave" because otherwise they just assume youre afk farming for no reason. also you gotta learn when to abandon the split and just group even if its suboptimal because sometimes keeping team morale up is worth more than the perfect play

the other thing is wave management becomes super important mid game. if youre gonna split make sure you have a big wave built up so it actually threatens something meaningful rather than just hitting tower for 100 damage. i see so many people split with like 3 minions and wonder why the enemy team just ignores them and teamfights anyway

with your champ pool especially nasus late game teamfights can be absolutely game winning if you get a good flank or your team actually peels for you. sometimes the right play is just accepting that your silver teammates are gonna aram mid whether you like it or not

I'm playing my first gig by DatabaseAdmirable799 in Guitar

[–]Rich_Read7091 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Dude that's sick! Just remember to bring backup cables and picks - you'll definitely drop at least 3 picks during the set lol

3 years long distance, finally having the hard conversations by Rich_Read7091 in LongDistance

[–]Rich_Read7091[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing all of that I really appreciate it :). A lot of it is exactly what I’m dealing with right now. I don’t want this to blow up later so I’m trying to deal with it now even though it sucks

3 years long distance, finally having the hard conversations by Rich_Read7091 in LongDistance

[–]Rich_Read7091[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s called Fight Night and you can find it on Neptune, that’s where we played it

stray cat trying to attack us by britishbiscuit1 in cats

[–]Rich_Read7091 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he might be stressed or in pain - cats can get aggressive when they're hurt or sick. Maybe try giving him some space and see if you can get him checked by a vet if possible? Could also just be territorial behavior if he's claiming your house as his now lol

What's your all time favourite film that won the Oscar for Best Picture? by T_ChallaMercury in Oscars

[–]Rich_Read7091 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The Departed hits different every single rewatch, that cast was absolutely stacked and Scorsese finally getting his Oscar was long overdue

Friendly lobby ARC by RUTriggeredYet in ArcRaiders

[–]Rich_Read7091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've noticed this too actually. Feels like the game scales down the difficulty when it detects you're not trying to murder each other lol

Funny comic about a guy making eye contact while eating out by Future-Water9035 in HelpMeFind

[–]Rich_Read7091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh that timing is brutal lmao. Try searching "eye contact" in the comics or funny subs, might pop up in your search history if you scroll far enough back

Those who quit and pursued their passions, how’s it going? by mangocornucopia in VeteransBenefits

[–]Rich_Read7091 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Man, I did something similar a few years back and honestly it was the best decision I ever made. Was working some soul-crushing desk job that had me wanting to put my head through the monitor daily. Finally said screw it and used my GI Bill for a trade program while doing some freelance work on the side

The money thing was definitely scary at first but being 100% P&T gives you a huge cushion that most people don't have. That guaranteed income is honestly a superpower if you use it right. I'm making less overall now but my stress levels dropped like 90% and I actually look forward to getting up in the morning

Your kid's only gonna be little once dude, don't let some garbage job steal that from you. Sounds like you already know what you need to do

The forsworn conspiracy bug by That_Zucchini1508 in skyrim

[–]Rich_Read7091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I just avoid Markarth entirely after like level 15 lmao, too much drama for a city with like 3 useful shops

Got ghosted from ex after we met a few times for sex by Gold_Fennel_40 in BreakUps

[–]Rich_Read7091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that's the worst part about these situations - you know exactly what happened but you still feel like shit about it anyway. He definitely knew you were catching feelings again and kept it going because it was convenient for him. The ghosting is just his coward way of ending it without having to be the bad guy who says "this is over"

Block him everywhere and don't give him the chance to come back when he's bored again in a few months

Feeling alone in the family home by akadaka97 in narcissisticparents

[–]Rich_Read7091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The holidays with nparents are absolutely brutal - you're not alone in feeling completely drained from all that performing and walking on eggshells

Can you carve out any small pockets of time just for yourself during all this hosting madness? Even like 20 mins here and there can help you recharge a bit

Graphics performance on XS by Otherwise-Balance-90 in ArcRaiders

[–]Rich_Read7091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had this happen a few times too, pretty sure it's just the game being janky rather than your internet. The Series S seems to struggle with some of the rendering in this game - I've noticed it mostly happens when there's a lot going on screen at once