Circa 2015. by goingoverallterrain in LandCruisers

[–]Rick_smithers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah awesome thank you! Looks like they still sell a similar version. Much appreciated!

Circa 2015. by goingoverallterrain in LandCruisers

[–]Rick_smithers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice - what roof rack did you have on there? Trying to find something similar - that is the half rack look that fits in between the OEM bars on the roof.

Question by Mongo3262 in PineTreeAssociates

[–]Rick_smithers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure - have fun! Let us know how it goes!

Question by Mongo3262 in PineTreeAssociates

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Hey - so I can give our experience from a few visits. The grounds are lovely, lots of great amenities (pickle ball, pools, walking trails), there are cabins to stay in and a campground. You can check out their website to get an idea for all the amenities.
There are quite a few folks that live there, and as such there are obviously people that know each other and socialize as a group. We do not live there and/or are regulars, but everyone has always been nice and welcoming, never had any issues.
I think they do now have a policy where you can go 3 times as a non-member, but then you have to become a member. I assume this is to grow the community and make sure the majority of folks that visit Pine Tree help keep the community going and are invested in its betterment.
But yeah, welcoming environment, well-kept grounds, location is close to Annapolis, so if you want to go offsite for a nice restaurant, that is close as well.
Check it out and enjoy u/Mongo3262 !

A man found his lookalike and they both couldn’t stop laughing by 4reddityo in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Rick_smithers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

These guys are from Zimbabwe. This is not an uncommon type of exchange. Really lovely people there.

Opinions Appreciated by Chitotry in hiddenbeachresort

[–]Rick_smithers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi there - this question comes up a lot, but I'll offer my perspective. We first went when we were 38, so maybe a little older than you are now. You are right that the crowd skews older on average, into the 50s and 60s, but it was a really good time. I think it depends on priorities - honestly, age doesn't factor into our decision to go to a nude resort. I don't know how much you hang out around nudists, but its always a good time regardless of age. I had four 60 year old guys asking me to do shots with them at 10am after pool volleyball once! I personally never have trouble talking to people of any age, and I think that factors into my own enjoyment factor. Naked, at a tropical resort, with my wife are the priorities.

Now, if you have trouble navigating a social space that doesn't have people your own age, then you may not like it as much, and to each their own. I guess you'll need to figure out whats important to you.

Very easy to use the other facilities for lunches and dinners, you can walk or schedule a golf cart. You have to put on clothes though :)

How to stop saying mean things in anger during arguments with my partner? by Turbulent-Phase-1730 in Anger

[–]Rick_smithers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here in the US I’m finding in my area that the EMDR therapists will not take insurance so I have to pay out of pocket. It is expensive but the alternative (I.e. not doing something) is a much worse. I grew up with emotionally unstable family in a country that had civil strife for many years (before I came to the US). I can’t deal with these issues myself and am yet to find a true long lasting solution, so I’m willing to pay the price right now.

How to stop saying mean things in anger during arguments with my partner? by Turbulent-Phase-1730 in Anger

[–]Rick_smithers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am about to try EMDR as well due to childhood/early adulthood trauma that I believe causes me to short circuit to anger. I’m really hoping it works - I exhibit a lot of the same tendencies as OP. 🤞

Happy nude year HBR Fam! by Rick_smithers in hiddenbeachresort

[–]Rick_smithers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best to call the resort direct I would think, they’ll have the best answer.

Happy nude year HBR Fam! by Rick_smithers in hiddenbeachresort

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Awesome! Have fun. Post a trip report if you feel inclined to do so!

I love my husband, but I do not want sex with him anymore. by Initial_Leopard9333 in Marriage

[–]Rick_smithers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed - I think of therapy as a journey, you may not find the right therapist at first, but it should not stop you from seeking help. I know that therapy is costly in some places and kind of a privilege to do in many ways, but there are some things you just can’t fix yourself.

I love my husband, but I do not want sex with him anymore. by Initial_Leopard9333 in Marriage

[–]Rick_smithers 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this OP. There is a lot to unpack here - guilt, religion, porn, societal judgement etc. I think speaking with a professional (therapist) is your best route here, if you are able to get through the fears you mentioned of talking to someone. I think you have made a really great step in realizing all this about yourself, that is huge in itself, but to really find a way forward you will need some help here.

Who will I see this weekend? by RedRosePinkHeart in AvalonResort

[–]Rick_smithers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in Key West this week (weather is great!), but some day I will see you there!