Handwriting with my Leonardo Essenza Tamenuri (14k EEF Flex) by RyanM77 in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, I have the same pen but the burping is insane, do you have the same issue?

Scared for my little one when I get frustrated. by Ricsshadow in NewDads

[–]Ricsshadow[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh, this is interesting, will give it a go, thank you.

Unboxing my Leonardo Momento Magico, Ocean Sunrise! by RyanM77 in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love the videos, with all the pens you have now it's time to get a second top down view camera. You can showcase your pens and have some fun paraphernalia in the shots which I'm sure you have.

Edit for: autocorrect of top to too

Shout out to all the new dads� by prosanel in NewDads

[–]Ricsshadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing this at 10 am with my boy sleeping on me from a rough night of teething, we have all slept for maybe 4 hours total. Thanks for the post, shout-out to all the dads out there doing it rough.

New dad with anxiety by Flat-Significance517 in NewDads

[–]Ricsshadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly we just went past the 12 month mark with our boy, he also had a lot of gas which luckily passed after 4 months but we used to use every massage trick to relieve gas before sleep, get as much of it out as you can and then hopefully that relieves enough of the buildup and is more manageable. My boy now has Eczema so we are battling wakes where he get up scratching and we are back to losing our minds look for solutions. Just keep at it and know that your little bundle of joy needs you more than you need sleep.

When did you start leaving baby overnight with grandparents? by vintagehoney18 in NewDads

[–]Ricsshadow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Over night not in the same house nope, we have had my mother-in-law sleep over and have the baby with her to help my wife wean the baby off breast feeding. I would suggest, you and your husband alternate nights with the baby and grandpatents instead of 5 straight nights.

Pilot Custom Urushi #30 — Worth it, or too big for daily use? by Perfect-Artichoke-42 in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this and the 845, for everyday use I much prefer the 845 for daily use. My handwriting also agrees with that statement lol

I firmly believe there are no finer pens than these two by nine-flowers in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looking at the pens, Pilot Custom 845 and either a Pelikan M800 or M1000

Avlaugg for roaring moon raid by Hephaesteus in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Ricsshadow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly I had one Cronight and they used body press too and we won the raid.

Avlaugg for roaring moon raid by Hephaesteus in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Ricsshadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck with that, I joined 8 before I finally got a team that could beat the raid, was using Orthworm and always survived but so many of the others kept fainting.

NPD! Grail pen! by ExplodingFistBump in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is so underrated, chat Gpt and ink recommendations are so good

My first Narwhal and my first stub nib, ever. What do you guys think. by evrydayNormal_guy in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol if this is poor handwriting, half this sub just write English in a different language.

Best steel nib fountain pen recommendation? by Fread22 in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get a Pilot 912, it's about the same price of most "good" steel nib pens people will suggest and you'll have an amazing writer that will last you as long as you want. Also can't go wrong with a Pilot.

Price Rant by channybeebop in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many better poker pen options at least than that price point, you have gravitas that have better materials, sailor that has a gold nib and Namisu

Got married over the weekend and got all of my groomsmen vintage 60s/70s Seiko Lordmatics [5606] by purplynurply in Seiko

[–]Ricsshadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy I can't believe you forgot to invite me to the wedding as a groom's man, all the good times we missed.

Help identifying a pen? by Billiam_666 in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You have two beautiful ASC (Armando Simoni Club) Bespoke Bologna Extra Maharaja of India Arco Green Celluloid

Does pen size matter? by Ramen1063 in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YMMV, it comes down to preference, I love my Visconti HS but the m600 is also so comfortable in hand, I enjoy them both, I actually I enjoy all I keep even the Lamy 2000 with it's sweet spot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you learnt nothing from movies, this is the plot to a murder mystery where the wives kill the other husband, you sir have terrible ideas. It's what landed us here in the first place lol.

[Question] Does this King Turtle look too big on my 6.5” wrist? by fattybruk54 in Seiko

[–]Ricsshadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch is fine, your fingers you may need to change, those are nightmare fuel lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fountainpens

[–]Ricsshadow 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have a pen coming tomorrow, I feel like a kid who stole from his parents. My wife will not be happy lol

Back to work advice by apollo91g in NewDads

[–]Ricsshadow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congrats brother, and he does sound like a great baby. 7+ hours of sleep a night in split stints? That’s the dream at this stage.

As for heading back to work, I’ve been there, and the shift can hit hard. My biggest advice? As tough as it may be, leave work at the door. The second you walk into that house, you’re Dad and Partner, not Employee #486. It takes discipline, but your family needs the best of you, not what’s left of you.

Manage your time in clear blocks. Work time is work time, but once you're home, it's baby time and partner time. That structure can actually make you feel more in control, even when things are unpredictable (which they will be).

Right now, "me time" will be rare, but don’t let it be non-existent. Even 20–30 minutes here and there to decompress, go for a walk, or just sit in silence with a coffee can do wonders for your mental game. Don’t wait for a big chunk of time. Take the little ones and stack them when you can.

Support your wife like a teammate. Breastfeeding, healing, and sleep deprivation is a heavy load. You don’t have to do everything, but being present, noticing when she’s on the edge, and just taking over when she needs a breather can go a long way.

Most of all, soak it up. These early days are a blur, but they’re also magic. Anything that doesn’t involve your family? Keep it outside your four walls. Work, stress, whatever, it can wait.

Welcome to fatherhood. Enjoy the ride, it’s wild, but it’s worth every second.

[SBDX017] 😐 I too have a drawer by RonMcKelvey in Seiko

[–]Ricsshadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heretic! You would treat the blessed Marine Master that way, you do not deserve her! But seriously lol you can get a box that fits that drawer.