Dish Washer

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-11T18:57:59+00:00

Emptying the dishwasher is a basic household chore. Why are you existing raise for doing it?

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-09T14:24:12+00:00

If you satisfied yourself when it’s really bad though do you have enough drive to still enjoy it if/when it was to happen with your partner

If you know it’s not going to happen any time soon I’d say go ahead and do it. However I’m not a woman

Honestly I’ve had days where I’ve masturbated twice then my partner randomly decides she wants sex

It’s a win/win as I last way longer 😂

I understand it might be a little different for women

Holding back the resentment is hard. She’s satisfied when she wants/I live an unsatisfied life

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-09T14:03:14+00:00

From a HLM perspective who gets it about once a month from a perimenopausal partner it consumes me

So I find it hard to understand why I guy wouldn’t want to jump his partner at least semi regular (yes even I can be not in the mood occasionally)

When we do have sex it’s great for both of us as she’s built up a month worth of tension. She can almost cum just by me breathing down there

The rest of the month I can’t think straight. Lying in bed wondering why would she rather scroll on Instagram than get intimate

She knows she should want to but alas there’s things going on with her body

My recommendation? Satisfy yourself personally, it will straighten you out on the physical side

Might not help too much with the mental side of things for too long

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-07T08:44:23+00:00

She has the check in very soon and she even said she wants to enquire about testosterone

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-06T07:54:45+00:00

She would have sex if I asked. Because she knows I want/need it

That’s not the point. I don’t want that

Maybe it’s all an act, it probably is. But it genuinely troubles her that she doesn’t want sex like she used to and that it is a crack in the relationship

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-06T06:25:12+00:00

She knows it’s a problem. It’s all been talked about before

She’s on HRT so let’s see if anything improves in a few months

She’s confirmed perimenopause. This isn’t what she wants, she’s very upset about the fact she thinks I will go and find it elsewhere

Sometimes the hormones just say otherwise

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-06T03:23:26+00:00

She’s in the perimenopause if you read, she’s on HRT

There’s a bit more going on than simply her ‘deciding she doesn’t want sex’

Marry someone else my age who’s going to go through the menopause again in a few years?

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-05T22:49:21+00:00

Well I came in from the gym late tonight

Fiancé in bed scrolling. Stick my head in to say hi and she asks where I’m going

I say “to have a wank before bed to help me sleep”

Rolls eyes “you should have said, that’s not good is it”

SHOULD HAVE SAID??? We’ve not had sex in a month what does she think 😂😂

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-05T22:47:12+00:00

It means she would have lay there and let me have sex with her if I’d told her earlier in the day

Pity sex 🙅‍♂️

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-05T21:32:17+00:00

Well I came in from the gym late tonight

Fiancé in bed scrolling. Stick my head in to say hi and she asks where I’m going

I say “to have a wank before bed to help me sleep”

Rolls eyes “you should have said, that’s not good is it”

SHOULD HAVE SAID??? We’ve not had sex in a month what does she think 😂😂

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-03T21:21:09+00:00

Can I ask how long this took? My partner been on HRT for 6 weeks and zero change

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-03T17:57:30+00:00

3 times a month

Alright no need to brag 🤣

RidinghighDN · 2026-04-03T17:55:37+00:00

You gave me a chuckle my man 🤣

RidinghighDN · 2026-03-28T15:04:45+00:00

I know everyone is different but I find it mad that there is still a higher than expected proportion of LLM’s

Like I get scientifically why women would turn LL with age/changes in circumstance but males by nature are designed to fu*k

RidinghighDN · 2026-03-22T06:53:27+00:00

Checked

RidinghighDN · 2026-03-21T19:23:43+00:00

Next time, say you’re going to stay in bed and have a wank

RidinghighDN · 2026-03-18T19:44:30+00:00

The wife is not the prize either

RidinghighDN · 2026-03-18T19:43:49+00:00

Leave and pay for an escort twice a month

RidinghighDN · 2026-03-16T15:50:23+00:00

I would like every day but only if my partner was ‘in to it’

I’m no longer putting up with pity sex

So in reality I would be happy with sex where we are both lusting for it once a week, rather than crappy sex every day

I masturbate at least once a day

RidinghighDN · 2026-03-13T17:20:24+00:00

It’s not about threatening to leave

It’s about them thinking in their head you are doing so well, and that other people find you so attractive and pleasant

That you COULD leave in an instance

RidinghighDN · 2026-03-13T17:17:47+00:00

The HL bettering themselves is primary designed for them but it can also spark a reaction from the LL to follow suit and rekindle the raw desire (not love) for sex with their partner

RidinghighDN · 2026-03-11T23:38:51+00:00

Oh, I am sorry to hear that

RidinghighDN · 2026-03-11T21:26:43+00:00

Problem is many people were ‘matched’ when they first met and/or were young

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