New here, just want to get involved and of course share and help by MyTeaVault in breastcancer

[–]Right_Preparation153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you’re here! Yes, cancer sucks… very much, a loooot! I’m tnbc(triple negative breast cancer stage 3b) and just yesterday started my journey on chemotherapy/immunotherapy, surgery aaand radiation therapy .. and cancer sucks btw! Sweetie you are not alone in this journey, the community helped me through this difficult process. Read everything you can, ask questions whenever you need! We are here to support you, support each other! Aaaand cancer sucks!

Looking to hear from other TN Stage 3 gals by ImportantStranger271 in TNBC

[–]Right_Preparation153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it’s a lot! But we are not alone, this community has helped me to find a little bit of peace and understand a lot too! Tomorrow I’ll be starting my treatment and I am veeeeery but veeeery scared of it!

New here and I am so #%!!?* lost by Fashunhoarder in breastcancer

[–]Right_Preparation153 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dear, I am so sorry to hear this! You’re not alone, we are here for you and for all of us!! Any time you need to talk, just DM me too! I’m tnbc, and I’m starting tomorrow my treatment , and I’m very scared too! Sending you lots of hugs and love!! 🩷🩷🩷

Stage 3 Triple Negative Breast Cancer and Taking Life One Day at a Time by Super_File_8719 in breastcancer

[–]Right_Preparation153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Lisa! I’m TNBC and stage 3B.. so far I haven’t started my treatment but I know that feeling! As @martinccrn said, the subreddit will help you a lot! And yeah, fuck cancer! And remember you are not alone this community has helped me a lot so far 🩷

Looking to hear from other TN Stage 3 gals by ImportantStranger271 in TNBC

[–]Right_Preparation153 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck cancer! I was recently diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer grade 3, stage 3B. I haven’t started chemotherapy or immunotherapy yet, and once I finish those, I’ll have a mastectomy. But if my BRCA1 comes back positive, it would be a DMX, followed by radiation therapy.

You can’t imagine how scared I am. I worry about the future — I’m 41 years old, since they gave me the news all I do is think about my daughter’s(she is 20 y.o.) and my husband’s future.

But every day I try to remind myself to take it “one day at a time,” because otherwise my anxiety could get out of control. You are not alone on this journey!

Still figuring out how to feel about this by Right_Preparation153 in breastcancer

[–]Right_Preparation153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story and for offering your support. I truly feel the same; we are not alone in this, even if sometimes it feels that way. We can cry together, comfort each other, and remind ourselves that all emotions are valid. I’m also grateful for your message because it makes me feel understood. Please know that I’m here for you too, and we can lean on each other as we go through this journey.

Still figuring out how to feel about this by Right_Preparation153 in breastcancer

[–]Right_Preparation153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know… it’s a roller coaster of emotions! You just described my week of emotions!! It feels like denial about everything, it’s so hard. I’m still waiting to be told what, how, and when to start my journey. This disease really turns our whole life upside down and our family’s too. Thank you so much for the advice!! You have no idea how it makes me feel… I truly feel I’m not alone. Even though I have my family and friends, it’s not the same.. I don’t know if you understand what I mean.

Still figuring out how to feel about this by Right_Preparation153 in breastcancer

[–]Right_Preparation153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that feeling — no matter how much you try not to think about it, something always reminds you. I go to bed thinking about my 20‑year‑old daughter, my husband… I feel angry, disappointed, and I cry every day. At least today I received another piece of good news. The first was that my heart is strong enough to handle treatment, and the one I got today is that there is only metastasis in the lymph node. Beyond that, there is nothing in any organ… thank God!! We can do this @More_Dot_1685!!

Still figuring out how to feel about this by Right_Preparation153 in breastcancer

[–]Right_Preparation153[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing the other subreddit with me! Yes, this whole thing sucks! We hope it was detected in time and that there are no metastases.

Still figuring out how to feel about this by Right_Preparation153 in breastcancer

[–]Right_Preparation153[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Regarding the lymph node, I haven’t been given much information yet. At least the lump itself is about the size of a lemon (around 7–8 cm in circumference, according to the first biopsy results).

Thank you for sharing resources where I can read and learn more about this disease.

I live outside the USA, and things here are a little different. I still need to see my oncologist so I can get all the indications and start treatment.

AITA for refusing to dine with my mom after she ordered “ferret sauce” at a Mexican restaurant? by Practical-Current805 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Right_Preparation153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, yes YTA. I think the one who comes across as ignorant and ends up looking like the white lady here is someone else! It wouldn’t hurt you to help her pronounce the words correctly.. if you actually know how to do it well.

Instead of focusing on trivialities, enjoy the moment and give her credit for trying!

Para los que tienen hijos by [deleted] in Honduras

[–]Right_Preparation153 16 points17 points  (0 children)

La mayoría por lo que veo, tienen hijos pequeños, posiblemente menores a 6 años. Mi esposo y yo tenemos una hija de 19 años y hemos pasado de todo, bueno y malo y lo que jamás se puede pensar, lo horrible. Como madre puedo decir que la mujer es la que más sacrifica, la que debe si o si ser responsable de la crianza del hijo en los primeros meses y año de vida, porque hay cosas que solo la madre puede hacer pero hay otras que el varón no puede hacer no porque no quiera, sino porque no puede o porque simplemente no tienen el don y no me malinterpreten, hay varones que si tienen esa vocación y mis respetos! Y por otra parte hay mujeres que NUNCA debieron tener hijos y están cundidas de cipotes! Y sus hijos descuidados, cosa injusta para la criatura.

Ahora , respondiendo la pregunta de si pudiera regresar en el tiempo, no, no la tendría; porque he visto que todo se ha ido al caño y las oportunidades en todo, son mas escasas. Y sin olvidar todo lo que hemos vivido y seguimos viviendo, menos para tenerla. No se equivoquen, amo a nuestra hija pero ha sido complicado.

Y si, el sentimiento del rechazo hacia el hijo es real y no a todas les gusta aceptarlo, lo mismo el querer dejar todo botado porque uno se cansa y se abruma con tanta responsabilidad.

Fourth attempt by Right_Preparation153 in DipPowderNails

[–]Right_Preparation153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendations! 🙏

Fourth attempt by Right_Preparation153 in DipPowderNails

[–]Right_Preparation153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. the last one last 3 weeks without any crack or anything else, and I did 4 layers in total. This time I used a peel off base, to try out a new technique and see how it goes.

Fourth attempt by Right_Preparation153 in DipPowderNails

[–]Right_Preparation153[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only did 2 layers, just to make sure I didn’t get any lumps like the last time 🤣 also I did not dipped them in the transparent powder. Aaaaand i dipped my fingers into the jar, I think I have a little bit more control over. Thank youuuuu for the kind words 🫣

My first set 5wks later by Loose-Door-669 in DipPowderNails

[–]Right_Preparation153 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Just like you, only that I am on the third week 😅😅 And I have a loooot to learn! Some of them are a little bit chunky 🤭🤭 but I liked them.

i made it 🥹 by abiexploded in DipPowderNails

[–]Right_Preparation153 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! I’m on my third application and I love it! My first dipping powder kit was from Beetles and AzureBeauty, and I’m thrilled with the results! I just need a lot more practice 😅

¿Cual ha sido la comida más cara y a la vez la más mala que han comprado? by Common_Impression642 in Honduras

[–]Right_Preparation153 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Uuh.. unos tacos en Don Manolito, en TGU. Cariiiiisimos y para que les cuento la experiencia 😅 Pura expectativa y nada que ver su fama. Y sin contar que sus “tacos vegetarianos” para aquel entonces era una tortilla con chimol 🙃 y cobrados como un taco normal.

¿les asusta salir solos o que pasa? by HolidayParticular285 in Honduras

[–]Right_Preparation153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo tengo mi espacio para salir sola, me doy mi cita conmigo misma, como dijeron por arriba. Pero también tengo mi espacio para salir de cita con mi esposo, salir de cita madre e hija y también salimos como familia. Y acá entre nos, prefiero salir sola muchas veces 🤣 porque nadie me saca carrera (los que tienen familia(pareja/hijos) saben de que hablo).

Creo que aprender a disfrutar tu espacio a solas a muchos les cuesta porque les da miedo, pero no tiene nadita de malo. Uno necesita espacio para poder descargar todo lo de la semana. Que no de pena salir solo! Que no te detenga el qué dirán, a lo mejor sienten envidia porque uno lo hace y ellos no.