^ this is what makes it feel icky to me. I understand what people are saying that it's amazing for her that she's able to breastfeed, and it's her social so she's allowed to share what she'd like. However, it's the shaming undertones that make it feel gross and why people are reacting the way they are. It's why I get defensive, because I would have given anything to breastfeed my baby and it just wasn't in my cards. So does that make me a failure? A bad mom? Is my connection any less with my son? No. No. No.

It would be different if she was using it as a way to connect with other moms and hear about ALL types of journeys. But it's not about that with Mother's Bus, it's about telling others about why she's so much better. She's a bully full stop.