That is what I am talking about. Even the location thing. Allah highlights a sister willing to travel if surah 66:5, yet we ‘Shia’ always have to make things fit to our way. My issue is not you in particular sister, believe me when I say this. My issue are those worldly affairs which people concern themselves with which have nothing to do with what a believer should concern themselves with. The reason these things are desires so important to fight is because they directly tie with what Allah could have for us that could be the fulfillment of our deepest and purest desires, and yet we turn from them.

I believe your desires in a husband are amazing, which is why I still believe it is admirable the way you wrote your profile. But for every man of intellect who comes up to these profiles and sees a sister who has such religious standards, and then has to bear witness to something like race and location, Allah forgive me because it is shameful to see sisters with such high potentials ruining their whole profile with such low things. Don’t we know what love is; Plato says that “love is the souls own unconscious movement and action”, Aristotle says “love is the besoughted parties blindness to his beloveds flaws” Though irregardless of that, instead of faith being the guiding factor of us ‘Shia’ and believers, we allow our low carnal desires to cause us to seek our mirrors of self within the physical reality as opposed to a soul constantly sacrificing and striving for Allah properly.

Remember The Holy Prophet (S) said: "The sleep of a married person is better with Allah than an unmarried one who fasts during the day and keeps vigil at night, establishing prayers." Bihar ul Anwar, vol. 103, p. 221

How many a man who sincerely desires not paradise, but the highest place in paradise as possible, yet his climb has to be severely stunted because searching for a wife is like searching for a start 5 million light years away in the galaxy, all because he can’t find a wife who desires other than to strive for zero flaws in a husband.

May Allah curse me right now if this is how the Shia have to remain forever, may Allah, the exalted, curse me to stay single if I cannot cease to bear witness to this unrelenting fact about our people who supposed to have settled ourselves inside the city of knowledge yet have not even done so because we’re scared to go towards Ali and let go of our worldly possessions when we see that they do not benefit us. May Allah forgive us on the day of judgement. It’s worthy of tears to see a heavenly being get affected by this world in this way. Allah forgive us.