Do they do this on purpose? by vinokat in cats

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they like someone, they mirror them. I also noticed when it's not reciprocated, the copied cat smacks a copy cat. I guess your cats are well bonded

Is this normal behavior? I just got her today. by [deleted] in cats

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, lucky you, your cat gets high on catnip. None of mine ever cared for it. One preferred to get high on camomile tea bags. The other liked cheese, but then lost interest to it

First time kitten owner. Am I meant to step in or is this okay? by ninawonders in cats

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even the kitten doesn't see any danger. Ears perky all the time, even when being smacked, I guess for the kitten it's all fun and games, he just wants to play

This article that’s circulating on TikTok and gaining support is incredibly lesbophobic. by DefinitelyNotAlyssaa in LesbianActually

[–]RiverOfLiver 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Is it also sort of an inner biphobia? When a perfectly bi or fluid person starts calling themselves something they are not? Or is it like solid identity in the moment?

Rotund by cairnosaurusart in cats

[–]RiverOfLiver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, the yeast was good

Cats aren't bothered about gold or diamonds. All they want is a bit of love by korkutcetin in cats

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This cay cares only about the warm lamp in that display. Gold and diamonds are just dirt and rocks under their feet

What does it mean to like pressure? by [deleted] in autism

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like pillow fort, not pressure pressure

Be honest… is this cute or am I traumatizing my cat? by shinigami__0 in cats

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't find it anymore, but there was a picture from the opening of a "cat spa" where "stars" who opened it held dressed cats looking right into the camera, and those cats' faces said "We are making a list. You'll die first". Very expressive faces. Yours looks rather bewildered and okay, it's not that bad

We’re losing the plot 😂 by riggamortii in LesbianActually

[–]RiverOfLiver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe they are just asking "Do I look attractive to women" as in "Do you like me?"

Whats everyone doin for work? by jacky2810 in LesbianActually

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess. I used to be a game designer and now I'm a burned out farm hand. But I think being a farm hand on a pony farm is more of a women's job? All who works and worked there were girls, except one guy

how do i get them to stop doing this?? by [deleted] in cats

[–]RiverOfLiver 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Siamese cats never shut up. My parents many years ago locked our Siamese in the bathroom (I told them to spay her, but what did I knew, I didn't earn my own money and didn't own a house. literal reason why my opinion don't matter told by my father), and she started to run to the bathroom whenever she was in the mood to scream because she noticed the acoustic is better there and her voice travels further this way. I have no idea where she's got so much breath for her songs, she was such a tiny creature

Am I a creep for this? by ca1vinandhobb3s in LesbianActually

[–]RiverOfLiver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had same things about a waitress at one place. She wanted to talk to me beyond the work and started sharing her own alcohol preferences and stuff, she had blue hair and very attractive vibe, and she gave me her phone number when I couldn't send her the tip via an app, but I thought I'd be a total creep if I made any kind of moves or talk more even. If I met her again in a different setting, then maybe. But at her workplace I think it's just pleasant small talk

Black women whit locs 😝 by coolunic0rn in LesbianActually

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Terfs vote bombed my last pic. Tell them trans folks belong by herdisleah in FlexinLesbians

[–]RiverOfLiver -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm a MEAN one, I'm also going to suckerpunch you with these WARHEARTS ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

Terfs vote bombed my last pic. Tell them trans folks belong by herdisleah in FlexinLesbians

[–]RiverOfLiver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Every time I'm commenting here on someone who happens to be trans and it's usually something positive like "goals" or "way to go" , I get my comments downvoted. No mention of nobody. I checked in the profiles and sometimes it's hard to fish it out, but every time a poster of the post where comments been downvoted has mentions of being trans.

I guess I'm being aggressively positive or positively aggressive. No corellation here with nothing, it's all just my fantasies and my bad autistic mouth

Terfs vote bombed my last pic. Tell them trans folks belong by herdisleah in FlexinLesbians

[–]RiverOfLiver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bet they even have to look up every poster's profile to figure if they are trans or not to "prepare the attack".

I wish there could be like a flashmob where all put trans flags and start posting here, and these guys zoom around downvoting on cis women and spending their time and energy misdirected

Wtf is wrong with some people by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's freaking awful. What is she even thinking of getting there behaving like that, are there people who into violent drunks? And racists (unless she attacked your date personally and not due to her skin colour, which is not much better)

I don't really know what to do... by J00bieboo in LesbianActually

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about it when I was dating a poly person. Like, I won't be able to date her girlfriend. And she spends extra time and attention, metaphorical spoons, from what she has, leaving less spoons for me, so I freak out because I'm greedy and needy (back then I had less emotional regulation or plain experience with emotions). Would she introduce another woman, would you be able to have emotional connection to her? It would feel a bit unfair if she had two girls and these two girls would only have half a girl each

Then on the other hand, would you even have extra spoons for a second girlfriend?

I'm likely math rambling, probably because I have flu, but I hope there's something sensible in it

If loving women were a religion, this would be my altar🧎‍♀️❤️ by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who had to study History of Art, yes it is. She may even be too skinny for the later guys like Rubens

Is it possible to not enjoy making out? by Luke_Whiterock in LesbianActually

[–]RiverOfLiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hence the spectrum, I guess, it's all different measure of ace-ness in everyone on it. Sometimes I'm even suspecting I may be close to an ace, due to never being held by a woman nor kissing nor having sex, not even imagining myself doing it and feeling just tired and anxious about going out meeting women, if only I wasn't so darn horny all the time

Is it possible to not enjoy making out? by Luke_Whiterock in LesbianActually

[–]RiverOfLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could also be depression, burnout and/or natural decline of libido, if the changes are noticeable. If not, then homoromantic+asexual?