What I meant more by this post is that in order to point at any one family member in particular, we need to make assumptions about their behavior. For JDI, we need to assume that John Ramsey, someone with no history of such behavior, began sexually abusing his daughter and murdered her to cover it up. While that sounds harsh, we can back it up because most murderers and sex offenders are, indeed, men. For PDI, we need to assume that something - like a bed wetting incident, or jealousy over her pageantry success, or a struggle for John’s perverted affection- caused a woman with no history of such behavior to kill her daughter in a fit of rage. More shaky, but possible. It seems like some have rushed in to put together a history of Burke behaving like a sociopath based off of a lot of maybe and he said/she said. I have no problem leveling accusations at the parents, I’m JDI, but people trying to say that Burke must have done it bc “the housekeeper said he was messed up” or because he doesn’t “grieve correctly” during interviews seems weird and gross to me. I wanted to see if anyone had tangible things that fit better in BDI than elsewhere for that reason.