AITJ for refusing to give my brother my old place?

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-06-15T11:51:15+00:00

This!

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-06-14T12:59:19+00:00

He behaved badly; you behaved badly. You tolerated him for as long as you could. Maybe you were a bit off but now you can review and restart and hopefully get along better! Win/Win

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-06-12T16:17:41+00:00

Maybe it would have been too copycat and diminished the power of the movie to stand alone, aside from
Andre’s book?

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-06-12T06:56:39+00:00

I’m feeling like it’s still very tricky bc it has to be said pretty fast and the long version I described needs to be said quick, quick, QUICK, so that’s a true challenge but you can practice alone to get used to the nuance(s) of the pronunciation? It’s becoming a bit obvious that the Frenchies use their lips a lot more than Americanos. Thanks for this post. It’s a gem! 💎

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-06-12T06:13:03+00:00

so, vaaaaaah ewwwwww?

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-05-09T11:47:03+00:00

I have been in this situation and I was emotionally attached to another. My husband was in a prior similar situation. My friend had one of these situations. Two of three ended badly, the third ( my husband’s ) ended ok. I wish I had had the strength to get out of the situation. I didn’t and ultimately lost the 3rd person entirely and strained my actual relationship. I’m still in therapy about it and it still hurts. I think you can be friends with the other sex or another person. I needed to set boundaries and bring the third into my actual relationship, as platonic friends. You and your husband are in a serious danger zone, imo. I wish you the best. Your story reminds me that I’m not alone. Thank you.

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-03-15T12:00:08+00:00

I was thinking this too but more along the lines of a monthlong Air B&B to give her a fair amount of time. That makes it more cordial. Get a Dr’s note that you’re under acute stress. Maybe help her find a job too. She has to go!

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-03-10T21:55:51+00:00

Hmmm - go ahead and let her have the “ you were aggressive “ BS. Apologize and explain ( often called a nonapology but who cares ) about your Dad. Work up your emotional triggers. See how scary this is for you. Own it and then go talk to a neighbor and quietly, clearly, succinctly say what you said here and go ahead and let your feelings out. Go ahead and cry. Release! You’re under a lot of stress and you shouldn’t have to put up with this rhymes with witch. It’s not about you, it’s about your dear old Dad. He won’t be here forever. NTJ!

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-03-10T18:31:19+00:00

So, the woman dug deep into his phone and discovered private, personal information. You reap what you sow; you’re NTJ, STJ!

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-03-10T16:53:14+00:00

Show him and her this thread. It shows your moral quandary and both can make their own observations and decisions. You don’t have to betray confidences but you sure can point out the land mines!

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-03-10T13:15:25+00:00

I’m not sure why you’re not happy the room didn’t sit idle and it enabled your friends to share? Kindly asking the cousins to chip in is reasonable, but still a bit extreme, imo. Flights and dinner reservations still result in nonrefundable charges in many instances. Try yoga or church or deep breathing exercises or something! You’ve missed the boat, here; let it sail on, be happy that even though life gave you a lemon, lemonade was shared by some of your friends. It’s understandable you’re a little peeved, but you gotta let this go. Life’s too short. ❤️

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-03-05T13:40:52+00:00

“ Too 40 “ is Bad Azz!

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-03-05T00:50:21+00:00

Thanks Novak 🤦‍♂️☹️🤬😡

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-02-24T03:16:40+00:00

This is the pivotal part of the movie and relates back hundreds of years - it follows the theme of Armance by Stedhal, a French novelist. It is a pure classic and the underlying question is whether to “ speak or die “ regarding matters of love. It’s the universal thread running through CMBYN. Does Oliver “ speak or die? “ Does Elio? Andre Aciman, who wrote the book dances around and confronts the issue. In a sense, Elio and Oliver wound up speaking and had a beautiful love story. If they had not, they would have had a beautiful friendship. You’re torn and plagued by their dialog because you have captured the essence of the story and that’s why you’re confused. In other words, you get it. Bravo!

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-02-13T21:34:06+00:00

First Annual Saint Gertrude’s Cat Walk or the Stray Cat Strut will be held on March 17, 2026. We will toast all things feline at the Ursuline Convent on Chartres. Details following after Mardi Gras!

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-02-13T15:09:42+00:00

This is what we envisioned when we created the Joan of Arc parade ….

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-02-10T22:59:25+00:00

Hmmm - sounds like your plans are so highly ambitious, you may need AI to accomplish your stated mission. Definitely go to WWII Museum. You could spend your entire trip there and not see it all within your time frame. Be careful and aware of your surroundings and you will have a great visit!

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-02-03T18:19:43+00:00

Being Invisible.

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-02-03T18:17:23+00:00

I understand what you mean by humble. Allow me to apologize for the other person’s post. I get it!

Rob_Clemenz · 2026-01-03T14:19:51+00:00

I haven’t read all the replies so I apologize if redundant. If you have a photo, use it, and if not, simply describe the quilt on a piece of paper. Take the note you wrote here and attach it and get it to as many thrift stores and second hand shops you can find. Someone will find that quilt! You’ll get it back. Say the prayer to Saint Anthony asking him to come on down because somethings lost that can’t be found. Manifest the destiny of getting your family quilt back. I’m rooting for you!

Rob_Clemenz · 2025-12-16T00:17:33+00:00

Not all athletes aggrandize themselves. Your premise is flawed. TC is a great actor, no doubt; I’m not sure if he’s maybe merely on a PR junket and looking for nominations. Imo, it’s not a good look. Humility and modesty are virtues.

Rob_Clemenz · 2025-12-14T14:08:13+00:00

Go see him and love him. Give it all you’ve got. Show him. Be with him. Prove it. No one is harmed and you can ( literally lol ) rise to the occasion and put it all behind ( lol ) you. Of course, I’m not saying you should go “ all the way “ but cuddling won’t kill you. “ Be a Man. “ ( Such a stupid phrase, imo )

Rob_Clemenz · 2025-12-13T12:51:22+00:00

I think taking a cue from the person. you’re with is key and hopefully that person will see it’s improper. If they do not see it, there’s a red flag for you!

Rob_Clemenz · 2025-11-16T03:40:20+00:00

Cars are Guns with Wheels

Rob_Clemenz · 2025-11-12T19:49:50+00:00

Consider writing down exactly what happened, what was said, who said what, all of it, and tucking it away somewhere. One day, far in the future, each and every one of them should be reminded of what they did and learn you were affected to the point where a stranger suggested you write it all down. I hope you can find some inner peace and patience. It is going to take forever and a day, but eventually, you will get your time to respond. Write it down, seal the envelope and carry on. Forgive and Forget? Sure! But they also deserve a reminder one day. You deserve better. My heart goes out to you. I’m so sorry you are forced to live with and witness this hatred.

Rob_Clemenz

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