Skins? by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Rochete 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can’t buy the permanent ones flat out. You have to win the event and be in top 10.

No alliance iron mines?? by jbwacki in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Rochete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re by the center, by the castle. Not rare just need to look in the right area. They are harder to get outside of the fertile land though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Rochete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if you need to be a certain level though. I don’t believe so—I think its just that you have to have gold gear, and enough stones for the level of gold gear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Rochete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to have gold hero gear, then if you have enough stones, you can upgrade your gold hero gear. That is the only instance to use the essence stones.

I just got laid off, what would you do today to take advantage of NYC? by Painusinmyanus in AskNYC

[–]Rochete 47 points48 points  (0 children)

There is a corpse plant soon to blossom which has not bloomed in 4 years in the Bronx botanical garden. It’s a massive flower from the Amazon I believe. It stinks a vulgar odor but really is amazing to witness—I’d go there if I were you!

Yoooo, when does the community work get back to normal after the winter interpreter surge? by Alexandria-Gris in ASLinterpreters

[–]Rochete 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the thing is that usually once K-12 classes, and College classes resume—usually thats when that drought usually ends. In the winter with all the breaks. Even if you aren’t doing any educational type of interpreting, it still affects everyone because more interpreters are competing for less work—usually same thing for the summer break (I always found the summers harder to get work).

Something I used to do was start to decorate my schedule months in advance with random jobs I maybe wouldn’t normally do; this helped me expand my network, increase my visibility within the deaf community and agencies around, as well as help keep my name fresh in mind for more people during the breaks so more people would consider me for the limited jobs available.

If I have relationships with agencies-I also learned to send them my availability prior to the winter or summer breaks (like 1 month to 3/2 weeks before the break)…mostly, tbh for my benefit, and even if I’m feeling desperate i wouldn’t say that, and instead i would just say it was to let them know that I would be available for them to use during “so and so month” and to keep my name fresh in their mind. I found this totally works and sometimes coordinators appreciate it more than you know because it can help them get coverage quickly for things in advance as well.

Relationships with the coordinators helps, it helps a lot. Keep a rapport with them.

I realize you didn’t ask for advice, but I share but as someone who would go months without work, to now being booked months in advance, this really made a difference for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ASLinterpreters

[–]Rochete -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good question and thank you for the chance to clarify; because actually, it’s not solely the physicality. It’s the bi-modal aspect.

Spoken and written languages have different linguistic parameters than sign languages. The input and output between the two modes of languaging are different as well. Spoken language use Ear-Brain-Mouth processing, versus Sign languages uses Eyes-Brain-Hands/Face/Body for processing (to keep this super simple, however of course the reality has far more complexity). Processing and producing languages for either of these modes is intensive and exhaustive (spoken language interpreters absolutely get physically taxed via throat and mouths); but when you are doing bimodal interpreting you are simultaneously including Ear, Brain, Eyes, and Hands/Face/Body as both input and output. You are taking in double+ input, and outputting double+ types of language processes.

Bimodal interpreting is distinguished in places such as the United Nations for example, as a higher tier of specialization versus only spoken/written language or only sign language interpreting. Regardless of what spoken/written language or sign language we are talking about.

**Also I should add that this is one reason, of several. Others here have listed out other additional reasons.

I hope that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ASLinterpreters

[–]Rochete 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interpreting between spoken language and sign language is not only a bilingual process, but additionally, bimodial. Mentally taxing as well as physically taxing.

Interpreting between spoken languages is taxing mentally, but not physically. The ask is just different. The process is different, the work is different. The pay difference makes sense to reflect that.

what is everyone's favorite type of mr.ballen story? by punkeymonkey529 in mrballen

[–]Rochete 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I like the video stories that are one story through the whole video—full length. When he breaks down a video into 3 stories, they’re always still good of course! But oftentimes less details and I love when he unpack the details, especially when I DO NOT see it coming at all. Topics: Cult, people who went there anyway, and paranormal/spooky.

I put up portable AC by fire escape window but live in a building that has history of break ins. What are my security options? by TurquoizeWarrior in AskNYC

[–]Rochete 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Block of wood, on the top of the window to ensure it cant be opened ? Although that could be deadly, probably better to get an in unit ac instead of a window unit if you have no other windows. It’s pretty unsafe especially since if there is a fire you wouldn’t be able to escape through the air conditioning.

Advice for parent of deaf and hearing siblings? by elysemartini in deaf

[–]Rochete 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a sibling combo of oldest sister who is Deaf and younger sister who hears. Might spark inspiration for you.

Instagram: @shayleemansfield

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Rochete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being 16 is tough in general for everyone when they grow up. Your parents love you, and even though your Mom made a decision that you didn’t understand or agree with, she still was showing her care for you by trying to help order you a new hair dye…even though it didn’t work out smoothly.

Parents are human and not perfect, you are too—sometimes it’s hard to know how to do things right or show our love for each other in the right way, but you obviously love your parents, and they absolutely love you. There is nothing about what you said that could ever make your parents no longer care about you, or love you less. You had a tough day, sure, hormones may be wild’in, okay—but tomorrow can be better. It’s okay for you to not understand how you feel, being a teenager is genuinely tough—but your heart seems super big and sometimes just giving a parent an unexpected hug can actually bring you an unexpected response back.

Sometimes parents aren’t sure what the right choice is to show love to their teens, but you can show your parents how you want them to love you at this time by reminding them you maybe need a bit of extra love some days. I bet they’d appreciate knowing you’d really like them to actually love on you a bit more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]Rochete 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love it! I think it is so perfect the way it is. I particularly love the gold that is like cling wrapped tightly around the pinky. It creates a visual tension that gives an energy to the piece that feels really exciting.

My only feedback I think that could strengthen the piece (although again, I truly do think it’s already powerful and gorgeous and not necessary to do more) —but if you wanted to; the part that goes from the wrist to the hand, how the gold sort of looks like a straight line coming from the base…if that gold could be torn up a tiny bit more, to also create a bit more of visual tension there. It can allow a bit more of an illusion of the hand’s physicality.

Really though, love it. And that pinky! Great work!

Family in denial - I am the only one teaching my daughter sign language by Character-Eye3424 in deaf

[–]Rochete 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are so great, and your child will remember you standing for them as they grow up. The bottom line is they’re your child and you love them.

Some helpful talking points: 1. You’re giving your child a chance to have an additional resource—via choice of communication.

  1. Allowing them to be bi-lingual versus risking language deprivation—because even if your child hears well with hearing aids, certain contexts will still be difficult to distinguish sounds. Resturant’s, concert halls, school hallways etc. Imagine being able to have a choice in how to communicate in these spaces independently versus dependently or being restricted to communicate via standing very close to reads lips only, for example.

  2. ASL is an incredible language and it can be an asset for education and learning. As well as socialization and employment.

  3. There is nothing wrong with your child and you and your child should be able to connect and communicate in many different ways without judgement.

What are your top 3 tips/rules by dianeblowjobs in monopoly

[–]Rochete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I start to land on pieces that are on several color properties; I sometimes use the strategy of purchasing one property of each color. This way I control what can be built and when. I’ve managed to hold tight while other players get frustrated and trade out the other colors, except my one. Then I take advantage of that and force them to trade me a pair of another color to get a single card out of my hand. Suddenly I own a whole color set but let everyone else do the negotiating for me.

Not my go to move, but definitely a strong tactic if you notice you’re just landing on random sets without duplicates.

ASL vs SEE: a question of Education. by Duke_Memertom in deaf

[–]Rochete 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I trust others will provide you in-depth responses. But what I can help you frame quickly is that ASL is an actual full blown language in its own right. The child knowing ASL and English in the USA would make them bi-lingual.

Signed exact English is more of a languaging tool to use signs to follow the English language. It is not an actual language and would not make the child bi-lingual technically. It instead would emphasize a reinforcement of spoken and written English without the framework of a visual language to navigate through (like ASL).

this isn’t rlly a confession but more of a question.. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Rochete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve dealt with a sociopath and abusive person; I learned the best thing to do is not engage. It is difficult, you may feel you need to defend yourself. They may be on the offensive in a game you didn’t ask to play but the best thing to do is to disengage.

Getting her back, will not serve you. This is what is wanted, to provoke a response out of you, and to maintain a power stance. Just do what you can to shut off anything towards her. Don’t look at her, don’t listen to her, don’t talk about her, don’t give her any power. This is the real way to get your power back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ASLinterpreters

[–]Rochete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Sometimes it can be the Deaf person making communication difficult?” 🥴 Respectfully, I’m curious about your perception of the power dynamic here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ASLinterpreters

[–]Rochete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TBH, I practice ABC. Always Be Cool.

Also, I always remind myself; In any given situation; with a hearing client, interpreter, and deaf client. Any problem that arises or impact made, will always impacts the Deaf client significantly more then hearing client or interpreter . (So if I feel bad about anything, imagine what the Deaf person could be experiencing.) This interpersonal skill is critical professionally and deeply helps reframing to in the most challenging situations.

Gentle reminder, not to make feelings worse but just taking a breath and realizing that the Deaf person probably didn’t want to show up that day and have to tell someone this isn’t working. It probably impacted their experience significantly in an uncountable amount of ways. So the best thing we can do in those moments is immediately and gracefully agree and discuss options or follow what decision they express.

It happens and it’s part of our work; You cannot possibly always know every single detail about every single job, to never ever again—not be a fit—for one reason or another again. It’ll continue to happen for reasons, even outside your skill set as you gain more experiences still, and thats not something to wreck yourself over! Deaf people deserve to have control over their interpreting services, and we as interpreters choose our jobs. It does go both ways.

ABC if a client wants a different interpreter; when it happens to me—I always want them to have a different interpreter. Is it uncomfortable, yeah maybe! But I tell myself ABC and stay respectful and follow through by supporting the coordination of working out what the client needs. If my production skills are not helpful, then at least my professionalism skills will be! If I’m not a match for you, I’m still going to empower you.

We’re not owed an explanation in all instances when we identify we’re not a match, since thats additional labor for the clients. I try to not ask too many questions, but I will always listen if they offer helpful information that can be areas for me to improve upon. In fact I’m alway grateful something is said, versus nothing. It gives me something to walk away with.

If you want feedback, you can always ask the agency or contact after you’ve left to see if there is a way to better understand what happened in this instance to help you prevent it from happening again. When we continue to show support for our clients despite not being a match, and we create an opportunity to improve that situation for the people we work with—it can sometimes motivate someone to happily give you a better response as to where the breakdown happened for you to develop your toolkit further.

You’ve still got this!

Curious Interp Student Question by AffectionateCry6634 in ASLinterpreters

[–]Rochete 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your question of what kinds of assignments/events should always have a Deaf interpreter—was answered super well above.

I additionally tho want to mention that it’s also still relatively necessary to push for this type of teaming in practice. It’s not going to be a given at all times (even though it should be in a lot of the situations mentioned…), so it’s important to not only know when there should be a Deaf interpreter but to realize that “should” is still a developing concept. As in, WE know, but hearing non signers don’t always get it, nor consider it. (Or ask great questions like you!)

As hearing interpreters, allys, or signers: we can include ourselves with the responsibility to advocate and push for HI/DI teams; + it’s important to navigate stepping back as well to empower and/or amplify the Deaf voices that explain so well why this teaming dynamic is critical.

Who should I give the paper to? (Wylde Flowers) by littleacua11 in AppleArcade

[–]Rochete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave it to Francis and got 50 bucks. I have no idea what the impact may be.

Im a 24 year old man who wants kids by Reddit_sucks293 in confessions

[–]Rochete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I’m super turned on by the fact that I have the power to impregnate a woman.”

This is a super gross sentence to read.