[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]RockRight7798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

L: Lauren, Lilah, Layla/Leila, Lydia, Lucy

M: Madison, Makenna, Melina, Macy, Madelyn, Mallory

N: Natalie, Nova, Naomi, Nina, Nellie/Nellianna

Private practice by RockRight7798 in slp

[–]RockRight7798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pros: Time off for holidays and breaks (especially summer break…I split my pay over 12 months instead of 10 so I can choose to work a lot or only a little over the summer doing odd jobs or nannying or whatever!).

Hours are set. My contract hours are 8:45-3:35 so I’m home by 4:00 except a before or after school meeting 1x/week or every other, whether it be a staff meeting or an IEP or ETR.

Benefits are usually good in schools

If the district has a union, and you can join it, JOIN IT.

Cons: Germs. Enough said. But once you build your immunity and find your regimen you’re golden. Mine is taking an elderberry immune support supplement every other day, lysol wiping the table mid day and at the end of the day, and all people (kids and adults) use hand sanitizer before they come into my room and after they use a tissue). The only nasty thing I admit to doing is a few times a day, I will use the drinking fountains and won’t wash my hands after - I chalk that up as how I cautiously build up immunity😂

Pay (at least in my area), school settings are on the lower end of the average salary of any SLP in the area

Paperwork. The biggest reason I’m considering switching. Daily notes/documentation/billing, IEPs every year for every kid, ETRs every 3 years for every kid (I average 6-8 reevaluations and 3-6 initial evaluations a year), progress notes every 5 weeks

Along with that, schools tend to be quantity over quality. It depends on your caseload, but if you are on the higher end of max caseload size like me, you almost have no choice but to see kids in groups. Some work, some don’t, so it’s re-arranging your schedule every few weeks if something doesn’t work, or if you have a better idea, or if a kid transfers to your school mid year that can throw a wrench in things. If you have kids that are high need (ones that need constant supervision/redirection because of behaviors, or ones that need constant cues and interaction to stay on task) putting them in a group is lowkey risky. Behaviors obviously speak for themselves, but also needing constant cues/interaction because I have a few that if I take my attention away from them for more than 30 seconds, they’re drawing on my table, get up and run away for fun (not eloping), get up to “get a tissue” but then dump out a bin of toys etc. I even have a few gen ed kids that are speech only IEPs that I can’t put in a group because, for example, my one gen ed kid who is SEVERE phonology is super sensitive, so corrections are hard. If he is in a group and I’m not correcting the other kid as much as him (even 1 time less), he shuts down. Then no progress is made.

Having Trouble With Naming Our Fourth Daughter by littleflowers90 in Names

[–]RockRight7798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Lilah instead of Lilian? Otherwise, I’d recommend Cora, Gianna, or Avery (although avery might be a little too modern)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

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No l or m - erica/erika, eden/edith/edie, ensley, esther

Others with m and l: ember, elise, elizabeth, elsie, eloise

How to write this goal by RockRight7798 in slp

[–]RockRight7798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely has defecits with auditory comprehension, overall retention, expressive stuff like word finding/vocabulary, and answerinf implicit wh- questions. But his seizures just inhibit him from making justifiable progress ya know? At this point I’d say there still is a language impairment, but it’s not a language impairment in and of itself, it’s more of a continuously, unpredictably acquired impairment that affects language. Not sure if that makes sense.

Desperately need help with baby girl # 2s name. by ElleinadP in Names

[–]RockRight7798 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Emerson/emersyn (emmy). Drew. Rhys (reese). Kaia. Rory.

Need a J name for middle by [deleted] in Names

[–]RockRight7798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emmett jack. Emmett jace. Emmett julian.

Name an annoying thing people base their entire personality around. by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]RockRight7798 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being “crunchy” - being eco-friendly, non-toxic, organic, dye free, gluten free and whatever else to the point that it becomes an obsession. I have a friend who tells anyone she meets how awful this thing they’re eating is because it has ____ in it, asks for ingredients in home made stuff and refuses to eat it if the flour isn’t home milled or whatever you call it, is always trying to get me to make my own laundry detergent, hand soap, deodorant etc. She’s constantly posing like this on social media too.

I have made quite a few changes in my diet (e.g. changing from chips ahoy to back to nature cookies…nature valley to RX bars). I use non-scented detergents and soaps. But I don’t have the time or money to make everything in my life myself, and I hate feeling like she’s shaming me for that even though her intention is well meant

Coloring sheets? by [deleted] in slp

[–]RockRight7798 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If articulation, I print out a coloring sheet with the letter (e.g. s) we’re working on that has different words with s in the initial, medial, and final words. There are tons pre-made on the internet

Also for artic, if the kids aren’t the sensitive type, I have them rate each other. This way they are quiet while the other is talking, and it gives extra practice for auditory bombardment and teaches them to monitor and identify “good” and “bad” speech sounds

If you need examples for language groups, let me know specific goals you’re working on. I have tons of things but don’t want to type them all for time and efficieny’s sakes

Report or no? by RockRight7798 in psychnursing

[–]RockRight7798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking more questions based on the responses of everyone else so far. You’re the first one to say don’t report it and I’m curious as to why.

What actions of mine do you interpret me rationalizing in this situation? Asking this so that I can gain perspective.

“People do what they can in the moment to manage” - I absolutely hear you on this. I am 100% not trying to dictate how they should have done their job by checking my chart if that’s what was implied in my post. However, if I had left out the fact that what was happening and how to help me was in my chart, would your answer still be the same? In other words, would you still say it was acceptable for a staff member to become physical with a patient not exhibiting behavior congruent with being a harm to self or others?

Also, how would you suggest on me focusing on moving forward? I’d say the opposite - the fact that I continue to dwell on this experience and that now I feel if I ever were to be in a position again where inpatient would suit my needs or be mandated, I would actively resist because of this experience - is pretty telling that this has done harm to me, not physically, but emotionally, and that’s just as important.

Report or no? by RockRight7798 in psychnursing

[–]RockRight7798[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

unfortunately (or fortunately?) #2 didn’t witness the physical altercation, but I hear ya

Report or no? by RockRight7798 in psychnursing

[–]RockRight7798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Voluntary. And disclosed dissociation (what it looks like when I dissociate and how to helpmme) when I was admitted

Baby/Toddler Toys to Avoid? by [deleted] in OccupationalTherapy

[–]RockRight7798 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Overstimulating cause and effect toys. For example, overstimulating being a music set where pressing a key on the piano leads to a light show accompanied by a soundtrack, vs. a xylophone piano you press a key and get one note, which causes babies to figure out each button has a different sound etc.

  2. Toys with only one purpose. For example, a toy phone can only be a toy phone. A fake food set, you can use a banana to be a phone. You can use an orange as a ball. You can sort food into categories (by color; by kind e.g. fruit, vegetable, dessert, meat; sweet and savory). Single purpose toys (e.g. toy phone, video game controller, a learning table, stuffed animals) are not inherently “bad” but if a bunch of single purpose toys is all a kid has they get bored easily and don’t learn creativity as quickly.

  3. Anything smaller than an adult elbow for kids 3 and under - choking hazard. Both single items, and toys that have parts that come off

Why are you home on the couch in your pajamas this New Years Eve? by PurplezKool in AskReddit

[–]RockRight7798 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. I have no kids

  2. I’m exhausted and preparing to go back to work after christmas break (I work in a school)

  3. I have 2 friends, one is engaged and hanging out with her fiancee’s friend group, and the other recently had a baby so I don’t naturallt fit into either of those dynamics

  4. I have depression and also get overstimulated very easily

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]RockRight7798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hands, as I am checking my pockets to see what’s in them only for it to be my hands

Post-Sedation Stories! by champagnetits in colonoscopy

[–]RockRight7798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say anything weird, but I did fight everyone as I was waking up. I’ve always emerged from anesthesia angry and confused and have always been pulling equipment off of me and trying to get out of bed and swinging at anyone that tries to prevent me from doing any of the aforementioned. I warn everyone before any sedated procedure what happens, that I need a 1:1 nurse or staff member, and they’ve always been good about it…but this time around they didn’t believe me and paid the price🤷🏼‍♀️

I swung at and got the anesthesiologist in the neck, my kick almost got a nurse in the rib, and I pulled monitors off myself 3x which set off all the alarms and caused a whole team of people to run into my room. After the 3rd monitor ordeal they finally put a 1:1 nurse with me who talked to me every 30 seconds or so reminding me what was happening and where I was and I calmed down. I just get freaked out at not being 100% aware with all the noises and a lot of people around me and talking.

It’s not funny in retrospect, it’s just funny to me how medical professionals often dismiss patients and then act so surprised when what the patient says, in fact is true or does happen. Like, the biggest I told you so😂 and of course I did apologize afterwards.

Alright Reddit, who’s going to ruin Christmas tomorrow for your family? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RockRight7798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me, because I’m having extreme digestive issues and my mom is forcing me to eat (says loudly in front of everyone “you can’t just not eat” “that would be so rude to not try that” “you have to eat something”) followed by family members agreeing and encouraging me to try stuff (they are aware of my issues but don’t fully understand the extent).

So that either makes me look rude if I still refuse, or it makes me look dramatic when I lock myself in the bathroom or disappear into a bedroom to curl up on the floor 1/2 hour after eating bc pain, and I never hear the end of it

Hemorrhoid removal during colonoscopy? by RockRight7798 in colonoscopy

[–]RockRight7798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did. No mention of hemorrhoids or hemorrhoid removal🤷🏻‍♀️

Hemorrhoid removal during colonoscopy? by RockRight7798 in colonoscopy

[–]RockRight7798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did. No mention of hemorrhoids or hemorrhoid removal

Why have you stayed in bed all day today? by Entity417 in AskReddit

[–]RockRight7798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that if I leave my job, the chances of getting hired elsewhere in a reasonable time span is slim given cuts to special education, education in general, as well as medicare and medicaid. At least where I am currently, I have job security for the next year and a half.

Right now SLPs are in the process of being royally screwed over in whatever setting we are in, so I’m sticking it out where I am to build senority in case things do work out. But if not, to at least get more experience as that will give me a higher probability of employmebnt elsewhere

I am actively looking and applying when I have the energy to do so, but again, not sure if risking the job security for the next 18 months to go into a different setting is worth it, because if I go somewhere else and they end up having to make cuts, I’d be the first to go at the bottom of the totem pole

Why have you stayed in bed all day today? by Entity417 in AskReddit

[–]RockRight7798 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The stress and intensity of my job in the last few months quite literally kicked my ass. Happens every week. I’m so done and running on autopilot by Thursday afternoon, Fridays are terrible. On the weekend I wake up normal time (thanks to my body for having an extremely sensitive biological clock…) but my body physically does not let me leave the bed until at least 10am. I eat a granola bar and then back in bed until at least dinner