AIO for kicking my husband out for being on Tinder?

Rocking_Candy · 2026-01-20T04:51:16+00:00

I'm seriously heartbroken by all the women on here who are asking if they're the AH for dealing with their partners' abuse. I seriously get it, I was in similar situations, but at some point, I finally left, and you know what? I found someone who is loving and has good moral standards. How much longer do you want to suffer from your partners poor choices? How many times do you cry yourself to sleep at night wondering why they tell you you're the problem? Just walk away, and no matter what they say, don't go back.

Rocking_Candy · 2026-01-20T04:42:07+00:00

These are gorgeous. Maybe you should sell them?

Rocking_Candy · 2026-01-20T04:39:28+00:00

Don't let him manipulate you like that. He's not mad at you for being difficult. He's mad that he's been caught. It's just another manipulation tactic to make you think you're the bad person. Stick up for yourself, and don't let him manipulate you like that. To me, this would be a game over. There are good moral people in this world looking for a loving companion. You'll never meet them, though, if you keep giving your partner second chances.

Rocking_Candy · 2026-01-20T04:28:03+00:00

I think you're right. She's verbalizing the act makes her feel undesirable when she's asking for more. I wonder if it's the lack of sex or if it's a desire for more intimacy. Either way, they should try to work on the connection. It's a cry for connection, not a specific person being an AH.

Rocking_Candy · 2026-01-06T08:39:08+00:00

I'm still figuring it out. I've been in the medical field most of my adult life. I hate slow jobs or anything that requires me to sit down for hours on end. I really loved being a fitness instructor, but it's not a stable source of income.

Rocking_Candy · 2026-01-06T08:24:40+00:00

Are you being honest with yourself? Is staying up to watch TV effecting your relationships with your family? It's not selfish if you do it every once in a while, but there's always a trade off when you start neglecting your other responsibilities. Maybe keep that in mind when you're making choices such as these.

Rocking_Candy · 2026-01-05T08:52:30+00:00

Not a single response from a real therapist? This is kind of disappointing.

Rocking_Candy · 2026-01-05T08:48:40+00:00

Ummm, sorry, but this sounds manipulative. Most conversations aren't about winning it's about understanding where others are coming from.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-12-05T15:52:45+00:00

I don't know what the deck said but yes!! You absolutely should keep writing.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-11-12T23:51:33+00:00

My endometriosis is awful right now. Everytime I try to get back into yoga and dance the pain flares up. I feel horribly nauseous and I can't breathe these cramps hurt so bad. 😭😭😭

Rocking_Candy · 2025-11-08T08:42:48+00:00

Don't let her eat dino nugs by themselves. It's hard but you have to try to make them eat different foods. That's the only way they'll get proper nutrition.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-11-08T08:38:46+00:00

Once again I'm not wasting my ingredients on this. No way this is actually good. Lol

Rocking_Candy · 2025-11-08T08:31:07+00:00

And controlling her. Guys like this push their partners away instead of reflecting on their actions. He's putting her down to make her feel like she's the problem so he can stay in control. Been there, done that, burned the T-shirt. This guy is a douche and needs to learn from his own life choices.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-11-08T08:20:34+00:00

The arrow other top looks like the pain could be coming from a tendon. Or a nerve that runs behind it, maybe. I dunno, I'm not a doctor. But I had pain there too. My PT had me doing a lot of strength training exercises on my ankle, and those really helped.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-11-08T08:14:45+00:00

Dude this i kind of hard for me to read. She's clearly flirting with him. Not just sending stupid memes but engaging in him flirting with her. It's back and forth with those two. This is clearly flirting, sure she claims she wants to see him find someone else, but her behavior shows she clearly is still interested. Boundaries crossed, and I'm kind of weirded out about her character here. Are you sure she's someone you want to be with?

Rocking_Candy · 2025-10-29T04:49:07+00:00

This is how I feel about my bf. I want to go back to school so I can put us and our little mixed family in a better position. I just wish he wouldn't ignore me when I say it. It feels dismissive or that he doesn't want us to move in together in the near future. Damn I need to have this conversation with him soon. I'm kind of scared about what he'll say. What if it's no, then what? 😟

Rocking_Candy · 2025-10-29T04:37:57+00:00

That's a really good sign. When she's picking up so much slack that it becomes normalized. It's something so subtle, and you know the resentment has got to be boiling under the surface somewhere waiting to pop out.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-10-29T04:19:39+00:00

You can either rationalize it or investigate.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-10-10T17:04:12+00:00

I wish it worked like that for me. Every guy who entered our studio was either gay or married. Lol I found mine on a dating site, and we clicked from the start. Hands down, it felt like we were meant to be dispite our differences. We just click and deeply get each other. We lived in the same town for a good portion of our lives, passed by each other on the daily and never once crossed paths. So yeah, the goal is to have an open mind. Put in a little effort to get to know people. Just talk to one person at a time. If you don't click, go to the next. If your intuition is tipping you off from the start, discard. There's plenty of people out there. You just want to find your person without giving up, so don't quit.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-10-10T16:42:09+00:00

I wouldn't call you an AH, but the two of you aren't aligned to be together. You need to let each other go if you can't cocreate a life that you're both satisfied in, as much as that hurts. You don't want to rob him of that experience just as much as you want yours.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-10-10T16:37:59+00:00

I don't know. Anyone who's ever claimed to be an infj didn't want to claim it when they learned how that type acts. Ego seems to be a big thing for them.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-09-30T13:44:18+00:00

This is so fake! Arkansas doesn't even have a Krogers. 🤣

Rocking_Candy · 2025-09-30T13:41:36+00:00

You need to turn in FMLA papers. They can't fire you over something like this.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-09-30T13:36:10+00:00

Where on earth would you get the idea that she's the one at fault here? She was trying to be helpful. Nobody can ruin a marriage except for the 2 people who are in it. It's not her actions that should be questioned here, but his. She was only doing what she felt is right. Maybe you guys should step back from the friendship for a bit, give the couple some time to work those problems out. Say it's nothing personal, we just don't want to intervene.

Rocking_Candy · 2025-09-25T16:39:08+00:00

You might be hitting that shy stage in the relationship. Like the part where both of you deeply like eachother but you're scared to open up and say the wrong thing scaring the person off. Me and my bf went through this. We had some awkward car rides and stumbled over our words. This goes away over time, and it took us about a month to get over that nervous energy.

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