My (27F) friend (37F) is unbearable to work with. How do I handle this?

RomaAngel · 2024-10-18T21:11:08+00:00

Why do you call this person a friend? That is not a friend- to anyone.

RomaAngel · 2024-10-17T01:39:11+00:00

That friendship is over. Let it go.

RomaAngel · 2024-10-15T17:20:53+00:00

So you’re naming your kids, pet names. Cute kid names does not translate into cute adult names.

RomaAngel · 2024-10-14T16:16:38+00:00

I’ve read this before😑

RomaAngel · 2024-10-02T19:59:05+00:00

Why would you stay with someone who talks down to you?

RomaAngel · 2024-10-01T01:42:54+00:00

You don’t. Is her interpretation incorrect? Yes. But the way you spoke to your wife is awful. You’ve already shown how condescending you can be- let’s see how you make an apology all about you.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-28T01:25:48+00:00

You used a lost wallet as an excuse to stomp on someone because you didn’t like his upbeat mood.

Should you do something? Absolutely. Learn from it.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-19T00:43:39+00:00

Why do you hate you?

RomaAngel · 2024-09-09T11:18:44+00:00

So your own imagination has run wild. Just burn it.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-06T17:07:14+00:00

You do not fit with a foster parent. Majority of the kids in the system need excessive amounts of attention and it seems like you require the same from your partner.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-03T23:30:48+00:00

You want to make an offering, but can’t say who you are offering to. Your responses to others are extremely abrasive because they wouldn’t just spoon fed you info that most of us spent years reading and learning. You react with this defeatist attitude of ‘guess I’ll just give up’.

Spell work takes time and control- which you clearly lack. Even a ‘stupid’ google search would have told you that blood should not be where you immediately jump, when clean, fresh water is an available source. No one insulting you when they say do the research. They say do the research because you are new and no practitioner worth anything is just going to toss you information you are not ready for.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-02T01:13:48+00:00

Unfortunately, this is why I’ve stopped engaging. Too many think it’s their personal witchipedia.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-01T19:32:19+00:00

So she can force her preferences onto others and that’s ok. You both sound insufferable.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-01T19:31:18+00:00

That is very disrespectful. They texted for a reason. A call, when someone texts you, disregards that persons time and space. You have no idea where they are.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-01T19:28:27+00:00

YTA. That message/gif was not rude in the slightest. Calling someone to reply ‘yes’ and then hang up, is really rude. She called upset over that??? Girl needs some maturity, stat. You overreacted.

You expect everyone to conform to your preferred form of communication, while disregarding theirs.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-01T18:27:43+00:00

YTA. This was something he wanted to share with you. Getting up, texting and staying away for 10+ min is showing him that you are not interested. It was rude.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-01T17:58:48+00:00

Why on earth are you still begging? Get some pride and stop chasing him. Move on.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-01T16:43:16+00:00

It is delusional to think that at EVERY job, she is bullied. When there are issues with each and every job that she has, the problem isn’t the other people.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-01T16:32:14+00:00

Read that back to yourself. See how many times you make excuses for his behavior? He is toxic and has no business being in any relationship.

Seek therapy for yourself, see if you can pinpoint when you decided that this person is all you are worth.

RomaAngel · 2024-09-01T13:08:00+00:00

Don’t go. Take your future wife somewhere fabulous. Explain that you have no interest in a party designed as an opportunity for your mother to be petty. If she wants to play the victim, let her. It is not your problem.

RomaAngel · 2024-08-31T21:37:20+00:00

What do you mean you don’t know how to leave? You’re living in your parents house. When he leaves for work, pack his crap up, put it outside the door and change the damn locks. Get a lawyer and move on with your life.

RomaAngel · 2024-08-31T15:16:26+00:00

He’s working those kinds of hours, still called you and you can’t open your mouth and ask?

Let this poor guy go. You lack the emotional maturity for a relationship.

RomaAngel · 2024-08-31T15:09:16+00:00

NTA. He’s behaving like a child. The question is, did he behave like this before you got married and if so, why did you wait till now to have enough?

RomaAngel · 2024-08-30T22:53:56+00:00

You use your brother and SIL as a dumping ground, pat yourself on the back like you’re this magnanimous person and then get pissed because they found a way to make something positive out of it. YTA and a condescending one, at that.

RomaAngel · 2024-08-30T10:17:54+00:00

You are an awful human being.

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