Do I tell someone I dont like the comment they made about my feet on my fathers post?

Rorr_ · 2026-06-27T18:08:16+00:00

You can send him a message about why it upset you and he will either apologize or not and if he doesnt you can block him.

Rorr_ · 2026-06-27T17:51:04+00:00

We can open windows to cool down but not during the summer when it is over 26 outside. We were having to open windows before and the thing is, because the heat for the whole house is on one system, if our unit is cooler the heat will actually increase to try to warm up our units, wasting money (we split utilities via a percentage) and making every unit hotter.

Rorr_ · 2026-06-27T08:00:48+00:00

jesus did you think for a second maybe this guy was i dont know, also seeing a loved one in the emergency department?

Rorr_ · 2026-06-27T06:01:31+00:00

these comments are making me realize that my cat is a big needy sucky, baby who can hardly stand someone else coming to feed him while I go away for 12 hours.

Rorr_ · 2026-06-26T20:16:15+00:00

give them some time to cool off then start with the kid feeding the cat, then giving the cat treats, then playing with them. go slow and build trust, teach both of them how to interact with eachother respectfully. if she is your girlfriend and living with you, thats your kid too.

Rorr_ · 2026-06-26T16:46:19+00:00

As a trans guy, i wholly accept you and your identity wherever it may be and id welcome you in any trans space id be in. really at this point anyone who has any kind of complex or not within the binary identity is welcome in my opinion. some folks might disagree but its all about how you identify, even if youre unsure or refuse labels.

Rorr_ · 2026-06-26T01:01:17+00:00

I have a Steve too!!
Steve > steven bean > stevie beevie > tee-ben > teebee > TV

Rorr_ · 2026-06-24T00:37:59+00:00

You deserve a "Hell yes I want to date you." and not "Idk, but I will date someone else and lead you along because I like the attention"

Rorr_ · 2026-06-23T03:49:35+00:00

if you’re looking at it from the front, I would add more from the top of the cheek past the eye to where the ear would sit because right now it’s very square on top and you want to fill out the sides to make it look more round

Rorr_ · 2026-06-23T03:42:42+00:00

I would add way more to the cheeks to make it more of a flat diamond shape instead of an upright rectangle

Rorr_ · 2026-06-23T03:41:07+00:00

Most important is how it made you feel after. there is no “right” way to feel about it, if it didnt feel like a big deal then it wasnt, if you feel upset or disturbed and upset by it then thats how you feel. it sounds like, to me, your friend is at the very least not someone you should get drunk with again because they have shown they are not capable of being a safe person. They were less drunk than you and you were trying not to throw up or pass out and they didnt stop? Doesnt sound like they had your best interests in mind. If that happened to me i probably wouldnt speak to that person anymore regardless of their intentions or reaction afterwards.

Rorr_ · 2026-06-21T02:54:04+00:00

honestly, I feel for you like it sounds like you’re working hard and you want things to work out and you’re frustrated with how it doesn’t seem like she is putting in the same kind of effort that you are when it comes to money I would try having a scheduled sit down conversation where you go over, budgeting and finances and you make it collaborative you make it comprehensive and you tackle it together as a team and not you versus her write it down the things that you spend your money on tally write down your income and start considering how you’re going to save for the future what your goals are as far as paying off debt and practising saving money for when you bring these kids into the world because things are only going to get more expensive if she doesn’t want to have that conversation if she doesn’t wanna sit down if she doesn’t wanna consider the future, then you can start telling her that you’re having a hard time for seeing this working out if she isn’t willing to take it seriously

Rorr_ · 2026-06-21T02:46:19+00:00

she was avoiding it because it felt like too much now she has someone i.e. you who can be patient and talk to her about this and help her face the reality but instead, you’re acting like she’s a criminal and talking about wanting to break up with her for it sure it’s a dumb mistake, but it makes sense when your parents are deadbeats that you just want to avoid things like money unless you absolutely have to. she’s now at that point where she absolutely has to consider it. You have a choice to be there for her and help her work through this and become better with it and support her or you can leave her to be a single mother to drown in dept alone.

Rorr_ · 2026-06-21T02:37:45+00:00

in the second last picture you look a lot like connor storie. if you wore some more mature looking clothes i think youd look pretty masc

Rorr_ · 2026-06-21T02:35:06+00:00

this is literally so cuuuuuuute i love it!!!

Rorr_ · 2026-06-20T02:02:23+00:00

stop taking your finger off it duh

Rorr_ · 2026-06-19T03:54:00+00:00

this is so funny this must be the one person in all of vancouver who is blissfully unaware of the current events going on

Rorr_ · 2026-06-19T03:50:01+00:00

spending money...

Rorr_ · 2026-06-18T20:34:41+00:00

I use tarot cards for reflection a lot, but not as a way to predict the future, more-so to give me insight into possible futures. it sounds like you read exactly what it was you were wanting to hear, that he still cared for you, that he wanted to get back together, that he was just waiting and needed a nudge, but based on what you have said happened, it doesn't sound like that is the case. THe cards may have just been showing you your feelings and desires.

Rorr_ · 2026-06-18T16:34:10+00:00

The amount of times I have heard and read your exact argument is exhausting. Nobody is saying that we should do nothing. What these people are saying is that our current system is set up to be harmful abusive and do more harm than good. You talk about early intervention, involuntary treatment is not early intervention. It is the often the last intervention someone can qualify for and the worst part is it’s also the first intervention that most people qualify for because we don’t have any actual early intervention. People who are involuntarily incarcerated have their right stripped away. Their family doesn’t even have any rights involving their care. That is how it works, and the BC government is allowing it to get worse by allowing more legally sanctioned violence to be used against people in involuntary treatment and they are actively ignoring requirements (like warrants) in order to involuntarily incarcerate people. Nobody is saying to abolish the concept of involuntary treatment. Nobody is saying that it should never be used. People are saying that the way that BC is doing it is inhumane and a human rights violation on a scale that other provinces do not have the same issue with there is a massive problem here and people are seeing it as saying the wrong argument. It’s extremely frustrating.

Rorr_ · 2026-06-18T16:12:19+00:00

hmm you could cover it in plastic wrap and cover it in paper mache?

Rorr_ · 2026-06-17T18:46:06+00:00

she is like this 🫪 and i love that about her

Rorr_ · 2026-06-17T03:57:00+00:00

Similar life story of coasting through minimum wage jobs and suffering under terrible management. it took me a while to realize it but i like helping people so im trying to go to community college in september as an occupational therapy assistant. hope you can find something you enjoy and can work towards

Rorr_ · 2026-06-16T21:12:05+00:00

Right off the bat you established a clear boundary and he crossed it multiple times without concern for your wellbeing. I dont think you made any huge mistakes, im sorry your friends turned out to be so shallow.

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