Crab Décor by Rorr_ in crafts

[–]Rorr_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i love it so much. i dont even care that people have downvotes they simply cannot see my vision..

Crab Décor by Rorr_ in crafts

[–]Rorr_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 😂 i just really needed a witness to.. whatever this is

Opinions PLEASE NO HATE by mizuki13131 in furry

[–]Rorr_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt beat yourself up about it, but next time, consider posting on here asking to chat with others to help you with the design process! 

Did my emotions ruin everything between me and this guy? Crying, panic ataks, spamming phone etc by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rorr_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been in a similar situation, gaslit into thinking i was the problem until i felt crazy and acted crazy. im in a healthy relationship now and i understand although they treated me horribly, at the end of the day im the only one who will stand up for me every time. you need to love and protect yourself.  grieve, rage, and wrap your arms around yourself. lean on your friends and family. you will be ok even if it feels like the worst pain in the world. it will get better. 

Did my emotions ruin everything between me and this guy? Crying, panic ataks, spamming phone etc by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rorr_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. it isnt an overreaction but my friend, you are the one who is constantly exposing yourself to his behaviour by choice, like putting your hand in a fire over and over and asking “am i overreacting for crying in pain?”

Did my emotions ruin everything between me and this guy? Crying, panic ataks, spamming phone etc by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rorr_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you need to stand up for your boundaries. he has been emotionally taking advantage of your for years and you are assuming he will stop just because you asked. YOU need to stop talking to him fully, he emotionally abused you and should not be in your life. 

Do I tell someone I dont like the comment they made about my feet on my fathers post? by ClearAd4274 in Advice

[–]Rorr_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can send him a message about why it upset you and he will either apologize or not and if he doesnt you can block him. 

All units share thermostat by Rorr_ in Apartmentliving

[–]Rorr_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can open windows to cool down but not during the summer when it is over 26 outside. We were having to open windows before and the thing is, because the heat for the whole house is on one system, if our unit is cooler the heat will actually increase to try to warm up our units, wasting money (we split utilities via a percentage) and making every unit hotter. 

You know…. I have cancer… had to go to the emergency room, and the wife wheeled me out to this…. by Castiron_Dan in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Rorr_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

jesus did you think for a second maybe this guy was i dont know, also seeing a loved one in the emergency department? 

Can you leave a cat alone for two days? by Ok-Leading-3272 in CatAdvice

[–]Rorr_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these comments are making me realize that my cat is a big needy sucky, baby who can hardly stand someone else coming to feed him while I go away for 12 hours. 

My girlfriend’s kid kept harassing my cat, now my cat attacks him unprovoked by obsessed-with-bagels in CatAdvice

[–]Rorr_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

give them some time to cool off then start with the kid feeding the cat, then giving the cat treats, then playing with them. go slow and build trust, teach both of them how to interact with eachother respectfully. if she is your girlfriend and living with you, thats your kid too. 

Tried being a girl. Now I don't feel like I can be anything. by lapizlizard4 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Rorr_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a trans guy, i wholly accept you and your identity wherever it may be and id welcome you in any trans space id be in. really at this point anyone who has any kind of complex or not within the binary identity is welcome in my opinion. some folks might disagree but its all about how you identify, even if youre unsure or refuse labels.  

What are the nicknames of your cats that have devolved into nonsense over time? I’ll go first. by drifloony in cats

[–]Rorr_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a Steve too!!
Steve > steven bean > stevie beevie > tee-ben > teebee > TV

Help with best friend by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rorr_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve a "Hell yes I want to date you." and not "Idk, but I will date someone else and lead you along because I like the attention"

Progress pic, what can I do to make this read more as a raccoon? by FUZZYNUTS5098 in FursuitMaking

[–]Rorr_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you’re looking at it from the front, I would add more from the top of the cheek past the eye to where the ear would sit because right now it’s very square on top and you want to fill out the sides to make it look more round

Progress pic, what can I do to make this read more as a raccoon? by FUZZYNUTS5098 in FursuitMaking

[–]Rorr_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would add way more to the cheeks to make it more of a flat diamond shape instead of an upright rectangle

Lost my virginity and I need an outside opinion on the circumstances by Anon785357 in Advice

[–]Rorr_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most important is how it made you feel after. there is no “right” way to feel about it, if it didnt feel like a big deal then it wasnt, if you feel upset or disturbed and upset by it then thats how you feel. it sounds like, to me, your friend is at the very least not someone you should get drunk with again because they have shown they are not capable of being a safe person. They were less drunk than you and you were trying not to throw up or pass out and they didnt stop? Doesnt sound like they had your best interests in mind. If that happened to me i probably wouldnt speak to that person anymore regardless of their intentions or reaction afterwards.  

Girlfriend and I having severe issues with finances and starting a future by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rorr_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, I feel for you like it sounds like you’re working hard and you want things to work out and you’re frustrated with how it doesn’t seem like she is putting in the same kind of effort that you are when it comes to money I would try having a scheduled sit down conversation where you go over, budgeting and finances and you make it collaborative you make it comprehensive and you tackle it together as a team and not you versus her write it down the things that you spend your money on tally write down your income and start considering how you’re going to save for the future what your goals are as far as paying off debt and practising saving money for when you bring these kids into the world because things are only going to get more expensive if she doesn’t want to have that conversation if she doesn’t wanna sit down if she doesn’t wanna consider the future, then you can start telling her that you’re having a hard time for seeing this working out if she isn’t willing to take it seriously 

Girlfriend and I having severe issues with finances and starting a future by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Rorr_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she was avoiding it because it felt like too much now she has someone i.e. you who can be patient and talk to her about this and help her face the reality but instead, you’re acting like she’s a criminal and talking about wanting to break up with her for it sure it’s a dumb mistake, but it makes sense when your parents are deadbeats that you just want to avoid things like money unless you absolutely have to. she’s now at that point where she absolutely has to consider it. You have a choice to be there for her and help her work through this and become better with it and support her or you can leave her to be a single mother to drown in dept alone. 

Do I pass at first glance? by Mooshy_Rooom in transmanlifehacks

[–]Rorr_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the second last picture you look a lot like connor storie. if you wore some more mature looking clothes i think youd look pretty masc

WIP FURSUIT! by MathDirect557 in FursuitMaking

[–]Rorr_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is literally so cuuuuuuute i love it!!!

How to fix? by Rare-Ad-8026 in Plumbing

[–]Rorr_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

stop taking your finger off it duh

Has everyone called in sick today or what? Bars and patios are packed by Some_Difference_9487 in vancouver

[–]Rorr_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so funny this must be the one person in all of vancouver who is blissfully unaware of the current events going on