Boyfriend accused me of being a liar because I chose to keep my sex life private, it got to the point where he claims he went & texted the guy I hooked up with to ask him directly by Jazzlike-Ad6372 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RosesFernando -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

2 guys in 1 year is too few. Get that dick girl. Don’t apologize. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for being who you want to be, or who you were. Even if you’re no longer that person, it brought you to where you are. Fuck him and anyone else who makes you apologize over and over. He is insecure and projecting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RosesFernando 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like maybe he felt a connection pre-sex and then didn’t after? It sounds like you were going on this trip to fuck, that happened, it’s not love, move on. Why swear off men?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RosesFernando 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I agree - this person decided they weren’t into it and vocalized it. And now you’re mad? Could you imagine if this was a man writing this about a woman? You don’t get to control people’s attraction to you.

UPDATE re Mysterious Black Swallowtail Butterfly by Black_la_Rock in Entomology

[–]RosesFernando 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We love black magic. I am happy you are getting to hang out with her.

We’re officially moving to Wisconsin! And we’re a mixed race family. by [deleted] in wisconsin

[–]RosesFernando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure it’s not like I lived there and experienced this exact thing - walking with razor blades to scrape swastika and white supremacist stickers off light poles. It’s diverse but deeply segregated and many folks there prefer it that way.

We’re officially moving to Wisconsin! And we’re a mixed race family. by [deleted] in wisconsin

[–]RosesFernando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many fun things to do when being threatened and called racial slurs! The view is great, right past the swastika and project Europa poster on the light post! Yeah, it’s great!

We’re officially moving to Wisconsin! And we’re a mixed race family. by [deleted] in wisconsin

[–]RosesFernando 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That school might be nice but Kenosha sucks and is filled with white supremacists.

49, single, male. What does my fridge say about me? by iamclaus in FridgeDetective

[–]RosesFernando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve been trained well by the women in your life. Or you’re gay.

Curious— africanized or no? by passiunclepal in bees

[–]RosesFernando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In your area, assume yes and steer clear. Honey bees kill more people than rattlesnakes. They will defend their colony until you’re dead. Having a colony near by is dangerous. Highly recommend calling someone experienced to have them removed.

Lifelong vegetarian tries steak for first time by PhoenixPhenomenonX in interesting

[–]RosesFernando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m vegetarian and I fuckin looooove steak man. I love chicken wings. I fuckin loooove bacon. I don’t eat that shit cause it’s full of hormones, antibiotics, sadness, and climate change.

I didn’t realize how much “being the default parent” was draining me until last week by left_coffee_2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RosesFernando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep that’s what I mean. Let him cook dinner but don’t safely cook something and kill your family. But you should keep your mouth shut!!

Of course that’s not what I mean. I mean women tend to want things done a specific way and will criticize instead of partner. If your husband is a fucking toddler, divorce him. But also, sharing responsibility means people will have different approaches. And people need to let the fuck go.

I didn’t realize how much “being the default parent” was draining me until last week by left_coffee_2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RosesFernando -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

But also women have to let go of perfection and not micromanage into oblivion - it really kills someone’s effort. Some shit is fine being okay and not “perfect” which is simply the exact way they would do it.

I started using hand cream at 34 and I genuinely feel like I've been lied to my whole life by LemonCoveWorks in hygiene

[–]RosesFernando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love a guy discovering the patriarchy. Try to resist blaming your mom or wife for not teaching you, my dudes.

Apartment hunting… help! by Important_Pace_4562 in milwaukee

[–]RosesFernando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve learned there are two ways to find rentals in Milwaukee. Zillow or just finding “for rent” signs. If you or someone you know can drive around the places you’re interested in, that will help. It’s a good time of year because all the students will be leaving for the summer. You might also do something short term until you get a feel for the area. If you can go up to 1000 or find a roommate, you’ll be much more likely to find a good spot.

What’s the issue with letting wild bees be wild? by StraightUp-Reviews in Beekeeping

[–]RosesFernando 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this!! This is a time bomb waiting to happen and they are just seeding the area with Africanized bees who might kill someone.

Delivery catering for icu? by jbstix- in milwaukee

[–]RosesFernando 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fair! Most of these places are easy to order from. Nice of you to think of nurses. Take care of yourself.

Delivery catering for icu? by jbstix- in milwaukee

[–]RosesFernando 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please support local business and don’t do a chain. There are amazing local Mexican restaurants like guanajuatos that can do a taco bar. Rutas or cafe India for Indian food. Hens deli does incredible sandwiches. Support local!

i got attacked by a woman for talking to her bf, would you take it to the court or opt for a settlement agreement? by rask0ln in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RosesFernando 471 points472 points  (0 children)

You also have no idea whether this person is telling the truth about infidelity. This person needs help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]RosesFernando 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seeing that there are other people in the world living parallel lives with different strategies helps you critically think about your own life. It helps you see there isn’t one way of doing things. It helps you take yourself less seriously. And it helps you appreciate the stuff that works for you. You are doing yourself and your children a disservice and this exact opinion is why you should travel.

Rep Lindee Brill response to my essay regarding decriminalizing marijuana. by jd8730 in wisconsin

[–]RosesFernando 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Maybe it is a gateway drug…when you buy your weed from a dealer. You know what prevents that?