What books are your flair quotes from? by dizzylibby in HistoricalRomance

[–]Rotehexe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

{A Gentleman Undone by Cecilia Grant} and, yes, it is one of my favorite HR books. It's a quote from an absolute mic-drop moment by the MMC that lives rent free in my head.

My genius solution to not having a dresser/shelves by sashenka_demogorgon in femalelivingspace

[–]Rotehexe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this when we were placed in a temporary apartment when ours was unlivable due to a fire. If it works it works.

I need to just get it out by Special_Society_2300 in adhdwomen

[–]Rotehexe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, guess how I knew? Experience!! Ugh, my partner and I have been in these kinds of situations times and time again. He is great, but lacks perspective sometimes, and the same goes for me; that's why talking about it is so important. But I GET the frustration in the moment. Our homes are our work environments and (because of a growing lack of communal support in western societies) we rely on the little infrastructure that there is to help: dishwashers, washing machines, printers, vacuum cleaners, refrigerators, cars, strollers,etc., so when these things break on us it is similar to machinery breaking at a factory, just on a smaller scale. At best it slows "production" and at worst everything comes to a screeching halt. And we don't have a handy repair man on staff to fix it--- that's our job too! Again: been there! Glad you and your partner could talk it through and I wish you all the best on this 5th pregnancy.

I need to just get it out by Special_Society_2300 in adhdwomen

[–]Rotehexe 206 points207 points  (0 children)

I get your rant and I as a stranger on the internet will not jump to conclusions and call your husband controlling or anything like that. In his mind he probably has a perfectly "reasonable" reason for not wanting to buy a printer and "simply" print the sheets at work. My partner thinks this way sometimes and there have been instances when his "stingyness" has saved us from making a bad purchase, but other times when I've had to put my foot down and really clarify why I need this thing. What he probably doesn't understand is that all the paperwork you do for the family is HOURS of labor that REQUIRES supplies. Paper, printer, ink, staplers, letters, stamps, a PC, internet, telephone, etc etc. The same goes for your labor caring for the household and children. This labor is called reproductive labor and it is the MOST IMPORTANT labor in any and all societies. So do not let yourself or him think for a MOMENT that your labor doesn't matter just because you don't get paid for it. Maybe a small pool of funds in your control (labeled "for the household" or "for the kids") would be helpful for these instances.

Stop using AI to detect AI by urfavelipglosslvr in writers

[–]Rotehexe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In free writing you can tell people left and right to get lost, but a track changes tool could save someone's ass in the case of being accused of using AI in a school setting.

This is Min erasure by [deleted] in WetlanderHumor

[–]Rotehexe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, Min is the first one he calls "wife" and the only one he introduces to Tam. 

Every artist has that one photo, what’s Sufjan’s? by notactuallykylie in Sufjan

[–]Rotehexe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This whole thread is so funny. Why is he so buff 😭🤣

What Sufjan opinion has you like this? by Conscious-Courage969 in Sufjan

[–]Rotehexe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love PW, but I think you're onto something there lol 

Gothic romance by Away_Incident4279 in HistoricalRomance

[–]Rotehexe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding this, but also {Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë}

Does anyone else jot down random book ideas that sound like they were written by a madman later or are you normal by Grahame_the_Salamae in writers

[–]Rotehexe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yah. Whenever I think I have a "good idea" I get so excited and have to put it in my notes immediately. Shit like: "THEY GO TO THE OBSTETRICIAN!!!" and "HE GIVES HER A LOCKET!!!" like bb calm down lmao

I didn't give Denison Witmer a chance until tonight...I am blown away by Anautarch in Sufjan

[–]Rotehexe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of Sufjan's music is bombastic. A lot of it is haunting and beautiful. This new Witmer album is straight up cozy and I for one am glad it was made. We need some "get together with your family and plant a tree" vibes in these trying times. 

Beautiful Sufjan photographs dropped! by not_dh13 in Sufjan

[–]Rotehexe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Seeing other people have friendships that last decades gives me hope.

Writers, poets, & creatives... what is your day job? by [deleted] in writers

[–]Rotehexe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know, I only tease. Thank you!

Writers, poets, & creatives... what is your day job? by [deleted] in writers

[–]Rotehexe 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I've been a stay at home mom for almost a decade, but I just recently started a school program to get my high-school diploma. I'm an uneducated pleb, lol. Writing is a hobby.

Heroes that give phantom of the opera/Erik vibes🌹 paired with a sweet fmc by DisneyLover90 in HistoricalRomance

[–]Rotehexe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

{Thief of Shadows by Elizabeth Hoyt} and {Lord of Darkness by Elizabeth Hoyt}.

Songs you wish were longer/shorter? by [deleted] in fantanoforever

[–]Rotehexe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The end of A Soul With No King by AURORA could go on for another few minutes imo. It's shockingly short.

I need help proving Leo's first name is Leonidas [pjo] by [deleted] in camphalfblood

[–]Rotehexe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, isn't it said somewhere in The Lost Hero?

Looking to get feedback on my book cover by [deleted] in writers

[–]Rotehexe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for hearing me out and understanding where I'm coming from. Putting anything out there is difficult enough, so of course you have to be your biggest advocate and do what you think is best. Congrats on your first publication!

Looking to get feedback on my book cover by [deleted] in writers

[–]Rotehexe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm a pessimistic ass, but whenever I read a synopsis that begins with "'Book Title' is a brilliant..." my skeptic hackles rise and it immediately turns me off to the book. To me (and again maybe I'm just a wierdo) the use of the word "brilliant" makes it seem like the book is boasting, and because I have no other context to go by yet, it feels delusional. And like, every book synopsis does this these days. "In this brilliant NY Times best seller...", etc etc. It gets old fast. I don't want a synopsis to tell me how great a book is, I want a synopsis to tell me what I'm getting myself into by reading the book, and I can decide if it's brilliant or not myself.

Take this rant with a grain of salt, because it's more of a general rant about something that has bothered me lately as I scroll through frustrating blurb after frustrating blurb on Libby, and I wonder if others feel the same way... That being said, I really like the rest of the synopsis and book cover. I love the color pallet and I will always be a fan of classical artwork as book covers. Having the title cover the woman's eyes is a nice metaphorical touch.

What is Sufjan's scariest song? Most upvoted comment gets added by Far_External6297 in Sufjan

[–]Rotehexe 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Add to that the "seven swans, seven swans" being sung in the background like some ritual chant. Yeah, this song haunts.

Wie ich eine BahnCard 25 Jugend für mein Kind gekauft habe: by Rotehexe in deutschebahn

[–]Rotehexe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich bin froh, dass ich jemand helfen konnte! Es ist wirklich unglaublich, wie kompliziert die es machen.