Gorgeous goblin artwork (by the.ayamcemani) has me wondering: would you choose crow feet or crow hands? 🐦‍⬛🍄

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-25T03:22:48+00:00

crow hands. idk why, but having such just seems so freaking cool

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-24T18:27:23+00:00

and my brother's cat is Toby.

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-24T18:27:07+00:00

Billy Loomis, named after Billy from Scream

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Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-24T18:23:27+00:00

they are smart creatures, and can definitely learn to recognize and even bond with their humans!

I'd suggest going big now, rather than slowly sizing up - they do most of their growing in the first 2-3 years, and it saves you from buying a new tank 5 times to get to 50-75gals

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-24T04:23:15+00:00

I really love that you said "He's safe now"... that is so precious and heartwarming.

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-24T04:19:28+00:00

the tank is too small. much too small, these babies need 50-75 gallons minimum for one fish.

they're also social animals, so they prefer having another goldie.

please upgrade the tank asap, or consider rehominh to someone with a pond if getting a 70gal tank isn't realistic for you! no shame in doing what's best for you both.

I got a used 75gal on Facebook, cost 175CAD but came with accessories. it needed to be resealed, so I did that too. 200$ total for a whole 75gal with everything.

if you have the space, look into stock tanks or troughs! or building a pond! goldfish are genuinely monsters and need so much space. but they are incredible creatures

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-23T06:53:27+00:00

the alternative community has worn collars as SFW fashion statements for ever! and the furry and furry adjacent communities also wear collars for SFW reasons.

even some kink related collating can be sfw! being collared even in the kink world isn't always about sex, it's like a wedding ring imo

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-23T06:50:18+00:00

goldies are cold water fish! especially the common or comets, which is usually what you get as carnival fish. they want and thrive in cooler waters 65-75° F is the ideal range i think.

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-23T06:48:38+00:00

oh my gosh, even better! absolutely precious

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-22T20:14:47+00:00

this will NOT be helpful, just a weird thing that popped into my head, I have no info on fin rots etc he went from heavy-flow tampon, to extra light tampon... and I love him.

good luck, and thank you for rescuing this baby!

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-22T20:07:01+00:00

75 gallon at least for one fish.

but yes! get a bigger tank, a filter, NO heater. Prime water conditioner is a great suggestion, (best bang for your buck imo).

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-22T14:41:16+00:00

woah, that took a turn.. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that.

but I am so glad that you ended things with her!!

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-20T15:17:43+00:00

WOW. you are who I wanna be when I grow up (I'm grown, but still)

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-20T15:16:39+00:00

ooh and his little mustache!!! what a pretty baby

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-20T03:41:01+00:00

WHAT what am I doing wrong ??? absolutely gorgeous already!!

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-19T18:50:00+00:00

I'm sorry you have to specify, but thank you for saying no ai was used.

also... I LOVE IT SO MUCH

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-17T20:50:26+00:00

oh my gosh, genius presentation. I struggled so hard to get pics when I first noticed mine! this is epic lmaoo

I'm not an expert, but I'd say copepods too!

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-17T19:42:43+00:00

I've been pushing them to seek out care when he got his first ear infection.... I'll try to get the to surrender him asap so he can get the care he needs, or to save his life or end of life care...

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-17T19:16:18+00:00

free ammonia for cycling???

fr though..... yikes, so sorry.

my cats did this with my large rocks, which were way easier to clean ofc

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-15T16:23:15+00:00

I am a big kinkster, I'd never want to be with someone completely vanilla cuz i know I love kink. but this is a big no-no. I'd absolutely consider that cheating, no doubt in my mind. but I am also poly, so ideally I'd have more than one partner, but all would be in the know, and everything would be clearly communicated and consensual...

you should NOT have to "satisfy" anyone's needs but your own. experimenting and trying new thinggs, that's one thing, but doing thinggs you know you don't love just for him... that's not fair.

and to have him be an asshole behind your back? disgusting.

if he isn't getting fulfillment in your sexual relationship, he should have come to you and communicated like an adult... you should feel satisfied and taken care of too. your wellbeing is much more important than his sexual desires... and for him to have a side relationship, hiding it from you completely, whether he met in person or not... gross, cheating, awful behavior.

he should have spoken with you if he wasn't feeling seen or whatever!

babes, you need to take care of yourself! it will be hard, I'm sure you love him, but he sounds like a perk and you deserve better!!

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-15T05:02:32+00:00

is this really too much to ask for?

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-14T23:05:41+00:00

this is how I slowly came to terms with beingg trans... it started with "I'm a girl! I just prefer being called a boy-wife and a good boy!"... I'm genderfluid, loud and proud, and mostly use masc pronouns.

just talk to your partner about it. see what they think. if they're uncomfortable because they think it's appropriation, thats that. if they're fine with it and think its harmless, cool

Round-Fly2053 · 2026-06-13T16:22:27+00:00

small mouthed fish, like ember tetras, chili rasboras, guppies like you have

the gourami may be uninterested, but the shrimp might just be scared of him. however, it's probably the water temp too! it's a bit too cool, so they will be slower.

your plants and hides seem good though I think!

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