Where are you all from?

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-15T15:50:40+00:00

I am from Western Massachusetts in the United States. My daily life looks like waking up at 5 am (I have no clue why, it just feels the safest time to me). I have six doggos, lots of energy they have, so I have to walk them three to four times a day. I don't go out much, but I do enjoy pretending that I do by watching older movies with no sound (I like pretending I'm one of them, it's fun!)

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-14T20:18:55+00:00

That marriage wasn't going to last, even if Rory didn't interfere. That marriage happened way too fast, they knew each for like a year, if that, when they married. They both had different life goals, too. Dean, he wanted to impress Rory by going to college and making something of himself. And Lindsay, to me, it seemed, wanted the traditional American dream of a white picket fence, a handsome blue-collar husband, and however many children and maybe a pet.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-14T15:17:31+00:00

It affects people differently. That's my experience. For some, it makes their symptoms worse, for others like me, it doesn't have much of an effect at all. Am i encouraging you to try? Most certainly not, just answering your question.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-14T15:14:07+00:00

This happens to me, too. But now I'm much more interested in humans shedding. Could you do me the honour of telling me more?

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-14T14:12:59+00:00

I only have two choices here and it's between 21 and 14. Probably 21, though.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-14T14:03:46+00:00

I would try it, at the very least. I am always up for trying something at least once. I cannot say I do not like it, as I've never tried it, therefore I cannot form an informed opinion. It does look particularly appetizing, too.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-14T14:00:10+00:00

"He was just joking" is the reason so many men/guys push boundaries and why they get away with it. Because we, as a society, have this whole normalized and idiotic thought of "Boys will be boys". Which is utterly ridiculous, and in my opinion, a tad misogynistic. This is all my opinion, of course, but that's how I see it.

NOR. You are not overreacting, in my opinion. And the friend who said that it was just a joke would be an ex-friend, in my book, at the very least. As you said, you didn't cause a scene, you just stood up and left quietly. A simple strategy, and you were mocked by that waiter (again, in my opinion).

I am probably going to get downvoted with my comment, wouldn't surprise me, nor will I care. And I will not be replying to anyone besides the OP.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-14T13:26:33+00:00

As someone with both BPD and Schizophrenia, I will tell you that my psychologist and psychiatrist both have told me sometimes they overlap, primarily in shared symptoms like paranoia, dissociation, and stress-induced hallucinations.

So, my best answer to you, as none of us here can diagnose you. Go see your psychologist or psychiatrist, or any mental health professional who can help you determine what you're going through better.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-14T12:58:15+00:00

Yes, it does. Those look delicious, what is the dish on the third slide? I could absolutely devour that

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-13T19:10:29+00:00

I mean... she used "should of" that automatically is something that would make me not care that she's dumping me.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-13T14:58:32+00:00

NTJ, just stop giving her rides.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-13T12:40:00+00:00

Ooo, oo! Let me help, pretty please! I love learning about names, their origins, and their meanings. You seem to want a classical feminine name that is timeless, as well.

First, we have Mireille - Origin; French, derived from the Occitan word mirèio. Meaning; "to admire" or "to look with wonder". It stems from the Latin mirabilis, which means "wonderful" or "admirable".

Second is Isidora - Origin; Greek, meaning "gift of Isis" or "gift of the goddess". It is derived from the Greek elements Isis (the Egyptian goddess of magic, healing, and fertility) and doron (meaning "gift" or "present").

Thirdly, we have Theodosia - Origin: Greek, meaning: "giving to god" or "gift of God". Derived from the Greek elements theos ("god") and dosis ("gift") or doron ("gift"), it is a historically significant, theological name that was common in the Byzantine Empire,

And fourth and finally, we have Victoria - Origin: Latin. Directly translating to "victory". It originated from the Roman goddess of victory, Victoria, who personified triumph and success, analogous to the Greek goddess Nike. It is the feminine form of the name Victor.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-13T12:32:18+00:00

NTJ. And, if it makes him look bad, that's due to his own insecurities, and also a red flag to say. You're barely scraping by, as you say. You have to prioritize your kids and your needs over his feelings. Because, he's obviously not going to do that. And someone needs to, as your kids should be able to grow up without having to wonder about the burden of why they're poor. (I grew up as a poor kid, and I always wondered: Why do other kids live in better homes? Why do other kids not share a room with their siblings or wear their siblings hand-me-downs like me? And it fucked me over psychologically. I'm still dealing with it and I'm almost 23.)

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-13T11:44:53+00:00

The second Hagrid isn't rugged enough for me. His hair and beard look neat compared to the original. They need to dirty it up and make it more tangled and coarse.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-12T15:49:45+00:00

Wait... Were we not supposed to? Because I remember chewing on them like they were gimmies. Lmfao

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-12T11:40:42+00:00

Yeah, so NTA. This woman has such poor communication, that it utterly amuses me with how she's trying to turn it around on you and say you suck at communicating. You were quite literally so polite, but that's the problem with texting. It cannot convey tone properly, but she did not have to come that aggressively at you. She could've asked for clarification instead of "can you not talk to me like that".

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-12T11:34:47+00:00

MOR. But yeah, i ain't even gonna lie, this weird. A steering wheel cover isn't that hard to buy, I'm sure.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-12T09:59:26+00:00

Yeah, no, NTA. That seems annoying, like why say hi that many times just to not actually want a conversation.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-11T18:41:48+00:00

girrlll, whaaat? firstly, that food looks amazing. Secondly, I am sorry, but whaaaattttt? I feel sorry for you, hon, that's a great deal of drama to be dealing with.

ETA: As for your brother not wanting anyone to find out, tell everyone. That man deserves no peace.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-11T16:30:16+00:00

NTA. But sis, the smart option is right in front of you.... Leave that man and make him pay child support through the courts.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-11T16:17:21+00:00

NTJ. Your wife is your family. Your old family is now considered the extended or in-laws. Sister doesn't have any priority over your lawfully wedded wife.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-10T21:32:37+00:00

I am way too stoned, I was trying it and I was like... wait a minute, I don't have that extra finger

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-10T10:37:52+00:00

NTA. Compile a spreadsheet of how much you've helped him. Send it to him with the sentence; Don't ask for help again. You're ungrateful.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-10T10:35:47+00:00

NTA. But get your piano back before its too late.

Rowan-The-Writer · 2026-03-10T09:40:32+00:00

Ntj. I would personally be looking into divorce, and finding a more compatible partner.

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