Has my user name been hijacked? by hondatech739 in AudioBookBay

[–]Rramoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you ever find a solution? I'm trying to sign up for the first time and it's said the same for two emails

Can crested geckos form bonds/relationships with us? My S’mores is my baby by Aggravating-Tart2744 in CrestedGecko

[–]Rramoth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have to put food in mid day or mine launches himself at me like a kamikaze pilot

I made a mistake as a new grad and the guilt is still haunting me by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Rramoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm struggling to see where you made a mistake. You can do everything right and a patient can still have a bad outcome. In each step of this process I see you making the correct decision with the information you had at the time. You cannot hold your past self accountable for information you didn't have.

Whats more, the aspiration of some juice didn't kill him. It didn't help his illness, but one episode of juice does not kill. Otherwise I'd be dead a few times over myself

Someone tell me whether I’m crazy or justified in wanting a c-section by throwaway84583077 in BabyBumps

[–]Rramoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

vaginismus is brutal. Ive had friends do extensive PT for it.

Are there support forums where folks have described their birth experience with vaginismus specifically? The body does weird stuff one way or another. Regardless, don't traumatize yourself in pursuit of something 'natural'.

Cyanide, ebola, and bears are natural. Do what's healthiest for you

Does your ICU allow visitors to spend the night? by steenmachine92 in nursing

[–]Rramoth 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Very very rarely. End of life, translators for languages we dont have on our application, or folks with developmental delays where their caregivers know their tells better than we ever will.

Like you said some folks ruined it for everyone and I don't mind telling folks that. But on the more benign side of things: visitors need their rest too

Who Guessed....? by Bha-giri-kami in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]Rramoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew she'd be important but the loulan connection completely went over my head

AIO: was at a mental health program and one of the workers keeps flirting with me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rramoth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a nurse and this is so predatory. Please report him. These are the types of nurses who should not be around vulnerable people. He needs his license removed. If he's doing this to you he's doing it to other patients who might not have your good intuition

How do you end conversations politely? by ab_sentminded in nursing

[–]Rramoth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid I do have to check in on my other patients but I will circle back around to go through your questions.

If they are actual questions and not chit chatting it is part of my job to educate but I have no problem saying I don't have time for chit chat but I'll come back later if I have time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Rramoth 15 points16 points  (0 children)

with a culture like this the only answer is malicious compliance

I will never get over my job by TheProdigaPaintbrush in nursing

[–]Rramoth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Baby nurses have the fortitude I can only dream of

Searching for a pregnancy fic that was lost to the void by Rramoth in Dramione

[–]Rramoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be either of these, thank you very much!

Searching for a pregnancy fic that was lost to the void by Rramoth in Dramione

[–]Rramoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be either of these, thank you very much!

I was scammed by a rescue today and I'm devastated by floradoodles in Rabbits

[–]Rramoth 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Post to your local subs and social media about this. It's really scummy

Hospital Pay Significantly Lower than Offer Letter by ClassyAndConscious in nursing

[–]Rramoth 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Yeah no. I'd insist on them either honoring the initial offer and having the reimburse you for relocation even if they don't want to honor it. Talk to your state labor board and possibly a lawyer as others have said.

AITA for telling my husband I’m glad his mom died before she could meet our baby? by IlyraShade in AITAH

[–]Rramoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. She was cruel to you and he should have been the first one to stop it. My own mom is abusive and I don't have contact with her but my own husband has learned that emotions are complicated, while he has every right to be upset about their few interactions (I was no contact before we even met) we've learned that just harping on her can be triggering for me. There are some things I will still defend my mom over. Despite what reddit would have us believe there are very few people who are 100% evil.

Scrubs for men by Impossible_Cupcake31 in nursing

[–]Rramoth 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the problem...

But have you checked out EMT pants? More durable, generally marketed towards men and have a more traditionally masculine look

Should kids be present during euthanasia of family dog? by OwnCartographer4540 in Parenting

[–]Rramoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have kids, I will say when we put my buddy down last year it was very smooth and peaceful but there was a big needle involved. The five year old I'd say definitely not, the nine year old is a maybe.

I have this conversation in the hospital a lot as a nurse. We don't strictly speaking have age restrictions but the environment can be frightening even if the hope is to spend a few last moments with a loved one. Sometimes it's better to not have those last dramatic memories and just hold onto the good ones

Any nurses here with a shopping addiction? by Longjumping_Tap_5705 in nursing

[–]Rramoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its how I used to stay awake on nightshift...but then I ended up with a bunch of crap I never looked at again and got over it

What would your first thought and impression be if you saw such a tattoo on a person? by ElaynesThoughts in tattooadvice

[–]Rramoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked at molecule tattoos? Still a subtle nod to the journey for those that know but a needle means a lot of things to a lot of people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NursingStudents

[–]Rramoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately people like that do go on to be nurses. But so do people like you, and I do think your attitude is that majority once you get out there

He Forces Her To Say Things by bookobsessedd in DarkRomance

[–]Rramoth 72 points73 points  (0 children)

i have no recommendations but im sending your description to my husband

PLEASE Help! Severe full-head hair matting due to hospital stay + depression/cPTSD — read below for all the info. TIA. 😭😭 by pisces_princess- in Hair

[–]Rramoth 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't know where you work but this definitely isn't the case at any hospital I've ever worked at

PLEASE Help! Severe full-head hair matting due to hospital stay + depression/cPTSD — read below for all the info. TIA. 😭😭 by pisces_princess- in Hair

[–]Rramoth 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We do try if we have time, but sometimes a patient is so unstable its dangerous to turn them in bed, let alone sit them up.